Monthly Archives: March 2005

Another fun day! and quite educational

HE
rather a productive day, with SB doing another 4 pages exeter maths 1a. I think she really has got to grips with the bigger and smaller thing. In the end I drew them [bigly - and yes, that word is in far from the madding crowd, so *must* exist!] in green and purple, so that the equals bit more noticeable. We also played around with the concept with manipulatives, people etc etc, having to swap places as I was the big end and she the small so that quite fun. this was liberally interspersed with pogoing up and down the room or skipping using a tape measure. SB is just such an energetic child. [so thats the PE box too!]

we had classic fm in the background, and SB did some dancing to it, and we discussed some of the pieces. She recognised some of the music as well – obviously not by name! digression alert!! That reminds me, at my parents to calm SB and my nephew down after hyper play, in which they accidently pulled down my parents curtains [big sigh!] they watched the fantasia video, and were much taken by the conductor being called mr stokovsky [or something phonetically similar], and whilst driving to Jax’s classic fm said a piece of music had been arranged by mr stokovsky, so SB piped up about it being the same one as fantasia. I was impressed.

We had fun sculpting crazy creatures out of playdough and the ELC bits [thanks again NIC]. And then made sushi with the dough, which BB and I had to pretend to eat. At this point I wasn’t sure whether we were playing the all time favourite of Mummies and Daddies, or its close runner up of Cafe. [art and drama!]

An eclectic lunch of samosa, bob the builder spaghetti shapes, pickled onions and apple [obviously her lunch!] and a calm time looking at new things on the cbeebies website. [IT]

We did some JP in the afternoon, and she’s showing interest in sounding out words in other books, though I have to do the squishing together until the word fairly obvious still. [hmm, didn't think i would get to write all this without NAKing]. got the dressing up things out and liberally scattered all over house. I was bob the builder, BB was Windy [sic] and she was………………………a princess fairy! Are all girls like this? I’m sure I wasn’t. The afternoon whizzed past, with SB making me giggle cos she really is a love [even though it sounds like I'm a bit whingy at the top of this post]

Friday is afternoon-snack-treat-Friday, and I was unable to find the popcorn, but found some sweets she got at the armouries museum last week, so she had those. We then cooked tea root veg curry together. I do try and cook tea with SB as often as poss. she enjoys it, we discuss what we are eating etc, and she whizzes up the veg she’s npt so keen on to go in the sauce [today mushroom, aubergine and red pepper] and cuts the easier veg [french beans]. Yummy!

Chris came home then [agency rang and asked him if he wanted to go back to loony tunes school today, so a lot of hysterical laughter and a no. so got to go to one a bit further up the madhouse evolutionary tree.] I took the opportunity to check other blogs and mails. SB watched a bit of cbeebies and chilled out with Dad.

After tea and bath [which both SB and BB love - cue mad splashing from both] SB wanted some pages from the usborne childrens encyclopaedia read – evolution of man, asia, breathing and polluting the planet. And for the bedtime book, she chose the dk i wonder why one on egyptians – history, geography and science!

I’m still trying to decided what I do with blogging, why I blog etc. I think it is partly diary, partly so that when I meet people IRL etc, there is more instant recognition as it were. [mind you at melrose I was told I wasn't much like my blogs, but my blogs are wordier since then]. Anyway, today I am going to do a feelings sumary!

I love my girls, we had a great fun day. SB is such a joyful child [when we are in the 90% gorgeousness!] and a pleasure to be with. BB also a really easy baby, making this transition from only child to a share as easy as it can be. I have background panics about jobs/money/moving/medicals etc, but feel proud they didn’t distract me from enjoying the here and now. [Doesn't that feel a bit American?] Now where is that red wine??

oh, and a waffle postscript. I highlighted the areas of learning really to show how a day we would have spent just like that is educational without me trying [well, apart from printing the exeter maths I guess]. I do want to regularly do maths and reading, writing too when she is happier to hold the pen, but the rest of it is just putting options on the table, and if she picks them, we do them, and if she doesn’t we don’t. This is not autonomous learning [having been reading Gills posts], but neither is it totally parent directed. I happy with it. She is after all, only 4, so my aim is at this stage to enable her to have tools to learn with, and to show her that there are lots of interesting things out there in the world, whilst keeping our feet rooted in our present. I’m glad no-one has asked me for an ed phil yet!

Giggle Girl

BB has got the most charming giggle. She likes jiggles and raspberries best, and leg waggling. It only tends to happen when SB not around, as then there is too much noise, chaos and possibly outright fear! I think BB has the best dimply smile ever anyway, but now she has this giggle instead of just wide open mouth, totally irresistible.

Sibling Issues: I think SB is jealous of the feeding of BB, and certainly if I pay BB attention at other times, it is not well received. Though i’m also in no doubt that SB really does love BB, and is really glad she is here. She often spontaneously hugs and kisses her, and tries to entertain her too. I’ve been trying to get SB really interested in something, and then do an extended nappy change so we can play. I leave the nappy off, so when SB comes up investigating [5 mins max before she is bouncing all over our bed] I can tell her its botty airtime. I’m not quite sure how best to do this.

I have always given SB a lot of attention, and don’t want her to feel that she’s not wanted as much now BB here. [I don't think she feels this at the mo] , but I certainly have had to do a lot of hard work on my relationship with SB since i went to work in Cambridgeshire before my mat leave, to get back to our previous loving position, and don’t want to jeopardise this. Particularly as I am returning to work in May. however, also love BB, and she is getting to that age where being cuddled and smiled at with a kick under her gym is not enough – although she is happy enough. SB will play on her own, but she prefers me to play with her, particularly if I am otherwise playing with BB. I do try and include her, but SB is so full on, that she can get too boisterous. When both of us here, its obviously easier. I’m hoping we can ease into a compromise pattern, but any clues??

Jax didn’t die………..

……from eating the cake. Big and Small sensibly declined! Me ‘n SB will eat anything if labelled cake!

Anyway, we nipped to see Jax – late as usual. How can it take so long to get out of the door?? Big and SB picked up where they had left off at Melrose and disappeared to play Mummies and Daddies. There was a brief contretemps over who was being Mummy after a while, and settled by them both being Mummies with babies. Small was a cutie, showing his new found jigsaw skills. BB mainly slept and fed [and was cuddled a lot by small]. Jax and I nattered, so a fun day out for all. Thankyou for having us.

Traffic back reasonably hideous, but worse in the other direction. SB fell asleep in car, so getting her to sleep now a bit problematical. She had a poor night sleep last night though, so really should drop off soon, as was exhausted.

Got back to find Chris excavating in the garage. It would make a good archaeological excercise for some willing home-edders. Actually could see some of the floor for the first time. Even better, he had some jacket potatoes on, so we got to have a scrummy eat.

It was quite a mountain of washing chris put away. However, I am sad that BB has grown so quickly that she just doesn’t seem a little baby. She is wearing clothes that SB wore when she was learning to walk, and it seems really odd. There’s a red cord dress which was one of my favs with SB, and I felt actually that I had lost something looking at it – maybe SB’s glorious early walking phase. hmm. Anyway, it does seem sad to be tidying away the 3-6 month clothes, as clothes over that age just don’t seem baby clothes to me. BB gorgeous though. Kicking in her play gym at the moment, with heavy herher sounds.

Disappearing Baby :-(

While the girls are out enjoying themselves visting Jax I’m left at home (well I was supposed to be at work…). I’ve been sorting out enormous washing piles, and the big box full of the next lot (well now in fact) of clothes for Butterbean. Packing away the 3-6 months clothes already seems silly, especially as some of the 6-9 month ones are already looking like a good fit (partly helped by big cuddly cloth nappies of course).

But it also seems a bit sad, we sort of feel that we haven’t had little baby to enjoy for very long, becuase she already is so big (stuck right up in the 100th centile and staying there), ah well, plenty to cuddle :-)

Now, back to work……

Edit – Arrgh!!!! and they have too many clothes :mad:

Edit – Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggghhhhhh!!!! and now I’ve just found some more, hiding in a ‘viking longship…’ :mad:

10% frustration [helen typing - written for benefit of Karenb!]

Gym day today, so SB had a good workout in the morning. I’m so used to us being late, that i managed to be early!! Sad that she has only one more class to go. Must find somewhere when we move. only an hour between getting home and setting off for Home Ed viking workshop. SB insisted on me cutting out her coloured in henry 8th and armour to stick on. She did do it beautifully, while I chanted ‘eat’ like some demented mantra. We touched on a bit of who he was, as she asked – 6 wives, beheaded them, tudor [not roman - lol] castles, jousting etc on a freeform.

vikings – Managed to get out of the house – at last – and we weren’t desperately late for a change. this lady has only done school groups before, so at one point asked whether we were happy with that level of mayhem! I think she did really well as it was supposed to be for 7 up, but she had a very mixed age group. It was on runes and games, so learnt each others viking names and appellations – SB decided to be ‘the beautiful’, not a surprise! We looked at runes and matched them up, and wrote our names. At this point SB wandered off and played with the gears and trainsets set up for the littlies. She returned when they got to the games, and enjoyed pulling the oar – especially as the older lads kept letting her win! She decided she must be very strong. They weren’t mad enough to let her throw the rolling pin, instead she was the fetcher. She did get 2 goes at throwing the spear outside, so is now a warrior!! Def a good afternoon for her.

On returning we were supposed to be starting on her birthday party cake – she wants a carrot cake. Instead we did some more of the exeter maths bigger or less than, and too my eternal shame [LOL!!!] i haven’t yet made cards with the signs on that she can use, or sorted out bits to do with them. Better had tonight then.

She also made a freeform ‘something’ with the Ikea starter meccano-alike set. First time she has just made something up from imagination with it, so although it is unrecognisable as something, I am very pleased.

Chris came home, and so fed up with loony tunes school that he has cancelled returning thurs and friday. Must be really bad then, as he’s never done that before, and the money is needed. Cup of tea and teacake to the rescue!

So, finally started on carrot cake – trying to make it and tea [pasta and sauce, so not high cuisine] at the same time, when SB says we are making one for Jax and Big tomorrow. We haven’t got enough baking powder, light brown sugar or wholewheat flour. Aaargh. She was insistent, so this really is a bodge job. had some tartare powder and baking soda, and it says you can make baking powder from that, so I have [I hope!] Some bread flour – perhaps a bit stodgy, and some preserving sugar! Anyway, try it out on Jax tomorrow. Managed to mix things in the wrong order due to severe levels of distraction, so really will only work if a cooking miracle happens. I will be the only parent to have provided a homemade cake, so I will just feel superior, even if inedible! [ps, i mixed all the ingredients, so no cake superior to another, as rereading this it sounds like Jax getting poisonous variety]

The the 10% frustration bit- why do we have to have such a song and dance about actually eating???? She always ends up eating it all up. She does like it, but after 2 spoonfuls shes full, and wants to mess about instead. Antoher Aaarrrgggggggggh. Especially when she says in a sweet, enquiring voice ‘are you cross yet mummy?’

SO Chris is doing bath [and getting earbending at volume 11] while I breathe in seclusion if not peace.

patched but imperfect

still sticking and repeating the headings on the DK science. sigh.

shades of melrose?

shades of melrose?

fun day

SB
nursery in the morning – which she had fun with, and showed off how good she is getting with numbers apparently. Also played a lot with her 2 best friends making sparkly pictures.

I picked her up after lunch and we went to gingerbread cottage – a really nice fun soft play area, v safe. it was my postnatal group!! She manically ran around wiht her friends while I got up to make sure she was still OK once in a while.

My Aunty Margaret visited when we got home, and did the Ikea version of beginners meccano to make a digger. SB started off helping, but then left Aunty to it!
MANY THANKS TO NIC as the crazy creatures got here today – that was quick!! So we made some crazy creatures together. I actually like playdough when we make crazy creatures with it!

We then showed Aunty Margaret how good at maths SB is, as she found the next 10 worksheet pages of 1a exeter maths, and proceded to romp through it. Our main problem is that it is obviously written for a child with reasonable manual dexterity and pen control – SB’s is all over the place. Normally i would have a manipulative around for her to show me she was getting it right. And I was going to go through the sheets and see how we could adjust them, rather than being caught on the hop. i prob help her a bit with the reading of instructions though, but he did seem to be understanding the more than less than sign and equals, it was just when they were more than or equal to that there was a glitch. I hadn’t planned to do all these in a row though, so we will backtrack and do some of the supporting activities. i do wish though that early maths books were written for those without much manual dexterity.

Still awaiting chris to sort out the cdroms – apparently joyce might have a patch he says, so fingers crossed!!
our chilli seeds have sprouted – so we decided that was exciting. We now need to put them ins ome compost – they actually have sprouted much more quickly than they do when sown – the power of chitting!

Ken Hom for tea – yummy, and the SB coloured in the armour of Henry 8th to stick on tomorrow. No we are not doing tudors, but got these sheets from visiting the royal armouries. there are quite a few work sheets on their website.

BB
giggling with jiggling skills training today [for my fun] and lots of grasping. She seems particularly fascinated with her left thumb! Still drinking well, and being a jolly baby. Was v well behaved when I was at Doctors, and had receptionist cuddling her for about 30 mins.

Me
mirena fitted this am – oh what joy. not particularly painful, and no probs now, so thats sorted! played with SB in the morning and had lots of cuddles, then picked SB up from nursery. I do like chatting with my postnatal group – so relaxing. ALso seeing the kids growing up together. 2 things in post, one from life insurance saying I need a medical as too fat – so excessively depressed. they are right of course, but I don’t like knowing about it, and a medical plus the fact I know they will hike premiums when we are already going to have such a tight budget is a real pain. The other was my purse – i had left it at my parents again – oops.

Chris
Still at dreadful south leeds loony tunes school. We are right to home ed!

edited for last word! SB obviously picked up the sign word for look, as kerfuffling not finding her pj’s, so stropped out of bedroom with hands on hips, shouting look, then doing the sign over and over, but with both hands at the same time – very emphatic! It is chris’s turn for the frustrating business of getting SB from naked into pj’s!

hmm, getting cd’s to work

Well, I got the DK world and science explorers from ebay, they work on windows 98 and we have XP. chris can normally fiddle with things to get them to work, but not this time. Grump.
Anyone use them on XP, and have a fiddle that gets them to work??
Was thinking of a few other cdroms including zoombinis, but they are also ’98, so a bit reluctant to buy something else that doesn’t work. [obviously ebay only at the mo!]

Work has emailed re contract, and I think finally we might get that sorted out. After all, I was only employed in October!!

On house move front, spoke to solicitor re the indemnity thing, as Chris wrote to them agreeing, but as it is *my* house, i have to confirm it!! He said sale might fall through without, so gritting teeth and paying up.

SB
A nursery day, which she seems to have had fun in. Certainly a really jolly gorgeous girl all evening when she got home, and remarkably easy to go to bed. bit miserable that we still can’t get the science explorer to work, as she wants to have a go.

BB
Well, a giggly girl now. Unfortunately, she enjoys ‘near throws’ up in the air – and at the weight she is, I can’t do many in a row! Certainly having great fun with rattles, baby gym and a pudding club cube that MIL got her from ELC. Squawking again, so I am making this quick!

Me
well, I think I have a lurgy, as soooooooo tired, hot and bothered etc. Think i need some sunshine!

Chris
also knackered – his head was lolling every 5 seconds or so watching the treasures programme this eve on TV!

as for car seats
? bebe confort hipsos
? recaro start – wow on price though
? britax kid
? recaro young style

Catch up blog – concerts etc

While Chris was entertaining our beans at my parents, I was putting violin practice to good use. 20 years ago [my god that long ago - i must have been about 4 LOL] with my mum and some of her friends and colleagues we set up a small chamber orchestra, which grew into a symphony orchestra [Wycombe Sinfonia]. This weekend was its birthday concert, so i went back to play again. Mum and sister also playing with dad proud in audience!! It was great fun, I wasn’t as crap as feared, and I will def join an amateur orchestra when we move.

I had no mothers day this year. reading sarahs blog though, i asked SB what she loved about me – my voice and my happy cheeks apparently. On pushing for something else, she decided I was a good tickler!

Lots of socialising and on-the-hoof ed. Some leap pad and jump ahead maths. Fri was a lot of painting, our friday treat of popcorn making and domestic skills [LOL]

Manic week ahead, and may try and sort out a viking type costume for wed home ed group.