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Just to share…..

Just to share.....

Could there be a more Stringbeany card? Thanks Nanna and Grandad.

Just to share.....

Mmmmmm, jam and lettuce on toast, a lovely breakfast :-)

Investigating Shadows

Stringbean went to her gym session today. Enjoyed it as ever. I hope we can find something decent for her once we move. There is some sort of gymnastics centre in Huntingdon, so ought to be able to.

Anyway, after the class, we were on the way back to the car in Adsa’s car park. sun was shining, and she started talking about her shadow (it’s a topic that comes up pretty often lately). She started off wondering how big it was – she seems quite interested in measuremnts etc. often asking how big she is, crouching down etc. – not that she understands it when you tell her 106 cm or whatever. We went on to comparing her shadow with mine, then she started crouching down, and looking at what happened to the shadow – ending up with her lying flat on the ground. We marked out the height at different points with bits of twig, of course then daddy had to do the same so we could compare. The woman putting her son into her car by us loooked very bemused by this :-) We talked about what happend to the length of the shadows, and I mentioned the related idea of the sun changing position in the sky through the year.

when this sort of thing comes up I try to present her with information that is probably just abit beyond her understanding – sort of planting little seed that we will come back to as she makes sense of more things. We had another discussion the other day about the mooon the sun and the earth. It was early evening the sun was still up, and the moon was in the sky. she still thinks this is a bit wrong as the moon comes out at night :-) So we had a little chat about the Earth going round the sun, about days, about the moon going round the earth.

What i like is the way that a few weeks or months later bits of info will come back out again, as she has finally made a bit of sense of them.

afternoon was Tots club with Helen and Butterbean, I whizzed about posting DVD’s of the Fanatsy Education program from the other day, buying some more DVD discs due to demand :-) and reorganizing SB’s party.

It’s her 4th birthday on 25 Feb (day after mine), with all that was goign on we were abit disorganised and late and so had had to arrnage her party for a bit later in March. We’d arrnaged it at a local soft play type place. But with our slowness, then waiting for their invites to get to us, then Melrose, we came back to find that one of her best friends at nursey had organsised her party at the sametime – arrgh!

It’s really joint birthday/leaving party We wanted as many of her friends from nursey to come as she has been quite upset few times about leavingthem all behind so we had to reorganise. I’d have liked to have had the party at home really, but with her nursey friends, other friends from Helen’s ‘new mum’s’ group her ante-natal group, many of who have been getting together all this time, plus other friends it wasn’t an option number wise. In a normal situation we’d just said we have to only invite fewer friends.

Of course the normal venue couldn’t accomadate a different date in our timescale, and in the end we have had to resort to
Wacky Warehouse. Now as a place I don’t mind these, ok on quiet weekday afternoon anyway (a Saturday afternoon is some version of hell…). but the food at the parties is dire and there is not that sense of shared experince becuase there are other kids there and there is not much shared party experince except the eating. However, SB does enjoy them, and will probably be very happy with it, so that is really the point I guess . She did say of the original venue the other week that she thought she was getting a bit big for it – probably becuase it doesn’t have such a big high slide. :-)

We feel a bit bad at times taking her away from all her little friends, not that it can be helped. But in reality she would lose touch with lots of them anyway come September when lots will start school I imagine. And she will get new friends in her new home – probably easier than her parents. and she’ll see alot more of her grandparents, which will be nice.

OH ******* moment – the desktop has refused to boot up properly all evening – it just presents a variety of BSOD’s. We almost bought a new one before Xmas (it threw a major wobbly around BB birth), but then it started behaving better so we put it off. And now of course we are up to our eyes in house buying. It’s apain because we use the desktop as the server, though most stuff is backed up.

BB and SB with new playgym

BB and SB with new playgym


Helen Johnson

woohoo it worked!!!! though probably was a bit mean on the resolution. No idea how to put it in an already written blog though??

For Sarah :-)

For Sarah :-)

Sorry, we don’t really have good one, but she has a purple bobble in her hair a la Abbie at Melrose sometimes :-) It’s funny becuase she didn’t really seem to play with her much, but obviously noticed this.

A Bedtime Fairy

A Bedtime Fairy

Friday night, on our return from Melrose, Stringben still in Muddlepuddle Camp fairy mode..

I want to stay and learn some more……

‘I want to stay and learn some more’ were Stringbean’s words when we had to leave the ‘dome’ where they had and audio/visual show at the end of Dynamic Earth, seemed an appropiate comment for an allegedly Home Ed blog.

Anyway, she did seem to enjoy herself there, it is very good, but in the way of these things does feel that it lacks a bit of substance. Maybe you need to view it more as a ‘show’ than a museum type place. Fair enough I guess, but it seems a shame that more concrete info couldn’t have been included somehow.

Helen has posted a few comments on the Muddlepuddle Winter Camp at Melrose, so here are some snippets/impressions of mine.

It was a great week – children had much ‘running free’ and endless playing, parents (moslty) had some time for relaxing, chatting, eating, staying up late, and even a bit of discussion on HE, some even spent sometime with their offspring.

- A car park half full of people carriers can mean only one thing….

- We were one of the later ones to arrive on the Sunday, there was a wonderful sense of chaos when we entered the hostel – would we ever make sense of this?

- Stringbean was a bit bemused/overwhelmed at first I think by the number of children, and the amount of space to run around in and play, and as some of the children already knew each other, she seemed a bit of a loss as to how to fit in at first, but after a couple of days she?d settled into it all and became one of the ever present fairy/princess gangs running wild around the hostel, in particular she really seemed to hit it off with Jax?s Big (though they did make rather a mess of Jax?s room ? sorry?.). It was good to see her playing so well, and a learning experience for us as we realised we?d never been in a situation where she had been away from us for so much time and we didn?t know were she was.

- The food ? all seemed to work pretty well, Helen managed to cook various pots of curry that seemed to go down well, and there was plenty for lunch the next day. And thanks to all the other cooks as well, esp. Ros and co for the pancakes.

- The dressing up ? esp. numerous small girls running around as fairies or Princesses ? I hardly recognised Maddy out of her P&P dress :-) and I forgotten which small boy it was who kept popping in a tiger or leopard suit. Quite a few knights were running around as well, ?not with real swords? though, as I was often informed.

- Cup cake decorating ? a bit of an impromptu activity as we had been meant to do them at home, but various others enjoyed joining in as well ? a bigger batch will be made for the next time.

- Making Chinese dragons ? SB was very upset when she thought she had missed out on this ? luckily she hadn?t

- Resources, it was good to be able to look at lots of various books and resources people had brought with them. Esp. I felt that we were maybe ?underbooked? ? didn?t come home with too big a list??

- Being part of ?big gang ? at Dynamic Earth was fun.

- Swimming, we also did the Galashiels tour before finding the pool. As Helen mentioned, SB tried drowning herself :-(. She wouldn?t normally go and get in big pool without us, but she saw a slide and probably assumed it was shallow like the pool she normally goes to, while I was deciding where to put the towels, she was down the slide, and I turned round to see the top of her head bobbing in the water ? she did quite a good job of using her arms and legs to keep herself from just sinking really?. She was unfazed by the experience and enjoyed the swimming. It was also Butterbeans first swim, and she also enjoyed it ? all her fat meant she seemed to be very good at floating :-)

- Tea and cake, there was so much lovely baking people had brought, it was hard to have enough cups of tea to try them all. A particular favourite of mine, was Ros? Cinnamon swirl thing.

- Late nights – sharing a glass of wine and chewing the cud once most of the kids were in bed was a nice way to end the day. Doing it while staying up to 2 in the morning was enjoyable, though probably not sensible.

- A bit of quiet. Getting back before most of the others (for some reason) from dynamic earth meant we could enjoy the hostel in ?quiet mode? for little while.

- The Gruffalo?s Child ? bought the book half price from Waterstone?s earlier, brought it out for Melrose. SB loves it, as did various others given by the number of times it kept disappearing :-) Highly recommended for any that enjoyed ?The Gruffalo? (is there a child that doesn?t?).

- Meeting all these people in real life ? esp. as some people, like Alison and Nic I?ve ?known? online for some years now in various places. It was good to put faces to names (and then try to remember who had which blog) Though sometimes I felt a little disappointed that people weren?t like how I expected them to be :-) A few more real world friendships have probably been made here.

- Apologies ? I hope those with less amenable youngsters weren?t too put out by Butterbeans eat/cuddle/sleep relaxed approach to life. After Stringbean we are really appreciating it.

- Admiration ? for Barbara, Merry and anyone else coping with a number of small children on their own there, but it was good to see all the help given by all and sundry, and how happy the kids were (with a few exceptions….) to accept so many other adults. And yes Merry, Amelie is cutie IMO :-)

- Mucking in. It all seemed to work, the food got cooked, it was kept clean, the kids were looked after, ?stuff? happened, people made allowances for various peoples abilities/time etc. without fuss ? we are obviously all such lovely people :-).

It was a great time, hope to see everyone, and some new faces in the future.

Well wrapped

This is really just a test posting from Flickr, which i’ve just started playing with.

The piccie is Butterbean at Muddlepuddle Melrose ‘camp’ well wrapped up when we went to the playground.

How many potatoes………?

We were pondering this as we loaded the car – how many potatoes will we need for curry for 35 portions? – 5 kg or 10 kg?

Anyway, car is pretty much packed, lunch has been eaten, we many even hit the revised dep time of 2 pm (no point in leaving to early as we can’t get into the YH until 5, and it’ll take about 4 hours to get there), feel totally disorganised, but a break from home will be good.

Will hear about the survey on monday or tuesday though – hope it’s ok.

Ok Melrose here we come………… :-)

Tune in next week……..

Cracked it?

Well, via the Estate Agent we have survey arranged on Monday. The vendors have agreed accept our offer if we get the survey done. So, a bit back to front, but we seem to be getting there.

But what delights will the survey hold………..

Arrrgh!!! I want to get back to life.

House buying gets more complicated by the day. Seems the vendors managed to negotiate alower price for their purchase. however, the others potentiall buyers for the house we are after, increased their offer to ?500 less than ours. but they are renting, so no house to sell, so in strong postion. however, they ahve not yet accpeted either offer. Down in part at least to the agents we are dealing with. (The other offer is via another agents, so we have agents as well as buyers competting to get the sale.)

So he is working on them, tryign to convince them off what good buyers we are, how much we love the house (he thinks that they would like buyer who they think will cherish the house and garden liek they have – the hubby esp.) He is going to suggest some possible thing about us gettign survey on the house done first, to show we mean buisness. They lost a sale earlier and they don’t want to lose another one, or I guess they will lose their house, and they have been on the market since last summer at least I think.

I dunno, it’s all getting complicated, i’m torn between trying whatever it takes, and just saying – here it is the offers, take it or leave it. This house purchase ended up as sealed bids, and we hoped toa void such hassles this time – i mean, it’s been on the market months, as soon as we are able to put in an offer some else comes along at the same time …..

Want to concetrate on getting ready for Melrose etc., instead been busy with other thoughts really.