Interview Me

Interviewed by Monster and Teeny’s Nic.

1. How did you and Chris meet?

well i guess that the duke of edinburgh introduced us, with a bit of help from my dad!
To get into med school I did the duke of edinburgh gold award, and had done all but the week away thing. I was finishing the first year and asked dad just to arrange something, so he chose a british trust for conservation volunteers week, making steps for a footpath at boxhill. Chris was the driver/cook and I needed a diversion after my exams! obviously very diverting.

2. How did you hear about HE and who convinced who?

Think this is 2 questions really!
At about 2ish, i decided that i wasn’t that keen for SB to be thrust into a large class at an early age. thinking she was going to be our only, i looked into private ed, and there is a lovely family school nearby. it has small groups, nurturing environ etc, and i thought that sounded good. I also thought about just starting late – 7ish, which i think is more sensible. Chris also was thinking along same non-school lines for similar reasons, but caught a thread on one of the NG about home ed and joined some lists first. About 2 1/2 we discussed it, and started to think seriously about home ed. I guess chris was the primary driver as off and on, i still think i may have gone the private route if no money issues, and an equally friendly place where we are moving. Partly cos last year in partic the grown up HE groups were scary places and it seemed inevitable that SS would knock on your door, and only children with special needs that school had failed, children that had suffered bullying, or those with very unconventional ways of life were HE. [I consider myself v conventional] However sticking mostly to mud pud, and meeting HE-ers from there and also yorks region has been good.
i still think we can do a far better job than school, but look at it in bite-size chunks, that we will HE until SB 8, and think then on how it has gone, and whether still right thing to do. now we have that decision, I think in typica Helen style I have then gone about looking at the practicalities and retail therapy with more of a vengeance than Chris!

3. Describe yourself in three words

This sounds like one of those dreadful moments in medical interviews when they want to know the difference between clinical governance and audit ‘in three words’ [bugger all really]
Not Really Sure? [maybe will come back to this?]

4. Songs and readings at funeral
well, hopefully someone to stand up to say I had a good innings, was happy in my life, and leave behind a lot of love. music can be vaughn williams lark ascending. [green burial under tree please]

5. What would I like SB and BB to say about me as a mother
another tricky one really, as I so want it all to be positive!
I guess it is important to me that they remember home primarily as a place of love and safety. hopefully that Chris and I worked as a team to put in place what we could to help them acheive their dreams. I want them to have felt loved, valued and empowered. With lots of laughter on the way. That perhaps I juggled work and home OK so that has given them more confidence in making their choices. I would like them to feel that I was still loving and affirmative of their choices, however different, when they reached adulthood. Also that we could agree to disagree without any loss of respect or trust.

I guess that is it. Thanks Nic.

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