second christmas

chris’s parents used to run an old peoples home prior to retirement, so when i first met chris they had a second christmas, where all the family came. this tradition was reinstated last year, and we had a january christmas with chris’s mum’s side of the family. we had that today!

the girls had been busy both buying and making gifts for all the family, which were well received. they also received more presents -again lovely.

our niece liana was there. unfortunately her experiment with living in england has come undone this time, and she is back off to ireland. but is thinking she might try again one day, perhaps in a big city rather than in a small village nearish but with minimal transport to a small city…

noticeable absences were chris’s uncle robert, who is getting more unwell. he had a further scan last week, and gets the results monday. we aren’t talking about it, but it is clear all the family is expecting the worst now, as he gets more tired and unwell. it makes a day visit more of a priority.
his son [chris's cousin] and partner also didn’t make it, which is a shame, as he is a life and soul of party chap and i really like him. luckilly all the others made it, and bb and sb had a fab time with playing with little A, now 2. we all had a lovely relaxing time.

before we went, SB, BB and i had a look at Watercolour (Klutz) which looks absolutely fab, and we are planning to do some tomorrow

chris’s blog

went to the nots and tots today, the girls really enjoy it. BB in particular loves recordering! she was most jealous that L and E got to do 2 recorder sessions! both did french, but SB mainly. and they had fun making janus faces, which lucky relatives are going to get as presents this weekend! [must find baby A's present!!] it was particularly nice as they didn’t have to rush off to a different town for gym. chris is wondering whether to move bB’s gym session, but it would be difficult.

ANother session requiring moving is apparently brownies. we specifically went into the monday group as it fitted around ballet, and the wed group clashed with judo. both groups are being brought forward 1/2 an hour. this means that ballet and brownies directly compete [as she has gone up a ballet group and would have a 15 mins crosssover anyway] and brownies and judo doesn’t, but there is no space in that brownie pack. aarghh.

at home chris put up 2 new coffee tables, one of which is BB’s desk – aah. i don’t understand people who don;t love tables!! sb did some piano practice.

when i got home, bb and i made soap. sb not so keen too. this time we made a thin layer of coloured soap, used fimo shape cutters to cut it out, and then made a translucent soap and popped them in. fab. more presents for the rellies!! [though i nearly died when i saw chris's soap receipt, so i am not saying that this is a particularly cheap way of getting soap...]

a dr who – where bb announced from the start how to kill slitheen!! and bed nearly finished the The Assassins of Rome: Roman Mysteries 4 (The Roman Mysteries) . SB has been reading charlie and the chocolate factory, scoop, a rumer godden book, 13 days of christmas and George’s Secret Key to the Universe [giggle!]

wednesday madness!

quick sum up of week so far [am trying to persuade chris to do the odd blog!]
mon – HE sports in city1. BB does the younger class and SB the older. they both really enjoy this session, and the teacher that takes it is fabulous and enthusiastic. After that they went to a snowy park for a play. I met up with them at tesco, quite accidentally. i was buying a couple more of the £7 pine coffee tables from tesco as they are such a bargain, and recognised the spotty jumper down an isle, and shortly afterwards realised it was indeed on SB!

i took the girls home, and we did lots of squabbling. to be fair, i have insomnia, job worries and go to bed too late and haven’t completely shifted a migraine for ages now, so i didn’t defuse and alter the flow of dynamics as well as i could have done. but they really do seem to be horribly squabbly at the moment, and argue about pretty much everything. i am hoping that this is a post christmas come down stage!!

anyway, after i had removed various toys, stopped doing fun things like soap making and in the end sat down with a maths book each, things settled. but wasn’t really what i had planned [no, the maths wasn't a punishment! they both enjoy it. but i find that sitting them down with something that is individually theirs can stop the perpetual squabble cycle]. chris took ages to get home, as he hadn’t shut the boot properly and the shopping flew out at one point to clear up. :roll:

we are doing doctor who watching in the eve, we should have caught up by the time of the next series.

tues i went to work before the girls woke up, and got home after bb went to bed. but did catch a bit of sb, and we made chocolate gifts together. they had all had another busy day. library day and craftxs at the library for bb. then various bits and pieces in the afternoon. sb did her piano, some galore park, some maths and then had first swimming of the term.

today was latinetc. always enjoyable, and this time with added merryness. i was even on time! [just!] we have a slightly different running order to make the most of things, and this seemed to go well. SB enjoyed her latin, and was showing off her declension of the amo amas! and she was v keen to tell me all about doing music with gina, including recorder practice apparently. BB loved doing the felting kit. and also v happily went off and did french. i really enjoyed the science, particularly with the older group as they appeared to have so much fun doing it. we did some general lung things, and then made our own lung capacity measurements. v watery and messy!!

merry came back to ours with the girls in the afternoon, and they ran about crazilly whilst we chatted. chris had taken down the christmas trees while i was out – always a sad moment. we might try and do something SOTW activity related, you never know!!

after they had gone, SB did a lovely piano practice and some music theory – encouraged by doing music with gina. bb did some more before the code. and then we slumped infront of dr who again. i am totally worn out now!

BUT I have found my new years resolution for this year. I plan to remember that i am an adult with more stores of patience [hopefully] than my girls. and that i will find a squabble box, something that we can use to distract us all.

musical mondays – cold

i think cold is well provided for in music. so i plan at some point to listen with the girls to some clips of cold music. before we start, we are going to think what sounds make us think of the cold, and at the end we can try – perhaps – to make our own cold sounds.

vivaldi winter

vaughn williams antartica
which i have to admit to not liking!

james horner ocean of memories

and we will see what we thought was cold/wintery about each one.

musical mondays – a new thought

so i have done loads of musical mondays of music i like, and prob could continue ad infinitum. i share this music with sb, and sometimes we chat about it, sometimes we listen, and sometimes its in the background.
and then i contemplate ambleside online. now, i know actually that this isn;t right for us yet. i don’t think we are in the mood to start with the discussion of composer and time and place etc. we can touch on these things – and have done. but percolating though my mind, this just hasn’t grabbed me.
soooo, since i have so much free time and all :roll: i thought i would do what i think will suit us best! :lol:
and it is still music listening and themes. i doubt i can do this weekly, but def monthly.
amy commenters are v welcome [indeed i would be indebted!] to link to music in the theme. and if i had time, i would like to find artwork themes to match.

these boots were made for walking

i have a lovely pair of walking boots that i have had since the sixth form – 20 years oldish. i have had periods when i have barely worn them, but wearing them again more recently at helmsley remindded me how beautiful they are in fit and comfort [scarpa asolo, cost a fortune at the time!]. anyway, i wore them yesterday as it was nature walk day.

we went to meet up with the manor borns for our nature walk. it was a bit parky in the weather department, but we took soup with us to eat when we got there [it takes 3/4 hour] and then waited. Marcus cycled there, and looked pleased to see us [and soup] and the michelle and chloe. we got walking and did the hill fort route this time. its fairly newly opened. it was a good walk actually, in the end. but we all still prob like the quarry route best! we did think the walk might be doomed, but the girls all cheered up – in part helped by santa sleigh gold coins that were dotted about.

Back to the manor borns for a lovely tea [as always] and then we were dreadful guests – well sort of – because we game napped marcus and had a fab game of agricola. michelle was a resigned game widow and ‘putered away and provided drinks, one i spluttered over then game as marcus made me laugh just as i had taken a mouthful :roll:

is anyone a game player at centreparcs?

anyway, lovely evening.

today we have been to the panto, and all really enjoyed it, organised by the brownies. the girls thought it totally fab, and me and chris enjoyed it to, the same place as we went to last year. i think they do a good panto. don’t try to be fancy or clever, and stick to tried and tested panto success!!

came home and watched the second harry potter followed by the second dr who, and bb still bumbling about as she slept in the car.

a follow up to orgo planning*

* commission payable to mazportico for use of term i believe!
I find nov and january my typical times to take stock. this nov was far too busy, so i went for the jan option. so i asked SB what in the HE lark was good/ exciting

she said she liked best spelling, and reading. i said, is that it?? well, no, she said she liked the maths, science and french. ermm, and everything, but wasn’t sure about galore park. she enjoys all her groups, and is happy with what we are doing at the moment and doesn’t think there is anything new at the moment.

so there, that is the basis of the orgoplanning – more of the same

Home ed thoughts for the year

I looked at my mission statement, and with relief saw that it was valid till 2010 :lol:
obviously some things change! Not the basic philosophy, but how we are approaching the nitty gritty section!
literacy: SB has declared the galore park junior english OK, so that will start us with looking at the breakdown of how ‘english works’ as we have seen she now has a requirement for learning sentence structure and names. She also is enjoying the wizard whimstaff spelling workbooks, so we will continue with these. we do less getty and dubay at the moment because of the above.
maths we are on 3a and also reading books involving maths storylines. she is finding it all easy at the moment, so i hope to do some with her and perhaps push on a bit.
history is unchanged really, with SOTW as the core [and we are half way through as predicted, as we take 2 rather than 1 year per book], and reading story books and interesting fact books. we all enjoy the reading, but i should make an effort to do more associated activities. when we did this with the vikings, we all really enjoyed it. just remembered that when she is 8 she can join the young archaeologists, so will look into this.
critical thinking and logic is by games playing, both board games and ds, with sudoku and easy kakuro too.
science is having some more formal time with the latinetc group on alternate wednesdays, which is all good fun. i don’t really think anything much there has changed. our new microscope is exciting!! oh, MUST try and sort out astronomy group, and Sarah [bless her] as given me her old science club kits now she isn’t HE-ing, that i use in the latinetc group [thnx]
geography we haven’t really got to grips with except as an adjunct to history or following NORAD tracks santa! will ponder how to usefully put in!
I am encouraged by our success really with languages, it seems that our story book plus some add on actiivities are really working for us. I’m not saying that either of the girls are having a conversation in french, just that i can see we are slowly acquiring the language in a fun way – if possibly not the most efficient! latinetc and a bit of practice inbetween is fun too.
I am a bit discouraged in our music. SB stopping the violin was a bit of a blow, but i have said we are child led, so… piano continues as does music theory. we should do more practice though for piano and recorder. a friend around the blogline reminded me about ambleside online, and perhaps we should look at its composer study
we lost drama, though did do a drama activity week. if it ever fits in again, it will be added. PE activities fine – gym has commenced and is loved, though horseriding still outstanding! SInce BB also has a bike. we should add some family biking.
arts and crafts have been done, and SB won a village painting competition with much pride. but now thinking of perhaps working in some technique! i have books about paintings, about painters and about how too, so hopefully this will be good for us!
domestic science [rofl] is fine. we sew more, and are considering a sewing project to make a needle case at the moment. perhaps starting to cook savour food – ie dinners – is a starting point now.
socialising took a bit of a hit with her broken foot and then emotional wobbles, but i think it has been enough that she is a happy girl. i aim to get my weekends out to see who wants to visit as soon as i have my work rota. i think this is something we will always need to be proactive with. we have a group holiday in both jan and feb to look forward too, however. from the HE groups, it appears that there may be a possible monday group after the sports to go too – and other weeks if wanted, and alt week thurs group attendance works out OK – it is available weekly. with the alt wed latinetc and monthlyish city 2 group, that is a fair group commitment!
with my sisters breast cancer diagnosis last year, chris’s uncles bowel cancer that has been resistant to chemo and inoperable, and the news before christmas that little nanny’s breast cancer has spread and that we should take what time we have, we have also been working hard to see and visit relatives we love, not taking the time for granted.
we have started off on some trips out and about, and as BB gets more and more out of them, we will increase them. certainly SB has loved them, as have we.

So there you go, our mid term gap analysis if you will!! we need to something about geography – [i still think geocaching mapreading and some good games would do the trick - we just need to do them], jiggle things a bit with music [ie practice more and see if we can do basic group stuff more and perhaps the ambleside online] and art [which we have the wherewithal to do - doing some technique stuff gently] and increase the socialisation and out and abouting which we all enjoy. we have been surprised and happy with our languages, and continue to be happy with maths, literacy and science – we enjoy this and find it easy and fun. don’t plan to change much there, except perhaps gently encourage more regular ‘work’ – a bit like merry’s normals perhaps – to speed through the maths a bit. history chugs along, we all like it, but don’t have the passion of other HE we know, but i think adding more practical things in and related trips would really lift it.

so not bad, i guess.

oh, and no, there is no mission statement yet for BB – she’s not the age of compulsary education!

outstanding parental tasks :lol:
1. arrange some horseriding!
2. RSPB badge scheme thingies as a fun thing to do or perhaps nature detectives club [thnx jax]
3. geocaching
4. organise diary for visiting family and friends
5. arrange trips out and about!
6. tidy the craft stuff so accessible [at least the science stuff done]
7. check resources on ambleside online wrt composer study +/- artists [thnx kirsty]
8. Astronomy group
9. young archaeologists
10. hmm, consider science equipment needs, and kirsty – unhelpfully – linked to what look to me fab books

thinks: OMG that’s rather a lot on the to do list!

Happy New Year!!

SORRY for my tardy blogging, extenuating circumstances ‘n all!!
where did I get to – reads own blog – ah thanks for all the well wishes! only Monday. i really am dreadful if there are a few days to catch up on. i had better read brightkite as well for clues!! [it wasn't that helpful]

SO, tues was a working day for me, and chris took the girls to his parents for a final play with uncle and cousins. much enjoyed! i got home v late!! [that was quick wasn't it!]

wed we did some home ed type stuff, as BB v keen to be able to read by 5 and win her DS. nearly everyone she knows seems to have one or access to one now, and she is most put out. however, entirely in her favour, she isn’t being grumpy, but pro-active. i liked the fact she got out her get ready for the code and said she was doing the whole book that wed! she didn’t – obviously! but did 4 pages, and can recognise a t now!! She also did more writing – being v keen on that, even with limited letters. they do look like words, though obviously not in a language i use! she also did various drawings and craftings. Oh, and a fair amount of ‘putering – mostly on poisson rouge.

SB did a bit of her spelling book, and read some of the crusaders book and then mostly got on with making chocolates, wrapping chocolates and decorating a box for the puddle girls. it took her most of the day, and she received negligible amounts of help. she thought to use the molds of the advent chocs, and made plain and milk choc. i was most impressed!

I made the thankyou card on publisher, unfortunately no photo printer paper, so relying on chris to get that so we can get thankyous out quickly – the girls have to write a smidge in them, rather than a whole wallop, so gets it done easily. i also cut bb’s hair at her great insistence at it was getting too long. SB doing some magic trick demonstration put her off sitting still, so a snotch later and adjustment it is shorter than planned, oh well, it does grow quickly.

in the afternoon, waiting for the puddles arrival we read loads of books. we did some french – based around a french book initially, but then cherchez le all over the rooming! we read lots of nice readers with bB – those quentin blake illustrated books from the book people [ Fantastic Daisy Artichoke , Zagazoo , Cockatoos (Red Fox picture books) ]Just So Stories stories and a rather lovely book The Glass Heart

merry and girls [and max – sorry] arrived – woohoo, though i still miss the merrymobile. and we got started!! the girls all ran off and played, with ds then dressing up and generally having fun. BB and josie took a bit more getting going, though the happy street and blokus seemed to help [merry won]. kids had a make your own pizza, toasted marshmallows, chocolates from SB and then watched fireworks provided by Max [we forgot this year - oops] . it was a touch cold!

packed off the younger 2 to bed, the older 4 got ready and ds-ed and very quietly got on with it – no idea when they fell asleep, but before midnight! merry and i played more blokus [my left hand playing as BB won] and we had a take away curry. Chris and i were not au fait with time, so we missed toasting the new year! – oops, but we did have baileys, mulled wine, ‘real’ wine and cups of tea [rofl] and a lovely evening. [we really know how to party, but...] anyway we chatted, chilled and were aspirational

Thurs morning i toddled off to work, but got back before lunch, and in fact before everyone was up. the girls were rampaging about, and ready for second breakfast. Josie and BB integrating well after a good sleep. CHris cooked about 2 billion pancakes for brunch, which were all devoured in the end. The Babs and family arrived during devoural phase, having heard via brightkite that some might be in the offing and nipping down the A14! We waved goodbye to the puddles having seen the new year in in lovely fashion – thanks v much for coming.

they were just going to stay for afternoon tea, but our new Agricola proved too tempting. we set up, puzzle over the rules, and decided to just get on with it. it took 5 hours to play the first game :lol: . During that time the children played fabulously, got their own food and drinks, and sorted things out. they were obviously v aware that parents were not likely to intervene. even more fabulously, when they did get parental attention, we were pleased to find the house still in one piece! bB and R are real cuties together, and BB has joined the throng of small girls with a crush on B – tempting him to play lego with her with the promise of dinosaurs! lots of dr who games in play anyway.

i have to say, harking back to agricola, that we all really enjoyed the game. the possible strategies became clearer. we doh-ed over various rules when we got it wrong, and although it took 5 hours playing the simple version [2 decks missing - wow what a game with the other 2 in!!] i think one hour of that was setting up and working out the rules and confirming them and just fiddling, and then we prob could knock another hour off for not knowing what things did etc. so a 3 hour game on the simple rules. AM strongly thinking of taking it to Manor Borns tomorrow, but i think they prefer the shorter games?

chris is suggesting more games : 10 days in… under the ‘will be educational’ ruse!! [a ruse i obviously never use!]. ooh, there is a europe version as well 10 Days in Europe . i think Em is raving about the Stone Age game she got as a birthday present…

Where was I. oh yes, we took so long playing the game, that it was a late dinner for the kids. ANd also declared too late for The Babs and co to go home, so sleepover declared – woohoo! the children seemed to have found a number of sweet and savoury options in the day however, so not too dreadful over late dinner rustled up from left overs – not our best catering acheivement. we had them playing outside with headtorches to use up some energy before dinner and then bed. B was excited by SB’s The Magic Tree House Library: Books 1-28 collection – so went ot bed with one of those, whilst E and SB ds-ed. cutely, when we adults went upstairs, E was asleep clutching open ds – obviously had just collapsed asleep mid play!

Fri: unfotunately despite earlyish night and no alcohol due to work [and luckilly not called in] i awoke with storming migraine, and took every med at my disposal, so missed saying goodbye to Barbara and chris – sorry. it was really lovely having you over. I slept until about 2, and have taken more meds constantly since then, so am in ‘bearable but grouchy’ condition. the house was tidied, and children did some home ed things – sb pulled out the Junior English Book 1 she hadn’t been keen on before and did the first section of the first chapter. [i didn't realise galore park was available from amazon too] BB did some more Get Ready for the Code – Book a which she enjoys, and both girls did some writing. SB did a smidgen of singapore maths. BB practiced counting to 40 [as this is her new 'stair' target] and they both counted to 40 in french. we pretended this is SB’s stair target – not that she really ever gets sent to the stairs!! [we only introduced this as BB required different parenting, mainly because she is so strong willed and determined that sometimes we each need a short break to remember we are adults, so a count to 20 [now 40] on the stairs and return and both say sorry accomplishes this]

BB fancied doing a science kit, and chose the music one [University of Oxford Kids Pocket Science Kit MUSIC ]. SB and chris set up the lap top and her new microscope [ link for kirsty: QX-5 Computer Microscope ] in the kitchen. this was her main xmas pressie, and she was v delighted by it. she looked at salt, bicarb, hair, prev made crystals and their slide. it worked perfectly and easily so happiness all round. since at least one person out their is looking to buy something along that lines, 2 things really – at 200 the lighting isn’t quite bright enough. it is oK, but could be a bit brighter. and the clips to hold the slide aren’t brill – though OK. i could be being picky, as the only microscopes i have used in a long while are particularly top of range! i can’t remember altering a slide’s position by hand for example, so i may have a high bar here!! SB found it v easy and intuitive to use, and quickly started to use the computer interface too, so i think ideal for her for quite a while. we are certainly all pleased with the purchase! BB also wanted a go, but was firmly discouraged – at least for now – as this is SB’s present. she did enjoy looking at the pics though [ah donner and blitzen, migraine returned full force suddenly, will wrap this up.]

both did a bit of xmas xraft presenting – felt flowers precut to be threaded to make jewellery for BB, and a felt crafting kit for SB. SB tested me on my french knowledge today – she chose words from the Picture Dictionary in French (Picture Dictionaries) , and I had to get the french. only one wrong out of 10 – oops. she thinks i may need more practice… [it was fire engine as i guessed with lorry of firemen]

i have just gone back and bolded. i just prefer my long blogs to be BOLD!! :lol:

back at work

but while i was out, chris has done a fab job with tidying up the house. the girls have played alot with their castle, and i managed to pick up a quick bargain at tescos – a coffee table to play games on! our front room being the warmest at night due to fire] and dining room coldest [due to radiators on minimal] playing games in these christmas nights has been a chilly affair. £7 later and we are all set!!

on coming home from work we read a french book altogether, and SB and i did a bit of story of the world together – crusaders. we also read our come look with me book on modern art , Exploring Modern Art (Come Look with Me) , together [sb partic fond of modern art] And this fitted in well with the Matisse: The King of Color (Anholt’s Artists Books for Children Series) book bb got for xmas, and both have enjoyed reading. this year i am fired up with enthusiasm for art! i am also tempted by the following books, Artrageous (Klutz) , Drawing for the Artistically Undiscovered (Klutz) , and Mark Kistler’s Draw Squad . I think i am def going to get this one, Watercolour (Klutz) , and was wondering if any of the latinetc bunch also liked it?? cos it could be done in the french immersion session, but it would need one book each…


anyway! after that i played some build a beetle with BB – her rules, and fell asleep! [only a short while, but when i woke up chris had the girls in the bath!! and then some puerto rico with SB. it isn’t really playable as 2 player properly, but it gives us both a brush up on the rules etc.