Category Archives: Out and About

phonics working

SB seems to be getting the hang of blends. I’ve been using JP flashcards, and have 3 piles we rotate, and have been adding to them. we now have 39 cards on the go, of which the alphabet is ok, some of the easier combinations are ok, and she quickly remembers on prompting the others. This has carried across to reading, and simple words can be sounded, and with a bit of encouragement, read. Feel really proud of her. She also did some letter tracing [though not getty and dubay as not june], which she normally avoids.

Got my ebay usbourne time traveller, so we read some of the castle bit as bedtime story – her choice – followed by a first hymns cd.

I’m happy as my research submission to the international continence society uk arm meeting was accepted – even if only as a poster presentation, so we will be going to the glasgow secc end of March. Any ideas for SB while I’m at the conference?? [obviously with chris]

Chris adds:

Regular cafe stops for me and SB are an essential of course…….

Busy Day

Well, felt it! Chris and SB went to the tip with all the ‘maybe useful one day’ items, and then to the storage place to find the 6-9 month clothes.
Also had to get the size 2 nappies from the loft, as the sandies and daisies don’t do up, and the tots only just. kissaluvs and med fuzzi’s ok. SB such a skinny shape she was about 15 months before into size 2 – and even on potty training the kissaluv size 2′s were always crossed over.

I searched house from top to bottom for swimming card, but didn’t find it.

We did jolly phonics sounds and blends, and starting to see an improvement, so obviously SB always being teacher doesn’t stop her picking it up. In truth, it was her snake getting it right!

We then went swimming [I talked my way in without card] – SB loves it, and we were in the pool for nearly 2 hours. She mostly loves drowning, though now I have to do it with her. No swimming, but waggling all 4 limbs somewhere near bottom of the pool – I call it being confident in the water! BB also loves it, and was in for 30 mins. She floats beautifully ad waggles on her back. In fact, letting go she still floated, but looked a bit concerned, so we didn’t do it much. Katy mentioned she had a neoprene jacket for Becca. so may look on ebay for BB as she was a bit cold.

SB was playing with Brio with Chris, but just yelled from bathroom that she missed the toilet, but not wee’ed on the ‘spensive carpet. She only went an hour ago. Honestly.
BB is under her playgym ‘talking’ to the giraffe. From explosive sound needs a nappy change, but will let sort out SB first!

BB slept through beautifully last night. I wish SB would.
Snowing intermittantly here, not settled as yet.
Will do a bit of singapore maths in a bit.

edited to add: no singapore maths, but instead read 3 books [12 stories!!!!] of thomas. now on permafeed duty

ice skating/falling and other bits

Not the best weather for outdoor skating, but West Yorks home ed trip to the ice cube in Leeds.
SB enjoyed it, and luckilly chris was there too. I tentatively went on, and fell over! After breaking foot, wrist and 2 ribs in a kids soft play area in the summer, I have really lost confidence, so quickly came off the ice. BB needed a feed anyway. Great fun was had by the confident! The West Yorks is a nice group, and v friendly to rare attendees like me. We are going to its Viking meet in March.

Returning home we did a few pages of singapore maths K 2A [easy] and some sticker maths. Also grrrered at the irritating hopsalot on the starter maths – well I did, as SB likes it. Read and discussed ‘I wonder why my tummy rumbles’ and SB played with Happy Street.

I’m quite impressed by the amount of home-ed there [obviously sofa based this afternoon], as BB had an off day. In fact this feed [ I am NAK-ing] is the first decent one today, as we have been latching on, stopping and screaming incessantly, so WTL index nosediving earlier. It is just so messy! Actually can feel sanity restoring the longer she feeds – may be human by end!

AAhhhh BB asleep. SB still messing with dinner rather than eating it though. Return to RL

[edit by chris] We bumped into another Puddlers as well at the skating *waves* to Kath M

party season

We went to fun parties on sat and tues with my postnatal group, then 3 already in march. What fun!!
Had another CP exposure on Sat, so waiting and seeing.

Melrose pics

here. no names, and will remove any if requested to.

I want to stay and learn some more……

‘I want to stay and learn some more’ were Stringbean’s words when we had to leave the ‘dome’ where they had and audio/visual show at the end of Dynamic Earth, seemed an appropiate comment for an allegedly Home Ed blog.

Anyway, she did seem to enjoy herself there, it is very good, but in the way of these things does feel that it lacks a bit of substance. Maybe you need to view it more as a ‘show’ than a museum type place. Fair enough I guess, but it seems a shame that more concrete info couldn’t have been included somehow.

Helen has posted a few comments on the Muddlepuddle Winter Camp at Melrose, so here are some snippets/impressions of mine.

It was a great week – children had much ‘running free’ and endless playing, parents (moslty) had some time for relaxing, chatting, eating, staying up late, and even a bit of discussion on HE, some even spent sometime with their offspring.

- A car park half full of people carriers can mean only one thing….

- We were one of the later ones to arrive on the Sunday, there was a wonderful sense of chaos when we entered the hostel – would we ever make sense of this?

- Stringbean was a bit bemused/overwhelmed at first I think by the number of children, and the amount of space to run around in and play, and as some of the children already knew each other, she seemed a bit of a loss as to how to fit in at first, but after a couple of days she?d settled into it all and became one of the ever present fairy/princess gangs running wild around the hostel, in particular she really seemed to hit it off with Jax?s Big (though they did make rather a mess of Jax?s room ? sorry?.). It was good to see her playing so well, and a learning experience for us as we realised we?d never been in a situation where she had been away from us for so much time and we didn?t know were she was.

- The food ? all seemed to work pretty well, Helen managed to cook various pots of curry that seemed to go down well, and there was plenty for lunch the next day. And thanks to all the other cooks as well, esp. Ros and co for the pancakes.

- The dressing up ? esp. numerous small girls running around as fairies or Princesses ? I hardly recognised Maddy out of her P&P dress :-) and I forgotten which small boy it was who kept popping in a tiger or leopard suit. Quite a few knights were running around as well, ?not with real swords? though, as I was often informed.

- Cup cake decorating ? a bit of an impromptu activity as we had been meant to do them at home, but various others enjoyed joining in as well ? a bigger batch will be made for the next time.

- Making Chinese dragons ? SB was very upset when she thought she had missed out on this ? luckily she hadn?t

- Resources, it was good to be able to look at lots of various books and resources people had brought with them. Esp. I felt that we were maybe ?underbooked? ? didn?t come home with too big a list??

- Being part of ?big gang ? at Dynamic Earth was fun.

- Swimming, we also did the Galashiels tour before finding the pool. As Helen mentioned, SB tried drowning herself :-(. She wouldn?t normally go and get in big pool without us, but she saw a slide and probably assumed it was shallow like the pool she normally goes to, while I was deciding where to put the towels, she was down the slide, and I turned round to see the top of her head bobbing in the water ? she did quite a good job of using her arms and legs to keep herself from just sinking really?. She was unfazed by the experience and enjoyed the swimming. It was also Butterbeans first swim, and she also enjoyed it ? all her fat meant she seemed to be very good at floating :-)

- Tea and cake, there was so much lovely baking people had brought, it was hard to have enough cups of tea to try them all. A particular favourite of mine, was Ros? Cinnamon swirl thing.

- Late nights – sharing a glass of wine and chewing the cud once most of the kids were in bed was a nice way to end the day. Doing it while staying up to 2 in the morning was enjoyable, though probably not sensible.

- A bit of quiet. Getting back before most of the others (for some reason) from dynamic earth meant we could enjoy the hostel in ?quiet mode? for little while.

- The Gruffalo?s Child ? bought the book half price from Waterstone?s earlier, brought it out for Melrose. SB loves it, as did various others given by the number of times it kept disappearing :-) Highly recommended for any that enjoyed ?The Gruffalo? (is there a child that doesn?t?).

- Meeting all these people in real life ? esp. as some people, like Alison and Nic I?ve ?known? online for some years now in various places. It was good to put faces to names (and then try to remember who had which blog) Though sometimes I felt a little disappointed that people weren?t like how I expected them to be :-) A few more real world friendships have probably been made here.

- Apologies ? I hope those with less amenable youngsters weren?t too put out by Butterbeans eat/cuddle/sleep relaxed approach to life. After Stringbean we are really appreciating it.

- Admiration ? for Barbara, Merry and anyone else coping with a number of small children on their own there, but it was good to see all the help given by all and sundry, and how happy the kids were (with a few exceptions….) to accept so many other adults. And yes Merry, Amelie is cutie IMO :-)

- Mucking in. It all seemed to work, the food got cooked, it was kept clean, the kids were looked after, ?stuff? happened, people made allowances for various peoples abilities/time etc. without fuss ? we are obviously all such lovely people :-).

It was a great time, hope to see everyone, and some new faces in the future.

Melrose

We had a great time. Hopefully Chris will add piccies [edit by Chris – link here removed for now as I want campers to have the chance to ok them first before publicsing outside the camp list]. Nice to meet everyone. Also nice no-one died from eating my curry!!

After a shakey start. SB got into the swing of things, and then it was hard to catch her. Enjoyed the trip to dynamic earth – thanks Kath. SB attempted to drown herself on swimming pool, but showed she can nearly keep head above water now. Mostly got to know people and looked at the various resources.

Yorvik

Decided not to think about moving today. Went with my Mum and Dad to York to Yorvik. It was the start of the viking festival today, so bands of child vikings roving around york. We all loved the travelling back in time and juddering [apart from BB], and then te great ride. mine was a bit odd, as BB decided she was so ravenous that she had to shriek so loudly no-one could hear anything, and I had to work out how to BF over the lap bar. After that sorted, it was excellent. SB was free anyway – v good! The museum bit afterwoods I found a bit disappointing, as not much interactive, and some opportunities lost there, so in all we were only in there for about 45 mins max.

so, nipped to m and s and alders. Saw some lovely furniture in the sales at less than half price. a real shame we are not in position to buy [as 1, we have spent too much on next house, and 2, we actually haven't bought it yet!]

SB seems to have collapsed in bed, so we are having a Thai take-out, and sparkling wine to celebrate house sold. Tomorrow we will pack and sort for Melrose.

PS, house gradually returning to entropic state. Must try and halt this!

yesterday catchup – Eureka!

yesterday was a manically busy out and about day. We first had SB’s gym class, which she really loves. getting more confident at walking across the beam – forwards and backwards, and is remembering all the different position names. A hasty shop round asda for car-picnic food [samosas, cheese dippers and fruit] and we were off to Eureka.

I was there with my friend Kat . She works part time, has a 2.5 year old and twins of 6 months. SB and Emilia get on v well, and rushed about together holding hands and being generally cute. They had a long shopping session and got more out of the bank than I expected. We then went to the under 5′s area, where BB and the twins could lie in the sensory area, and SB and E could run about looking for things. A short hop into the human body bit, and the girls were pooped. 2.5 hours though before they started to flag, so can’t be bad! A perk up at the cafe and home before rush hour hit too badly.

SB fell asleep in car and was most unhappy to be woken up, so were into some serious blankly looking at CBeebies when the people showed up late to look round house. Ubnfortunately they were there when I wanted to cook SB tea, so not ideal showing, and also the CBeebies background. they did seem v interested though, and were here about 40 mins! hopefully a good sign. Did look in all little cubbyholes though, so a bit concerned at what they saw!

Little Nanny

is my Mum’s mum, and we visited her at Aunty Margarets today. She is looking v well, though this latest course of radiotherapy has been tougher than previously [recurrent breast cancer]. SB is v gentle with her now, mostly reading books together and ‘look at me’ play and games. oh, and eating the yummy cakes she bakes!
Nanny has a really soft spot for SB, as she saw her when only 3 hours old, and was the ray of sunlight in the year she was diagnosed with breast cancer, and originally told by junior doctor to abandon all hope. [luckilly excellent consultant at Norfolk and Norwich turned this around, but after SB's birth].
BB went in for the ‘ I’m anybodies, cuddle me’ approach, which she does v well.