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Medicals and Mishaps

I went out for my medical. Actually the doctor that did it was really nice – a single handed GP, at some pains to chat and make me feel comfortable. So although it is inevitable my fatness will bump the premium, he was happy to say I seemed fit and healthy, and he couldn’t see any other risks.

Got home to find the life insurer had sent me a letter as I hadn’t full disclosed my health, could I tell them more about pv bleeding and my IUD!! well, these days they should be called an IUCD or in my case Mirena. I have written back stroppy letter that it was for contraception, no pv bleeding [no menstruation with breastfeeding] and therefore no problem to disclose.

While I was out, our vendors rang to complain bitterly about move date, as we had led them to believe we would want to move in early April. WE DO!!!! chris rang solicitor, as I am prob feeling a bit too incendiary to be allowed! Hopefully exchange will take place, cos we have agreed to date – as if there were any choice! it may add 250 to removal costs – damn and blast.

Did some general book reading [literacy] and playing with SB, also tried out the easier bits of maths on Joe the Dragon [as most above where she is] [maths]. We then planted up our sprouted capsicums, and sowed the tomatoes [natural science]. The weather was being v variable, so we had discussions on storms, clouds, rainbows etc whilst doing this. [as we had all of above]

We found some of the older veg boxes in garage, so SB rooted around for ingredients [she can recognise veg!!] and found onions, potatoes, carrots and cauliflower. We pulled some of the garlic from the garden [it is last years bulbs left in too long, and going for it again, so at the moment kind of garlic leeks!] and made a nice veg curry. SB liked using the pestle and mortar for the spices]. Cooked it in the one pot with the rice so a biryani, as saves on washing up! [domestic science]

We also made some of mums card – it is on cold card and a beach scene using tissue paper, so far so good! Was supposed to have been finished after tea, but evenets overtook us. [art]

Unfortunately, while I was feeding BB she was riding bike on drive [PE], and went head first down approx 1 foot drop onto next doors drive, so sports a number of egg shaped bruises on forehead, eyebrow, and v sore nose. Sorry for self and in pain, but not obviously concussed. We retired to cbeebies on the tv, ate our curry, had a nice bath and to bed [chris doing that at the mo].

I’m watching the what the ancients did for us out of the corner of my eye, and enjoying it. I think I need more wine and chocolate this eve, but my blood pressure remarkably low [100/70] considering the steam that keeps coming out of ears!

thought of the day: happy birthday MUM!! and baby William – see post below

good news!

Friend had baby today at LGI. 10lb something oz!! so an emergency section at fully dilated after 33 hours [not quite so good] however, Mum and babe are well, and dad sounds shell shocked.

Be Calm

Well I am going to go backwards over today, as need to do the rant first.
BLOODY HELL!!!
Well, thats that done!! Our buyers came round this eve to measure up, and apparently they have already exchanged with her buyer, so moving date legally fixed for that completion. Therefore she can do later than 29th april but not earlier.
GOD IN HEAVEN!!!!!!!!!!!!
i REALLY DON’T THINK THIS IS FAIR, AND NOT HOW i THOUGHT A CHAIN WORKED – YES I’M SHOUTING. but will stop now, as its not you lot I am shouting at! Might shout at my solicitor tomorrow, as they say they exchanged 3 weeks ago.
DAMNEN AND BLASTEN

Be Calm

Was stressed out anyway, as have felt crappy, miserable and hermit crab like all day. Forced myself out of house tio go bead shopping [and found 2 in the nice bead shop in cornmarket, but have decided which one I like best now], and also got BB’s photos done for passport. Returned to car to find some total pillock had effectively boxed me in. the multistory has not much space, so i parked next to a pillar, and very close on that side [inches] so that i had enough room to get BB in and out ok. returned to find said wazzock [i actually don't know what this means, just hope it means thick as pigshit yob] had parked over into my space, so that cars were inches apart. How the fuck I was supposed to get in, let alone child I don’t know. Feeling that the sky was falling in I shouted at cars [to no avail] and looked very much as if I might cry. At this point I noticed a wiry boundy kind of lad bounding my way [marfans-ish] and he kindly squiggled through the credit card gap and drove my car out for me. I didn’t look to see whether the pressure from my car door dented the other, but i kinda hope it did. I was so greatful I did cry and thanked wiry lad profusely as he ran away from hormonally challenged madwoman.

Be Calm!

I think I may have got clocked by speed camera as I went 35 on headingley road – buggeration.

Be Calm!!

Other things SB has had a hair cut. we’ve done singapore maths, cbeebies, sock painting etc

message of the day:
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggghhhhhhhhhh

Vax, tonsils and other health related worries

Well, you all know the house moving non-news!

Today, SB went to nursery as usual, then i picked her up at 2 for her pre-school boosters. Now not to get into the whole vax or not debate, I have decided to vax, but am still worried about the sequelae of vax, so hate doing it. Made worse by the fact that I thought it was just the polio lot, but no, the MMR as well. SB was very brave and had her injection into each arm without any fuss at all, and now I will sit out the next 3 weeks hoping no probs – yes I know they are v rare!

Also concerned that she still has huge tonsils and lymph nodes -though undoubtedly not as bad as Merry’s. I’ve noticed she mostly has her mouth open and mouth breathes as well. She doesn’t complain of them though. Its a month since I last took her to GP with the same thing, so am I being a pest if I take her back again?? not sure what I am after. Prob some reassurance that it isn’t some lymphoid proliferation thing. [paranoid mother alert]. She is , however, full of energy and verve, no excess bruising, so can’t really be anything too horrendous.

Came home and did some Jump Ahead maths [maths] 5 more candles to get, but she hates playing that game, so we do all the others instead. Why am I so task oriented that i even contemplated getting candles for her so we can ‘finish’??

Lots of running about in our garden and next goor neighbours now some good weather. She also cycled all the way to nursery, so a healthy amount of physical exercise! [PE]

Other things we have done today are: glued socks – part of an m and s kit to decorate your own socks. They are ‘freestyle’! read a variety of books together [english]; read the whole Egyptian bit of usbourne time traveller [history]. We had a good discussion around the pictures, and agreed that we wouldn’t want to be in a battle in case they shot BB with an arrow – chris and I apparently will have to ring ahead when we visit the pyramids to make sure there are no battles – lol! I also got a bit lost in a metaphysical discussion about Jesus being in our hearts and telling if we do good, and what kind of window he looks through and where it might be. As an agnostic I think I am permanently wrong footed by this, as I walk a tightrope without the benefit of faith or conviction either way. [RE]

We had the left over roasted veg lasagne for tea [still yummy] and brocolli. SB fell asleep really quickly. Unfortunately BB has been really unsettled this evening. I think she must have a pain somewhere that wakes her. Got her to drink half ounce of EBM from a bottle [maybe thats the prob!]. If I can get it to 2 oz then I wont worry re nursery.

Doing a bit of ebaying as well, since failed so far to find black leggings for SB to wear to stagecoach, am looking for uniform or black leggings on ebay. Fingers crossed!

thought for the day: my carpe diem fight lost today, but will try and regain tomorrow.

Boswellox

Is this allowed as a title, too coy for the other Chris I should imagine!

bloody buyers from buyers refusing to budge from completion date of 29th April.

I start work on 2nd may FFS.

I need to get on with life rather than paddling/idling

SCREAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

Apparently it is cos its easier to move with an extra day for the bank hols. I’d have thought removal would be more expensive – have yet to check – and if something goes wrong, it takes far longer to sort out.

Also they are in rented, so paid till end of month.

Could thisd bloody take any longer. We made it really clear to buyers we wanted wuick exchange and completion, and it has dragged on and on. we should have had a bidding fight between them and the other and got a bit more money, as we certainly haven’y ended up with a quick sale – after all, we sold end of Jan and it will be 3 months from then.

Of course, we are the only ones moving any distance, who really care about moving time. Bollox, bollox bollox.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH

Quick blog again – SOTP

As social life for me for a change!!! It is something when your child is the party animal.

SB and Chris went swimming for ages today, [PE] while BB and i [well, just me then] made the lasagna for the meal tonight. She was then knackered, so some vegging in front of cbeebies was called for.

We then had a visit from those who step off the path who happened to be passing by. My house was a fair bit of a disaster zone, but they were v polite! C, M and SB got the preliminaries over with a bit of cbeebies viewing, and then hardly noticed when it was switched off. The then explored outside – mostly liberating water from the ponds to mix with the sand. [science sort of, and co-operation skills] The sand was certainly better for moulding and sandcastling afterwards. We got to have a chat, and look at piccies of new house.Doesn’t HE seem a very normal decision these days! Diversion alert: It seems odd to me that at work I am some weird hippy, and yet at home, I am pretty much a ‘square’ when it comes to life choices. i’ve decided that that must mean I am well balanced – LOL!! All were sad to split up, so a good mixing then. SB mollified with the fact that we are going there next saturday, as long as babies don’t arrive in the meantime. [must do my shopping!] [socialisation yet again]

Have now cleared out the dining room, and have my postnatal group mums coming for dinner. roast veg lasagna, salad and garlic bread, with tropical fruit salad. oh yes, plenty of alcohol. they should be here soon.

SB cavorting about with no knickers on, says she likes people looking at her bottom. I guess pole dancers earn a reasonable amount. Not sure i will necessarily be encouraging this route with autonomous learning though!

LOL Joyce on the FCUK thing though. Maybe Hannah could write to them re the distress this causes dyslexics – may get a free bag out of it!

Time to do feed for BB, and get alcohol opened.

Thought for the day: i am glad that this blog seems to be showing socialisation def not an issue of any sort! Its a shame I only started meeting up IRL with the muddlepuddlers within striking distance now I am moving though. Typical

final PS as this is getting a bad habit on blogs: meal with postnatal group v nice. even some leftovers – yummy! Another group of people I’m really going to miss.

Cats and Peas

SB seems to be swearing??? When things don’t go quite right, she says ‘oh..cats and peas’. i take it this must come from sone programme or film other children she comes into contact have watched, as I’ve never head it anywhere.

Yesterday was another party day, this time her friend Z. He had his at a church hall, with a clown, so they did some juggling and played with a parachute. Also SB got her face painted as a ballerina. The clown was getting a bit fractious towards the end, possibly due to some overenthusiastic throwing by a couple of the young boys. [more socialisation!]

I did a quick nip to Asda to buy food for a meal I’m cooking tonight. forgot the lasagne sheets, so its going to be a pasta bake! Had a good look, and couldn’t find any black leggings, as she needs some for stagecoach. Will have to go into town then at some point – sigh! Meanwhile SB and BB were out in the garden with Chris, possibly helping shed tidying, but when I got back they were having tea and biscuits with our next door neighbours.

new webland out, so we romped through that, SB though song was dire, and I have to agree! [IT, general knowledge]

On the house front, the contracts all came through for us to sign, and I guess that then makes us exchange ready, and presumably completion ready – at last!!

thought for the day – do not do noisy childs party, and then very full sat asda in succession if you wish to keep will to live!!

PS i have just heard her tell Chris I am a silly old cow. hmmmm time to move!

Slowly, slowly catchee monkey.

At last, finally got the contracts and other paperwork today for the house sale and purchase, we’ve been rather frustrated as a whole month seems to have passed to achieve very little, and not down to us, as we’ve have been very quick in replying to letters etc. A combination of stuff being queried by us and our buyers, buyers and selllers being on holiday/honeymon, people not responding as quickly as they could to things, solictors being slow at doing stuff….. it all adds up.

Anyway, at least exchange of contracts is now on the horizon, hope we can get them to agree to a quickish completion.

It’s a bit of an odd situation really, we are still in the old/current house, but my head is already thinking and planning about the new house.

It’s been an odd year really, as it has been both very full, but also it’s often felt like we were treading water much of the time. This time last year Helen was in the throws of getting a consultant appointment, the Cambridgeshire job was on the cards, but it looked like a Leeds job was a real possibility – hopefully part time. But it was not to be, though it took many months to arrive at this point. Then we had the whole finish doing up the house, Helen working away from home, getting the post, being pregnant, having Butterbean thing. Lots happening, but under it all a sense of waiting to get on with things – garden went by the board mostly, plans for this year were put on hold etc. this has of course grown as the whole selling/moving thing progressed. Helen has found this harder to handle , as many of the changes impacted her rather more directly and she hates change at the best of times, let alone a year of it. And we do feel that we have missed out a bit on the maternity leave. Rather than a nice calm relaxing :? 6 months with Helen at home, we’ve been selling houses, buying houses, zooming backwards and forwards across the country , and now it’s almost over :-( We had hoped, long ago, for me to take time off during the Mat leave and for us to go travelling somewhere for couple of months, but it was not to be this time and with SB we couldn’t afford it, next time…….

We just want done with it all now, to be packed up, moved, to have got over saying all the good byes (actual and psychological), to be in the new house, getting settled, getting on with new things and enjoying the summer.

Blogging the rest of today can wait, I supose I ought to be in bed really.

PS Well the smoke alrms work fine, went off in response to a bit of singed toast before I noticed the smell. Shame it was 1.15 am……….

There and Back Again

i did make the conference in the morning, but when the AGM started decided that that was enough, so went with Family to Glasgow Science centre instead. [science]

It is really excellent. Well reccommended to anyone! SB had a great time with the myrad of exhibits. chris and I particularly taken by a tabard that you then stuck organs onto. never made it to the top!

A bad move was to see alien adventure at the IMAX there. SB loved it, and BB seemed to be enjoying it, but I have motion sickness, and it seems that the only thing worse than being on a roller coaster is being in a 3D representation of one – so I had my eyes shut for most of it!

We finished with the Dessy Duck guide to the moon etc at the planetarium – which SB thought was the best bit. I would have enjoyed the adult one I think! Anyway, for all those going Glasgow way, we can recommend the tall ship and the science centre!

So was the day perfect?? Well no. Chris left digicam in the baby changing room. Arrghh!! Luckily it had been handed in, so he is still alive. then, after a bit of a long drive home, he reversed into the gatepost at a fair lick. Bodycoloured bumpers are a crap idea aren’t they? And ours needs replaceing – but will have to be at indeterminate point in future. Red water bill finished the day off nicely!

Actually, we did do some Exeter maths – SB used that to put me off making her go to bed! [maths], and through the journey also played alot of I spy – which at last SB getting the hang of, so can alternate that with the interminable guess that sign game! [english]

thought of the day when in doubt about work, bunk off!!!! Well, since in the end they decided not to pay me any study leave, so this was completely me funded, I had no guilt feelings in altering my priorities for the day!

Edit by Chris 00:31 SB still awake :roll: , and quick piccie:

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Will sort out some photos properly, but just can’t resist this one, BB in the Imax glasses :-)

Actually working hard!

its called networking, and evening still going on, but I’m getting so old that the too loud music has drven me away! Various consultants from cambridge there frightening me about going back to work and having to turn into superdoctor – sigh!
Anyway, have listened to lots of drivel on incontinence and a few pearls of wisdom, and done m own bit too [drivel I'm afraid!]
Chris has nearly used up nearly all the ‘pute time, so this is short!