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Party and packed :-)

Had a good joint birthday party for SB with Maddy (of Patch of puddles) at Activity World, of those in attendance who might blog it are alos busy prepapring for Melrose Muddlepuddle camp. so ‘a good tiem was had by all’ is about all you’ll likley get here. SB wa spleased to ahve some of here good friends come and pleased as well that soem of them are staying over here tonight, none seem to ahve got to the sleeping stage yet though. Plenty piccies, but flickr will have to wait. Edited to add flickr photos – the last our camera will ever take, as didnt work the next day – who knows why!
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To finish off a nice day the car is pretty much packed for tomorrow, and what isn’t is on the list on the fridge, so no real, excuse for not getting away on time tomorrow. Really looking forward to it.

Merry took some really nice piccies

Tate Modern

Today, as advertised, me and the Beans went off on trip to the Tate Modern gallery with some other local-ish home edders. And ajolly good day it was too, though by the time we got back I was well tired.

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With only a modicum of geeing-up of Stringbean we managed to leave the house on time and got to the station nicely in time as well. Got found on the train by one of the group, and after a little while I went off to the loo to find on return that SB, being the sociable creature that she is, had settled her self in with some of the other girls and spent the rest of the journey happily with them. Whilst I chatted to other parents, and kept a rein on BB’s wanderings. So the train journey, and the bus at the end were quite painless really.

Tate Modern

Tate Modern is great, I love the building anyway, a great hulk of a building sitting across the Thames from St Paul’s catherdral with it’s great tall chimmney. You’d never build a power station in the middle of a city nowadays. And the conversion to art gallery has been very successfull, . To get to the main entrance you go down this big wide slope, – kids just can’t resist running down it., though the doors there is another great wide sloping concrete floor to the base of the hall, with the vast space of the turbine hall, going right up to the glass roof, it’s really breathtaking, SB was quite gobsmacked by it. I can see shy they say it’s such a challenge for artists who get to do something in there.

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Rachel Whitereads ‘ boxes’ (Ok, Embankment), which are there at the moment were interesting , in pictures looking nothing like some much as a child’s constuction frorm sugar cubes, it’s both vast and subtle, bland and complex. They are made from some sort of slightly translucent white plastic, so there is quite an interesting quality to the look of them and the way they respond to the light. And where you first just see blandness and repetition, as you wander amongst them you start to notice more the little details of the boxes, lines, shapes of hand holes etc. The organised arrangement of some and apparent randomness of other, I could have wandered around for ages. SB enjoyed it, mostly I guess for it’s maze like nature, and BB managed to almost get lost in it, until I heard her wailing around the corner.

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We also caught the last day of the Rousseau exhibition, which was good, though having a 4 yo and a 1yo in buggy meant I couldn’t really do it justice, and being the last day, and a Sunday meant that it was pretty packed so getting to view pictures easily was awkward at times, and it made it bit difficult to sit and talk with SB about them (or for her to see them). but she certainly did enjoy some of them, though did after while, say that she didn’t want to look at more pictures of animals :-) But by now she was moping a bit becuase we had lost contact for bit with the others, and she wanted to be going around with some of the other kids. She was struck by the Emmanuel Fr?miet sulpture of a Gorrilla abducting woman (as they do) at the beginning as well. Enjoyed it it anyway.

By now SB was wanting bit of break, and I fancied some coffee, so we got drinks (I spilt hot coffee on her ear which went down well…. ) and sat and read couple of Roald Dahl’s Revolting Ryhmes – I love the one about Cinderella where the Prince chops of the heads of the ugly sisters :-), went to the shop for mild amount of retail therapy, then bumped into some of the others so we sat down some more. Well actually, mostly I chased down BB or wandered around with her, as she just wanted to head off in all directions. While SB sat and ate/chatted/played with some of the other childrens so she was happy.

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Then off for some more browsing, SB’s favourite piece undoubtably was Anish Kapoor’s Ishi’s Light The inside of the ‘egg’ is dark reddy coloured and reflective. You walk into it and there is some weird optical effect which i’m still pondering which means the surfaceappears to be much closer to you than it is, so you reach out to touch it and it appears to not be there. From outside it can appear that the person sarm has almost gone into the surface. Very odd, not sure if it’s more interesting in it or outside watching others inside it. She was also taken by a piece whose artist/name I’ve forgotten, which had two birds, as if in flight attached to the wall with arrows through them above an almost sketched bit of city building/skyline. We spent bit of time going around with Holly and Steve who had organised the trip and SB quite took to Holly, who was good at getting her to think a bit about the works we were looking at. I found the room linking Monet and Absract Expressionism interesting The rest of the gallery was busy, but not crowded, so it was rather easier here.

Then it soon enough became time to head home , SB excited to be able to go up on the top deck of the bus with some of the others, whilst I was on the lower deck with BB On the train, kids all sat at one end of the carriage and tried to watch Madagascar on Steves laptop, well done that man :-) Most of the rest of the adults sat a little bit further away and had good natter. BB slept all the way pretty much, so I had a nice quiet time as well.

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And then we were home. Sadly SB woke up when put in her bed, but once we’d had some tea etc. they both zonked out again.

It was a great trip, though by the end of it I was kanckered, not helped by endlessy chasing after BB. SB had a great time, and as ever loved to make some new friends, she really is such a sociable soul. I too found it good to meet up with some new people, and as most of the kids were a bit older than the usual Muddlepuddle crowd we hang out with it was sort of interesting to see a slighty different dynamic going on, and to see maybe glimpse of SB in few years time. Special thanks I think go to the two older sisters (about 11 I think) who were really good with SB and took her under their wing a bit.
She’ll be wanting to meet them all again I think :-)

I thoroughly recommend the Tate Modern, We don’t really get round to visiting a lot of art galleries it must be said, but I do enjoy it when we do. And I do like the way modern/contemporary art challenges you and makes you think (well soem of it, like any other art, some is boring/rubbish/’waht is the point’ wetc.
A now, much later than intended, I’m off to bed, but I wanted to write this whilst fresh in my mind.

Didn’t take many piccies, but some will appear in the usual place of course in due course.

Pottering

Today we’ve been mostly pottering about (except Helen who sadly is working this weekend).

SB started off preparing for our trip tommorrow, we are off to the Tate Modern with some localish HEers , though no one I’ve met before I think. So she was packing a bag with goodies for the journey – is the girl excited I wonder? Shame Helen isn’t coming with us though. We then pottered about upstairs, sorting out nappies while changing Butterbean, putting some of Stringbean’s clean clothes away. Butterbean ambled about, SB created a trail of cuddley toys around the upstairs which when then had to race round, she dressed herself in another seasonal outfit of shorts and sleevesless T shirt, and then complained when she got cold….. :roll:

Took about 1/2 hour it seemed to cross the road to go to the shop and the bakers, as BB walked, so of course was toddling along investigating all and sundry. Came back to have late breakfast. By the time we had finished BB was up for a sleep (after polishing off pretty much a whole croissant – good taste that girl).

So me and SB had some time together. Not entirely sure what we did, at some point there was a bit of CBeebies and then she spent a fair while on Starfall which seems to be enjoying at the moment. Had a discussion about accents and pronunciation as the voice (American) seems to have bit of a twang (Bob sounded more like Baarrrb). She came up with some complicated shopping/selling game where i was supposed to be knocking on the door and selling various things. Talked a bit about the trip tomorrow, looked at the maps to see where we would be going, then went off on tangents, to see other places we have lived. Did some reading, sorted out some washing, tidied up kithcen a bit, had lunch, all that sort of thing.

BB eventually woke up about 2.40 (getting on for about 4 hours sleep) had her lunch, then we got organised to go out on the bikes, not far just up the road really to the Orchard where we buy most of out apples and pears,, SB on her bike, me towing BB in the trailer , but by the time we got wrapped up, bikes out, pottered up there,, while chatted to the chap SB/BB explored and then got home it took about 1 1/2 hours., Snugggled up for a bit with warm drinks and crumpets and read some of the Stories of the World book,and then Helen got back home, and then we swung into dinner, bath, bed routine. Which is going quite smoothly at the moment, SB seems to have got over her not being able to get to sleep for a couple of hours thing, and BB goes down easily now as well, as long as she doesn’t sleep late in the afternoon/early evening. and she slept through again last night.
Things that made me smile section: BB likes doing little ‘dances’ to music, tonight she sat on the floor in front of this little musical keyboard we have , rocking side to side to the music :-)
Now time to sort out bag etc. for tomorrow, so I”m not rushing around getting stressed in the morning

For my next trick.

Well BB’s sleep had got a lot better, she was sleeping through for a few nights which was nice.

However, Tuesday night she was all over the place, and thr last two nights she has woken at maybe 4 – 4.30 am or so, been awake/fussing, eventually screaming so much that we give up and give her? a feed and then staying awake…… Well yesterday she went back to sleep around 6.45 – 7. The ‘I’ll happily have? cuddle in your arms standing up, but as soon as you sit down I’ll cry’? trick is particularly endearing.

Playhouse

Nanna and Grandad want to buy SB and BB nice playhouse for the garden as a joint birthday/xmas present, been having browse, as you do. Me and Helen like this one, though SB said ‘Phew’ when we said it was to expensive as she didn’t want it. Not girly enough I suspect and she wants one with stairs.

Pirates and Princesses

Which is what we have had here this weekend – well pirate singular I guess really.

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We of course have been ‘Rained on‘ – (sorry, or should that be Raine-ed?)) with a visit from Home Ed friends Barbara and the kids – sadly Chris wasn’t able to come as well. It was a lovely visit, Stringbean already had herself and Butterbean prepared, she insisted on the BB outfit :-)
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Her and E spent pretty much all weekend in the Princess outfits, they just swopped outfits the second day for a change. B spent most of his time in the pirate outfit. They all played beautifully, hardly any contretemps, much of the time we didn’t see them as they were playing upstairs, with those endlessly convoluted and ever changing kids games. SB did get sulk once because the others ‘were being horrible to her’ – or some such. It transpired that they weren’t doing what they were told :-) I did wonder how B would get on, but he was great and he and SB had good fun playing together. When we’ve been away together with them at HE camps they’ve not played together much as B has been off playing with other boys a lot, so it was nice to see them getting on so well. So apart from coming down to eat, read the odd book

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or play the odd game,

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Or just prance about,

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that was their weekend really, and a good time was had by all. There was even a bit of education when they used the stethoscope to listen to their heartbeats

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Meanwhile R and BB did some bonding , it was so cute to see them playing together.

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R showed great ability in the food scavenging stakes, appearing with oranges, apples etc. that she found in the fruit bowl, or just wandering into the kitchen to blag some more food with a hopeful look :-) she is very much at the ‘Cheeky chimp’ stage. So her and BB did the toddler poddle about to great effect.

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And the grownups sat and drank tea/coffee/wine as appropriate and chatted about HE and this and that, and that was about it. Barbara drooled over our Story of the World books. We would probably have gone out some where for bit today, but Helen wasn’t feeling up to much with a migraine, so we didn’t. And that was all jolly nice as well. The nice grown up evening in the sitting room, sans child clutter with wine and a nice log fire was a little spolit by BB waking up after 1/2 hour asleeep in bed and not wanting to go back to sleep until we went to bed. She did then sleep all night though.
It was lovely to have them stay, and everyone (adult and child) pretty much ate whatever they were offered, so that was probably a first as well :-)

Suppose I’d better go to bed before BB decides to wake up….

Fastr, Fastr, more Flickr timewasting

From the Flickr Blog, it’s Fastr a game where you have to guess the tag of a group of pictures before others do.

Ooops, forgot the title

Definately one of those days when you feel rather more relaxed onc e the children are in bed. There’s been nothing greatly wrong with the day, it’s just long for both of us. Helen usually has a long day at work, so buy the end of it I’ve got that ‘time for some peace and quiet’ feeling. both were up this morning with me and Helen, though both went to sleep no problem either. BB was out like a light. Lets hope it stays that way.

BB has developed a rather load ‘shout’ for want of better term, which she uses increasingly when she wants something. She shouts when she sees something she wants to eat, open the frdige and she is there shouting and pointing :-) She shouts when you open the dishwasher, whatever it is she shouts. It’s a rather tiring noise when she ahs been doing it all day…..

BB has also turned into a real Speedy Gonzales with her shoes. At the library today during storytime she kept heading off in all directions, she got into a cupboard, and made it through two doors (that close slowly) to get to the outside – eeek! – just caught her in time. She used to just happily pottle around the area we were in, now she just heads off on a mission. She needs tethering I think.

So ok, early part of the morning passed with breakfast, some reading, CBeebies website, BB pootling etc. while I prepared a craft activity for Storytime which I was doing this week. SB decided to wear her Princess Belle dress to the library and she took her slippers as well so she could show them off as well. So that all raised a few smiles. Other than an escaping, wailing, crayon eating, crayon box emptying BB, storytime was fine, as ever SB was the last to finish her craft bit as she has to colour final bit, stick on a final sticker etc.

Home to meet Nanna and Grandad who had popped in for couple of hours, so reading, chatting, tea drinking, lunch, cakes etc. ensued. As theyleft BB woke up, so time for her lunch when she eventually stopped crying and fussing (about 30-45 mins, not like her). elinor slipped again into craft mode, she wanted to wrap somethign up for mummy, not sure what, so made some wrapping paper with various sparkles etc. on, made another picture, strung a load of pipecleaners together to make a chain – apparently it is a christmas decoration – according to SB we have got plenty of time to get more pipe cleaners and make lots more before christmas :-) We were supposed to be doing soem more maths but somehow that didn’t happen. I ahd to get dinner ready before going to swimming, so inbetween gluing and sticking BB pottled about shouting at things, they played abit etc. Then off to swimming lessons where BB again made a break for a door once she spotted it open.

Home to tea (nothing like coming home hungry to smell you tea that you left in the oven all nice and cooked ) bath, arrival of tired mummy, a bit of playing, much munching on BB part and sleeping children.

Other Nanny visiting tomorrow , on the way to Norfolk, oh dear, better get and do some more house sprucing:-)

I’m not sure which is worse.

That some people would take it seriously enough to be interested in buying/investing in the program or that some people offered to appear on the purported show?

Making a baby, making Mischief (scroll down)

What is sad is that it doesn’t actually seem that surprising a suggestion anymore.

Sleeping through

Yep, BB slept through last night. It isn’t the first time, but I forget when it last happended. Except for a brief waking around 9.30 ish she was slept from about 8.30 to 7.30.

Which was nice, and more than her sister did, but then she doesn’t really disturb us very much.