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	<title>Comments on: getting a grip</title>
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		<title>By: Merry</title>
		<link>http://petitsharicots.org.uk/weblog/2011/10/05/getting-a-grip/#comment-8476</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Merry]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 09:07:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wish you could have a snapshot of how unbelievably little time my career focused parents spent with us and how amazingly you do in comparison.

I wish you could believe how much more you did with your kids than I do with mine.

I wish you would always see those things so that when you look back you will remember it joyfully and not feel a failure, when that is so very far from what you are.

I wish I could magic you something which helped you to see that you see your parenting giving time in the same way you see exams; that you work hard, then fret you haven&#039;t done enough, then come top and still wonder where those extra three marks went.

SB is right you know, you&#039;d do well to always listen to her :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish you could have a snapshot of how unbelievably little time my career focused parents spent with us and how amazingly you do in comparison.</p>
<p>I wish you could believe how much more you did with your kids than I do with mine.</p>
<p>I wish you would always see those things so that when you look back you will remember it joyfully and not feel a failure, when that is so very far from what you are.</p>
<p>I wish I could magic you something which helped you to see that you see your parenting giving time in the same way you see exams; that you work hard, then fret you haven&#8217;t done enough, then come top and still wonder where those extra three marks went.</p>
<p>SB is right you know, you&#8217;d do well to always listen to her <img src="http://petitsharicots.org.uk/weblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="wp-smiley" /> </p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 08:05:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Like the focussing on the positives :-). You must be so happy re the window painting.  I&#039;m happy and it&#039;s not my window. Done just in time now weather turned too :-)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like the focussing on the positives :-). You must be so happy re the window painting.  I&#8217;m happy and it&#8217;s not my window. Done just in time now weather turned too <img src="http://petitsharicots.org.uk/weblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":-)" class="wp-smiley" /> </p>
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		<title>By: Tbird Anni</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 07:21:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[am glad that all was right with the world by the evening and that you had a good chance at spending family time together.

Oh, and woohoo!!! to the paint going onto the window!!!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>am glad that all was right with the world by the evening and that you had a good chance at spending family time together.</p>
<p>Oh, and woohoo!!! to the paint going onto the window!!!!!</p>
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