tag children

bb fell asleep on the way back from gym, so we had a peaceful evening with SB, and then BB woke up with SB asleep [and still awake actually] and she has been generally playing with her mosp [a possible wasp or moth she made] and just generally being the kind of BB that you just find yourself saying, oh i love you bb. this is very lovely, since at the beginning of the year this was mostly said through gritted teeth. i’m not saying she is any more biddable… just that she can be more easily approached on the whole lets work together. [though it was SB chanting the best kind of work is teamwork!] and possibly because we have learnt how to work with bb. we are still working on the whole how to balance 2, as that is a crux problem at times, SB getting dramatically upset if the slice doesn’t fall her way. Whether its something to do with the whole unhappy unsettled thing? but i try and build as much individual time with SB as i can, doing something hers and fun. mind you, i don’t want tag children on the whole, i want to work to us 50% at least loving and enjoying the same thing. i guess we are getting there!