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3 books for your shelf!

I know all 3 of the authors, 1 is a sister, 2 are friends and met through home educating. 2 fiction and one self help manual. Have a look at the blurb and consider buying :)

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the wednesday blog – late due to router outage!

Hmm we seem to have no internet access. The router is off, so who knows how long we will be internet free for! So I had better put a little bit of blog down here!

So far this week the girls have done a fair bit of home ed type stuff. SB has been quite busy with music practice, predom clarinet and viola, and BB has been ecstatically doing loads of getty and dubay so has nearly finished book A, and is now on explode the code book 1 = much excitement! I think she is getting more confident with the idea of reading, but doesn’t really want to practice it much!! A lot of crafty stuff has been done too! Painting some more of those animals we had at the party, and colouring. Oh, and maths, spelling etc etc! lots of reading, as the reading challenge is back on, and playing with rabbits.

On wed we went to visit sis. SB and M played golf with dad, which they both enjoyed. We have to fix some more golf lessons for her! I took down loads of craft, and the kids had fun painting suncatchers. Saw that M had been doing loads of the other craft kits I have given him, so that is good! Viv is doing her best, and certainly her walking is improved, so she got from bed to table for lunch, and a bit of moving around. Dad has built a ramp for a wheelchair to her door, as the OT said that the space was too small!! Has meant that he can wheel her out into the garden so doesn’t get so trapped feeling. Not that we got out when we were there. The weather was pretty awful! Including a very dreadful thunderstorm and rainstorm whilst we were driving. My sis and her family have my heart and thoughts at the moment, as do my parents, who are trying to make her reality work as best as they can

and to update and leave on a lighter moment! SB and BB continued to do lots of home ed, with BB falling in love with explode the code, and SB doing a complete schofield and simms workbook today! there has also been some reorganisation of bookshelves in the girls room, and SB started painting her ornament shelves.

we are much enjoying reading this at bedtime

going on safari

this weekend was a safari at home themed weekend! we had planned a home ed party on a will it/won’t it basis dependant on the needs of my sister. we tidied the house. [since it is currently tidy by our standards, am going to see whether we can keep it that way! a slight fly – or louse – in the ointment was that my niece E had had a bad infestation of nits and lice, and with persistent combing i eventually found 4 eggs on BB one day, then 1 nymph the next. thankfully no more! My head has been persistently itchy, but no findings.

SB’s we couldn’t assess, as she had Brownie camp week! and she loved it – woohoo!! she is quite sensitive to teasing/bullying as we don’t do this at home, and nor do her home ed friends on the whole, so she is always totally devastated. there are a couple of brownies who are more teasing/bullying who i just advise her to avoid. I am entirely at a loss to the best strategy for this as although i was teasted/bullied/ostracised at various times at school, and it made me ‘sad’ it was more that i knew my parents would be sad, and TBH, i think i might be too slightly on the spectrum for me to have thought it my be an issue with me! SO currently i tell SB that this kind of thing happens, and will happen a lot in life. but… it is not related to her, and that some teasing is just that, and should be laughed and shrugged off as part of friendly banter – and some is someone trying to make themselves more important. the way to tell is if it is done with a smile and laugh and moves on to someone else by someone else v quickly, and the latter is not done with a smile, but by one person to one or several, and occais others join in. and that is best dealt with ignoring at the time, and telling me or a leader that it isn’t nice and is making you uncomfortable, or, if with other friends, linking arms with them and laughing it off and changing subject. dunno. advice? but it wasn’t a big issue this time, just one thing that made her cry when telling me, but she had a ball otherwise.

anyway, we tidied hard! cut out and painted an elephant to drape over the climbing frame, cooked and baked and generally made ready. and on saturday our guests started to arrive. we had a lovely time, and were v happy to see all those that came again, and missed those that didn’t. the kids ran around having fun and laughing, and negligible spats or unhappiness or swing injuries! there was plenty of utterly delish food – bring and share such a fab thing! and obviously for us adults, loads of charming company! the kids had lots of pool fun, then we face painted – i had expert help from le ciel rouge, so picked up a few tips! the weather was with us, the company great, the kids lovely and thanks all!! a ate night with a fire pit, a gaggle of non sleeping kids got shunted into our room an early start and then some more playing/chatting/chilling and also much needed support from much loved friends. thanks all x x

A quick holiday in Charmouth!

this july has been v crazy-busy so far, and i could really do with a relaxing holiday. it seems that sept is my best bet! mon i had off work, so nipped the 2+ hours to visit sis, and then journey back. then after work again visited her again, this time with family. following that tho, we didn’t come home, but stayed at mum and dad’s house and raided their freezer! [they were already in charmouth with my nephew M and niece E].

following morning, nice and early we set off for seadown. I love seadown! it saved my sanity last year, and certainly provided me with some moments of happiness this time. it is also a fab campsite, with yes, lovely toilet block, flat pitches and also statics for my parents to stay in. but the main attraction is the tiny walk to the beach! and what a beach!! rock pools for rockpooling, fossils for fossiling, waves for boogie boarding for kids, sand for sandcastles, as well as retail opportunity and bijou museum. have i sold it to you yet?? Love it!

anyway, tent up, hugs with parents and craziness with 4 kids!! we went down to the beach, bought SB and BB a small board to mess about with.[ later we saw a surfer dad start to teach his kids to balance with a wooden shield like board. looks like a good idea!] both my girls near drowned themselves they had so much fun ‘catching the wave’ with SB trying to kneel as well. we might enrol her in a surf school one holiday… [hmm having checked newgale out due too many recommendations, see it does have a surf school nearbye, but doesn’t take dogs anymore! that must be a blow!!] oh, i am being so distractable in my blogging! anyway, lots of messing in the sea. E not so keen tho! and BB and E hid in suntent to enjoy ice cream. us hardy adults thought the need for sun tent or wind break fairly evenly balanced! quickish tea – ken hom for us, pasta for them, and then me, mum and steward took the kids for an evening fossil walk. also fab!! we found quite a few ammonites, i found a composite belemnite rock, which i thought was cool!! SB found a cast of a bivalve, which was cooler!! although we found some iron pyrites, we didn’t find any in ammonite form though :cry: which was my goal!! called back by dad and husband who thought we had been out way too long! it was getting quite dark, so guess they were right.

earlyish start the next day to get the waves! sand castling also happened, but boogie boarding was the best activity! SB just soooo loved it. she is truly a water baby! i loved so watching her, gave me a huge hols smile. and in fact, one of my drives to get thinner/fitter is so that i can mess about with her – i think i would prob sink a board currently! unfortunately i broke BB’s bucket, and going to get another one was a disastrous 45 min wailfest as there was too much choice :roll: I think i did a passable impression of a calm and collected parent as we swept out of the shop to sit and cuddle on a seafront bench whilst calming down [yes, both of us!] before coming to an agreement, going in, buying bucket and quick exit!! after sarnies on the beach we went to the coastal heritage place, and SB, BB and E polished an ammonite slice there, and then looked at the activities. This time it was E’s turn to have a ‘retail moment’, but still mine to manage it :sad: it’s a great little place tho, and v helpful wardens, who looked at some of our finds of the previous eve. A bit more beaching/sandcastling and then home for BBQ for us and take away pizza for them! kids did some crafting – fab djeco mosaics from craft merrily! all round at our tent as venue. unfortunately [or fortunately, since we had all finished eating] the heavens opened and we proved that you could fit 5 adults and 3 children in the living space of a minnesota 4! [SB was outside doing a rain dance - lovely dance, crazy girl! :smile: ]

another day! another day at the beach!! this time we started with rockpooling. we found some likely looking pools with stewart, dad and M. [E having a bit of a moment stayed with mum, who then joined us when migraine a bit more under control] we were suprised by the wealth of life we found in the pools! crabs, anemones, various seaweeds and small fish. we had a great time searching, peering and finding! eventually the tide covered the rock pools and we let the variety of creatures go free. Mum and E had joined us, and we had a picnic before the plan was made to make more sandcastles and do more boarding, after having a perusal of the shops! money was exchanged! rocks, stones, fossils, stretchy dinosaurs etc bought!! :lol: happiness!! :smile: SB upset that M didn’t want to go in the water, but with chris and stewart, she and BB had a whale of a time! i hadn’t put in the swimming costume i had planned to, so didn’t swim, and slightly grumpy, tho the water would have been freezing!! [this is where i look up plus sized wet suits again!!]. went back to tent. kids crafted – finished the fab djeco mosaics! def a recommended craft! curry for tea – camp for us, takeout for them!! and then piled into bed exhausted. I had a bit of a teary night, and all unsettled. it did feel as if the holiday was my last drop of happiness for a while. I blame too much limoncello!!

having not slept, getting up and taking tent down did seem rather an effort! have to clear the pitch by 10! waved mum, dad, M, E and stewart off, and then our car didn’t start! i took girls to beach and left chris in charge of starting car – luckilly a nearby camper helped out! we went to the heritage museum, looked at bits and pieces and then down to the beach and rockpooled with chris. totally different beasties in this totally different area! a cafe lunch as picnic on beach, some sandcastles [leaving me to visit viv on way home with sandy knees still!!] a goodbye to the sea – one day we will live by the sea! – and we were off!! an easy drive home with a stop to see viv – she plans to go home on wed, all being well.

sunday at home a bit deflating, rabbits back home – snowy even bigger but far less fluffy, so went and watched shrek forever after, a bit of a romp of a film, only 1 sad moment [that's good!] not as good as first 2 shrek’s, but sequels are always trickier!! still, all happy and home to bed!

monday SB waved off to Brownies camp today! hope she has a really fab time!! BB slightly moochily lost, so a variety of crafts – some from playmerrily discont sale!! [so no longer there to link too! v well received!] and some glass painting things from yellow moon – always a hit! I did some freehand dolphins on a glass to give to Viv. then ds vs mario kart – BB ecstatic to win each race as i am totally crap at it!! ah, and now we have caught up – presses publish!!

Festival of History 2010!

this is becoming a bit of a stalwart arrangement in our home ed calendar! so we went to wicksteed park to camp and the lovely em and nic were already there! [just completed their feedback with a couple of minor nags] so we set up in what really was quite gale blustery weather! gradually the babs arrived, and the kirsty. the babs tent snapped, luckilly they brought 2, and kirsty’s was adjusted a few times, but when right was fab with the wind. kids had a merry time playing, we chatting, and the first night done! next day we got up bright and early, relieved to see tents still standing as had been VERY windy! and went to wicksteed rides

Due to some ticket thingies, we all had wristbands this time, which was a v good idea! bb was soooo adventurous! [go bb!] with going on the monorail cycle thing, the dodgem boats, the cars, bouncy castle, teacups and sort of the big slide [tho i did have to rescue her and go down together]. way more than she will normally do!! SB is always adventurous, but this year also did the canoeing and that single person boat that launches off a slide! great time, with much more running about by the older girls, not needing to be with adult, and making for a good friend filled atmosphere as well. SB had a ball!! i really enjoyed the company of em and the babs as we watched our offspring have a great time! the circus was enjoyed by SB, but not so much by BB. tho O was partic cute!! finally i ended up at the park with BB, and a few texts and calls made me a bit teary, but a nice hug from my husband let me put on my brave face! i so wanted to show happy times to my girls to make up for my teary snappy times!!

merry and family arrived, The Babs borrowed our frontier, which needs a little bit of tlc after a couple of years in the hayloft, jax arrived with new tent, then tea hidden in the tent with a massive rain squall, playing and then a lovely evening and toasted marshmellows for all the kids and pimms, chatting, loving, laughing and crying with lovely friends. an evening which reminds you of what good friends you have, and how the internet can be a fab thing. i wouldn’t have known you without it!!

the next day was festival of history, sad farewell to em, and a quick drive. we decided to make it easier for BB we would plonk at watch for the morning and wander for the aft. we very much enjoyed the new prince malik’s lancers and were just settling in to watch the roman century [mm, i love romans!!] when the most enormous rain drenching occurred, and although BB was waterproofed, it was miserable, and she wailed, so we decamped! hid in the artisans bit, and then when that drenching over, looked around. SB and BB made a wax seal, and heard all about their invention, dick turpin etc, the made tiles. The dyer shew SB and myself how to use a drop spindle, so we bought one, and a lucet. another huge rain squall, and SB and I hid with the plasterer, and had a 20 min talk all about plastering roman and renaissance and showing us bits. we were both enthralled. BB drilled a hole into a reindeer antler and made a necklace with chris there with a man with an exceptional beard and great friendliness! we then met up with others at the victorian beach as the rain passed, and bB played with the sand whilst SB listened to storytellers, and then both listened to the fab BZents. we had jax and family with us in the aft, and went to the stalls first, on our way to agincourt. i love how the stallholders are appropriately dressed, and happy to talk at length about their crafts. girls bought beads, and i bought the all odinseye bracelets. we didn’t get to agincourt since we were v much distracted by the alchemist on the way! he was v fab!! agincourt was won by this point, so we went to the games bit for BB, and then home. another lovely eve with friends and fireside laughter and jollity! some of the deependers and also the pies had joined us!

packing up took not so long the next morning, also helped show how to take the frontier down, as the wind was starting to wwhip up. then helped jax with her tent, unfortunately whilst we were in it, the wind whipped out the few remaining pegs, and it came down on us – owww!!! never mind! still, we went off, and went to the parade ground to sit, and watched the american war of independence [and chatted about it] some departed romans and then wandered around the jacobite and civil war camps before meeting up with the deependers for a restorative cup of tea, play in the sand, and a second attempt at agincourt – which we did manage to watch! it was rather good too. we didn’t watch harfleur this time, which SB then moaned about as we saw it last year [v excellent]. quite a good impression of raining arrows! we beetled back and SB an I saw the ww2 finale, whilst chris and bb went back to the games. SB also wanted to watch the parade, so we did. finally we all met up and chatted before leaving to come home. little chef meal with jax, home, and bed!

thankyou to all the friends who make me smile and help give me the strength to keep smiling!

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stepping back in time

i almost couldn’t face getting up today, and i almost couldn’t bear to go out today. luckilly i managed to ban the duvet from my mind and went out and we all had a lovely day at paxton pits. le ciel rouge, deependers, gina and a number of home edders i don’t get to see much were there, which was lovely, and also got to meet new ppl too – also lovely. and actually managed to spend most of the day giggling and laughing, which if you had asked me last night, i would have said was frankly unbelievable. so thankyou to those that made my day go with a giggle, friends and my lovely girls. :)

the weather seemed a bit unpredictable, so we had waterproofs and suncream – lol! and listened to italian on the way down, with some new things – colours! had to just look up on google blue and yellow in italian, it is quite unnerving to have yellow nearly the same! missed the paxton pits turn once off the a1, but had been looking at maps for geocaches, so told girls not to worry, could take another road. was just about to check with a stranger when z rung me to say i had gone wrong! when we beat her to car park she was most surprised!! :lol: joined our group, acquired 3 more children for the day – who were all fab and excellent! think we had had a really lovely group. sometimes the kids can be quite, well, disparate! so the mix is a bit oil and water, but today all went really well. the lady ‘in charge’ of our group did start off with a bit of ‘in charginess’ and TBH, although allegedly keystage 2 [i am not keen on all this keystaging either] it seemed best pitched for BB. [who named the icthyosaur]. luckilly she got less teachery enthiastic, and more facilitator as she reached what is prob her comfort zone of looking for beasties! then the day got far better!!

so we started by stepping back in time to the time of dinosaurs, and discussed in BB terms that paxton pits was a shallow warm sea, then we moved forwards a bit, but only so we could search for fossils in the gravel. TBH, I would have done this all quite differently, as the concept was good, but the delivery was a bit we have had a jolly good idea! then we moved to the iceage – not sure what that was about, but we then looked for insects around the woodland, under logs and shaking trees, and it started to work, with show and tell, identifying, and our facilitator was into her comfort zone! kids and adults obv didn’t have enough brekkie tho! as tummies rumbling. the final bit before lunch was in the bird hide, which sb really liked, and bb was wingeing. they had binoculars for everyone, and we saw cormorants, great crested glebe, heron and swans. then lunch = phew! they provided tea with real milk too!!

the afternoon was the best bit, the kids were happy, the adults were happy and the facilitator was happy – had the measure of us! and we started with pond dipping = fab! caught so many different things to last week as well. pond scorpions, caddis larvae [well cool!] water stick insects, swan mussels, as well as the more common water mite, boatmen, watersnails etc! and again a good show and tell, as well as lots of looking and helping to identify. she was really good at remembering the kids names too. so excellent. and then, what was prob the piece de resistance, bug catching with big swooopy nets! i have never done that before, and it was really ace. one of the other children-that-were-mine-but-not-mine confided that it was very much like animal crossing on the wii! :lol: caught lots of crickets and grasshoppers, as well as a variety of other bits and pieces. many happy children! we finished with a view of the future, how paxton pits might be when grows larger, and thanks to the organisers.

we all then congregated at cafe for icecreams and cold drinks! i managed to get sunburnt then, but due to the longsleeves and long trousers rule the girls were ok. chatting and finally drifting off. we had french on the way home. BB fell asleep and then when home we harvested potatoes from the potato challenge. i don’t think we will advertise our paltry weights!! rocket >>emerald tho! i had bought some sewing supplies [must ask merry where she got her aida from] and the girls argued and stropped over buttons etc – ok it was mostly BB, ending up with her wailing big style. chris couldn’t find brownies for SB, so was prob a trip somewhere we have missed, and then she got a splinter and was tired and washed out, so we elected to miss judo. instead all snuggled and watched toystory 1 together and then prehistoric park. but girls still not asleep in bed, so prob no better 2moro!!

ooohhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 edited to add – and how could i forget! – BB’s dinomite magazine arrived today as well, and the pic she submitted of a dinosaur was printed!! she is SOOOOOO proud!!

geocaching with le ciel rouge.

woke up far too early by my little lark BB. it would be alright if she came and just snugged, but she rolls over me, blows raspberries etc etc and thoroughly wakes me up! sun shining tho, so making hay required!! daddybean sailing again! i had girls up, dressed and breakfasted and got rabbits sorted. for the day, we have a day rn on the grass, and i used bits of slate etc to make a non burrowable bit around the inside of the edge. it seems to have been successful.

SB did a lovely clarinet prac, and then struggled with ledgerlines in her grade 2 music theory and BB did some cooking mama. i hung out washing, found NT cards and carpark thingy, packed bags etc and managed to liaise with Z despite BK failing! so we had a plan!!

we arrived first – always like that! was uncertain, as something has happened to the car clock in the family car, and i didn’t think 19:53 seemed likely! something also has happened to the rear mirror as well [shouts at the maintenance man!]. so i felt partic flustered driving out, and hope wasn’t speeding past the police [loads of traps about at the moment]. they were 5m short of where 30 becomes 60, so it is a possibility :( .

anyway, we had a look around houghton mill, and i had a camera fail after a couple of pics – battery ran out, and the spare was also juiceless. wasn’t too bothered as Z always has a camera on her. Unfortunately she had left hers at home, and wasn’t to upset because i always have a camera on me… luckilly she took a few shots with her camera-on-phone. With NT membership, it didn’t matter that it was a half hour dash! they were milling, and always v interesting. there are now some binoculars to look long the waterway – we mostly saw splashy humans!

Joining lecielrouge we set off to first geocache, which was a fail. we thought we could see where it might be, but it wasn’t, so after trying from 2 angles, we gave up and moved on! luckilly we got into our stride and had a really fab walk with not too much flagging from BB [and nearly 4 miles in total] luckilly, the longest distance was to next geocache, which was found v easily, and TB’s moved on. SInce Z had baked some choc brownies [delish!] we all had one and perked up, and i provided cherries and drief fruit – not quite so exciting!! an easy enough and pretty shaded walk to the next geocache, with a stop to admire a foal on the way. a nice scramble up thro brambles, but then easily found again. then a leisurely walk back, with BB getting into the groove of walking [i was a bit worried she would have a bit of a melt] and poor W being harrassed by the 3 bigger girls to carry them. it was a hot day to carry 3 girls with an average age of 10!

we didn’t do the 4th one, as BB needed a loo stop, and TBH, i was thanking lucky stars no melts had happened, and tho happy for the others to go on, and take BB to relax by mill, we all came back. another look for cache 1 – still a fail! so icecream and a bit of watercolour drawing. – mostly of tents rather than mills and cherry trees that were around a beautiful. then a final attempt at cache 1, and abandoned :sob: fab day tho, thankyou to le ciel rouge.

BB asleep in nano-seconds in car home [as anticipated] and daddybean home when we arrived. he has passed his sailing level one. rabbits still in day run – phew! so relaxed, SB coloured, BB ds-ed, then watched the last 2 episodes of robin hood whilst eating dinner, and to bed. Both SB and BB ‘won’ a book for doing lots of things on their home ed options list, so BB picked a dr who book [surprise] and waiting to see what SB will pic. the last one she chose was

which sparked quite a lot of discussion.