Colouring and colouring and ……

Well, that was the theme of the day, colouring really. She did ages this morning, found a colouring book we bought in Italy earlier this year, sat down witht he pencils quietly and coloured away. This book had coloured pictures and matching blanks, she seemed to really like that, as she copied all the colours (and made a fuss when she didn’t quite the right shade of yellow etc.)

She has suddenly really developed the pencil control here. For ages colouring wasn’t one of her fortes, she didn’t really seem to make much effort/be interested at all and it was typically quick scribble of colour ‘ done’. Now she is much more controllled, keeps teh colour moslty inside the lines, is much more careful, concentrates much more on and spends much longer doing it. And seems very pleased witht the result.

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So , other than colouring, we went swimming later on, SB wanted to cycle, but the pool isn’t very near (nearest 6 miles, this one 8 miles), so bit of big round trip just yet. SB easily managed to kick a width with a float in front and she almost managed to swim/doggy paddle a width as well, did about 80 %. sdo she was on about swimming lessons again – Helen had said that she could have them once she could swim a width, BB bobbed about, gurgled, almost floated, kicked her legs and chuckled at SB. There was only me, which frustrated SB a bit, as she likes playing with in the pool, and it’s bit more limiting when i Ive got BB as well. At the poolwe went to in Leeds it was at private gym and was lovley, there was seperate kids pool with squirty water things, slide etc. so she could entertain herself more a lot as well.

I guess it is an under 5 session so they just ahve variosu floats etc. around. What she’d really like I guess is one of those big inflatables (or visit to Centrparcs….) We all had fun though.

On return BB slept for about 3 hours solid – bit worn out I think :-) So me and SB had nice easy lunch together. After that there was a bit more colouring, then we went and gave BB’s high chair a good wash We used the pressure washer as it has too many nooks and crannies and is a pain to clean, hence it doesn’t get done properly often enough, so gave that good going over, cleanest it’s been I think since we bought it.

Then she wanted to get the Happy Street out, I did want to go and harvest all the shallots and onions, butr she wasn’t having any of it. So we built a nice Happy-tropolis and played with that – every time I tried to sneak off she complained.

BB woke up when it was almost her dinner time, so sat on the sofa feeding her, and doing more colouring with SB. I was just about to start dinner when Helen came home, so she spent time with the girls while I did dinner, a little bit of Hama-ing went on, but SB not entirley ahppy, and tipped what she had started back into the bowl. she doesn’t like Helen working so much (well none of us do) and then sometimes gets frustrated when BB gets in the way as well. She even commented at dinner time on why Helen was at work more – and the last couple of weeks ahve not been good workwise time anyway.

She fell asleep quickly though once in bed :-)

Just got to blog

to remove Chris’s awful blog from the top! He might as well have gone the whole hog, and Jax style put some photos up!!
mind you, our room not much better than Jax’s and hurricanes SB and BB have ripped up Happy Street – well mostly BB – and the floor is in uproar – add to that cratefulls of pencils,armfuls of books, some tops I got from ebay, sundry pages of the guardian and some hama beads…… well, you get the right impression.

I am on call, was in work until just after 6, so lucky to get back tonight. Greeted by an enthusiastic SB and a ravenous BB. Fed BB and told SB a story -after picking my way over happy street. We hama-ed while BB tore up happy street – chuckling and raaaring as she went. SB getting much more careful of the hama, but too impatient yet to complete anything on the midi bead size. they are fiddly aren’t they. I doubt I’d want to do the small. Lots more books and the macaroni cheese for tea – yum.

SB told me about her day – and as chris blogging better, he will prob add, but in summary, she was too attentiony for him to do anything seperate – and these jobs were pick the shallots and onions, and pack for hols. Upshot is that we wont be going on holiday tomorrow, but tues. Will text you sarah re wed if that OK. Maybe SB and I will pick tomorrow, as the shallots and unions really need to come up. They did go swimming, and she has done loads of really beautiful colouring, as well as play with the happy street. Anything else he’ll have to say.

Shame about the hols, but we are chilling, and it is better that we start a day late rather than get all twitched up to get there tomorrow night in dark and rain!

Special thoughts from this blog to Jax and Layla and families for tomorrow and the rest of the week, when I will be starved of knowing how things going on.

Time to clean the car out?

Get in the car this morning to go swimming, SB says ‘Why does this car get smellier and smellier?…….’

Minbari?

I don’t know, SB looked like a Bejoran at birth and BB a Klingon. Chris has swapped sci-fi programmes, and gone for a babylon 5 Minbari look!

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Grapes and Bikes

These are the biggest happenings of the day – so obviously a relaxed one. i have had a really heavy week at work, and working tomorrow, so did need relaxed. i also haven’t been quite so manic today as needed a bit more headspace.

SB got up at some ungodly hour, and got up chris as well. BB and I slept a while longer, and then I got breakfast in bed – very nice. [no I haven't done night weaning or controlled crying yet]. Meandered downstairs and the outside. We started off with making scrabble words. SB made 3 3 letter words [cvc] herself that joined and was proud, but that was enough. BB had a lot of fun on the rocker horse. SB then did a counting game with chinese chequers board with me, whose rules I misunderstood, so a ‘moment’ there. Book time to calm things down, and I was brough the space and the machines picturepedia of DK. I was surprised how much SB has remembered about space, as it must be quite a number of months since we last really looked at it. She also remebered the gluing shapoes space picture we did back in march or april – blogged so I can find it! Thisn time we concentrated more on galaxies and the lifecycle of stars. She liked the idea of constellations, so this eve tried to look for some, but too cloudy. Didn’t see Venus either, but not sure whether that is in an evening or morning phase at the mo. We also had a look around the garden at different leaf types – and took photos for potential use in future.

Some making up stories later, and we went to harvest lunch – potatoes, runner beans and sweetcorn. Also some figs. SB now good at spotting the ripe sweetcorn and figs too. That gave us the idea for checking on the grapes, and a short taste test and we harvested the first bunch!! – wow, we are really happy about this. And they are nice eaters. some of the smaller slightly tart, but not too much. the largest very juicy and sweet.

While chris cooked lunch, SB did some sticker sleeping beauty story book, I read it too her, and then she did all the stickers while I played peekaboo with BB. Before that, she was BB the destroyer, ripping up the not-brio track that SB had obviously put out while we were still in bed. Yummy lunch, and some general playing. A short amount of singapore maths while chris [and BB] got the tandem ready, and then they were off for a spin.

While I was slightly nervous, BB and I had fun walking round the room and general chuckling and 9 month interactions. I don’t often get the chance to play so much with BB without interruption. Its quite pleasant isn’t it, to just be playing with one for a change. [not that I would swap anything here!]

the bigger beans returned unharmed, and I got a blow by blow account. Mostly wildness, rollerskating and magazine reading, then lots and lots of beautiful colouring in – finally she does it in the lines and carefully. This is probably tieing in with her increased interest in writing – where is that sonlight order with the getty and dubay! Anyway, we did writing practice in a jolly phonics workbook. I got to play a lot more with BB as well, without feeling I was depriving SB. maybe i should be more laid back more often? Nah.

Anyway, baths and both asleep. SB wanted Thomas books again – obviously back on a train theme, so will perhaps do a train ride next week in somerset.

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nervous

Chris and SB gone for first ever tandem cycle ride …. on the roads. i had been thinkin g quiet estate or cycle track.
worried!
SB very excited

Quickety Quick

Beans seem to have a great day, they went to the mudpud group at Merry’s this pm. chris didn’t manage to make the animal halves, but it didn’t seem to matter. SB was full of playing whisper games and dragon chasing with Fran Maddy and E.

I was at work [and on call] and had to give my business plan type talk – was asked for a 1 1/2 hour talk on the future [to infinity and beyond...] – well, I’m afraid I find some of this management stuff a bit playacting at times. But was told this morning that they really wanted a SWOT analysis and 10 mins, so rewrote the whole bugger. [having googled for SWOT analysis!]

Actually it went well, i overan so was cut short, but fairly bounced like tigger around room with enthusiasm for my field, and apologised for my lack of management jargon [aka twaddle] due to not having an MBA [though didn't mention I had had to google SWOT analysis!], and stuffed talk full of incomprehensible speciality and health economics words instead As it happens, I actually had prepared talk properly [can't bear not to], and chief exec seemed impressed [good heavens].

Rather relieved to join the real world and speak plain english again. [well, for me, I know you think I write like dictation or telegram!]

home to the beans, and SB kisses and cuddles, and cupboard love and chuckles from BB. We have done some letter writing and sticker maths, and a bit of reading [a science encyclopaedia way over head about atoms, molecules and the periodic table. She did enjoy it, and we played find the element – wierd!]. Chris’s new tandem arrived, so duly oohed and aahed over it. SB very excited.

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As Merry has mentioned the Puddlers groups didn’t go quite to plan, but Merry’s house and garden were very accomodating, hope the carpet recovered ok. SB fell aslepp in the car on the way their and was still asleep when I put her in an armchair. Looked a little confused when she woke up, not expecting to be there. :-) Got upset on the way home though when she suddenly said ‘we didn’t go to the pirate place’ – (she means the hall, this is our second visit to the group – first time they were doing parents) – convinced her that she hadbeen, just at Merry’s house. She moslty did colouring in green and yellow of various animal printouts and then lost of playing and running around. Prised her away so that we could get home in time for the man from the bike shop to deliver the new toy. I gave it quick twirl, SB was really excited by it and wanted ago, but it was to late so she’ll have to wait until tomorrow. With petrol set to hit ?1 litre we will have to give it as much use as we can.

Helen has mentioned looking at the Science encylopedia, I do love the way she seems so interested in this stuff. Even when the book is pitched way above her age, she really does like you to read/tell her things about what it is showing.

Nothing to do with the above, I just love this url Raising Godly Tomatoes – not so sure of the content, TCS it ain’t. Came across it on another email list (CM4earlyears)

I have my flickr back!!

…and still loads of back catalog to do [grin!]

Anyway, SB and BB happy to see me on return from work – unlike JJ, we did NOT have sleeping baby last night [or bed on time Mum]. The storm was something though wasn’t it!

Our social diary prob full for this term, so very happy with that, and will fill up next as well. [though may squeeze a bit more in!]
We are def planning to have a no-school/housewarming next summer term start for SB, as that is her ‘official’

Today she has done a lovely painting at nursery and brought it back. We did more brio-alike [well tescos!] making up stories. She still insists the name is Hemery and Hemerietta though. While doing this BB fed for England [thank god, as so engorged could have knocked holes in concrete as no time to express at work today].

Chris found a cricket in the kitchen so we had a look at that, and then it jumpd all over the place before caught and shown the door!

Nice ‘Ken Hom’ made by chris for tea – though he needs to improve at stringing runners – while Sb counted mouthfuls in German. We also looked at a Marshalls veg catalogue to decide what to grow, and although she was haywire with page 50, she spotted 66 and 67 instantly – wierd]. some addition and subtraction went on as well.

me and SB did her phonics on the leappad. I got a box set of 10 phonics books with a multicartridge from american ebay and its brill. I had worried about the american accent, but SB either ignores or laughs as she repeats words such as fragile. of course being SB, we are not actually doing them in logical progression, so did book 10 – compound words! however, she is realising -gradually- that if she thinks about the letters she can read the simple words. Obviously she prefers wild guessing most of the time!

BB def 4 teeth now – ouch.

anyway, back to yesterday…..

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Puddle-bumping.

Had another visit from the Patch of Puddles which was lovely. Though sadly Fran was not feeling very well and spent most of the time sitting, lying quietly which was a shame. But the rest of them all had a good time. This is a great house for having visitors, plenty of space inside and out for the kids to run about and play, plenty of space in side and out for the adults to sit and chat, drink tea, eat etc. :-) Day was lovley and hot and sunny, autumn will soon be on it’s way, so need to make the best of these.

I was out getting supplies when they arrived, apparently there was an odd little time on first arrival as Stringbean and the puddlers settled in with each other -SB not wanting to join in and play with them, which happened before, resolved by bringing out some new bits of Brio type train track . Not sure wat that is about exactly but by the time I arrived they were off and playing., flitted in and out of the house, playing upstairs, on the climbing frame, riding scooter, bikes etc. Didn’t really notice exactly what they were doing but they all seemed to be happy most of the time. Evidence of playing with old Cindy dolls on the landing, snippets of the typical ‘Do you want to be the baby, I’ll be mummy’ type conversations, and lost of running around, clambering about, whilst adults chatted and gossiped.

Had nice lunch, cooked the kids some pasta – mostly becuase we know they will all eat it, and it’s quick,. Served it to them on a table down the end of the garden well out of earshot ;-) Then did a pitta bread, hoummus, olives, salad, corn-on-cob type thing for the adults, plus the kids to eat bits of as they saw fit Sat muncing on this under the gazebo on the lawn whilst children swirled around us back and forth.

It’s great watching them all playing together, SB and Maddy in particular seem to get on well (nearest in ages of course). BB and Josie did the sitting, squirming (BB) and crawling (Josie) baby thing happily all day. We do feel that SB maybe misses out on playing with other kids a bit. In Leeds she had a circle of he friends from Helen’s ante-natal group that often met up most weeks,and tots club (with many of the same) etc.. We’ve not really managed to make any suitable contacts yet in the village, we did attend a few group things in the village, but moslty it was younger kids attending (not that SB seemed to mind), presumably the older ones were at nursey, playgroup etc. and of course lots will be going to school very soon. She doesn’t seem obviosluly bothered by this, but maybe she is too young to think about it. But she does love children visiting her,and when we go to the playground, she always likes it when ther are other cildren around who she can play with. And as a dad (since I’ve done most of it of course), it does seem a bit harder to link into the mum’s network sort of thing that groows aup aroubnd the variosu baby/toddler activities.We’ll see how things go I guess.

Anyway, we all decided to try and make the effort to get togther a bit more often. Will hopefully make the Peterborough Puddlers meeting on Friday

I would include some piccies , but of course H has gobbled up our flickr upload allowance for this month. So it will have to wait until tomorrow. She has only got a slighty twitchy mouse finger….

helen edit: it was a lovely day – sorry if i seemed vague at times, but getting too old for 24 hour shifts. SB had bee really excited by puddlers coming, but also very clingy when I got home – she really hates my 24 hour shifts, and wants to do everything with me the next day, which is lovely but I’m usually knackered.

Before the puddlers arrived, we talked about what she had done yesterday, read some of my history of england for children ebay purchase books [lovely!] – for once we read modern history, so first and second world wars, and related them directly to family members, which she grasped. Also discussed a bit why wars might happen. there was a cartoon piccie towards end of margaret thatcher and all SB could think about was what a fat head she had got – i think a bit of a lack of appreciation of artistic licence!

we did some more patterning with the connect 4, but the real business was trying on the rollerskates I got from the friends shop for ?1. these are the bees knees as far as she is concerned, and she skated all over the playroom, the corridors and outside. Only one egg on her forehead, and otherwise getting the knack – did have to put my foot down about wearing them on the climbing frame – particularly when the puddlers were here ‘but maddy said I could go down the slide fast’…..hmm!!!!

Chris has covered the puddlers – which was lovely, thanks for visiting. Need to contact Karen O in Northants too. [if you're reading....] We are hoping to catch 2 red boots next week when in somerset/devon camping [venue TBA!], and hopefully firming up a few open house visitors, so that’s good.

When puddlers left, a long cuddle, as SB very sad to see them go – so after a shaky start… next time must sort out icebreaker activity. May go to Merry’s next so she doesn’t have to do the trek. if Chris not working and avail to drive that would be fine – i just worry about driving long distances if been up hald the night. From october though, hopefully, it will be less likely to happen due to rota changes. Poor Merry had some maniac driver behind her on way here though.

Anyway, long cuddle and then SB did me lots of flowers with her spirograph, carefully writing hers and my names beside them as we love each other. She is just adorable. Since I had crashing migraine [combination of approaching storm, no sleep and stress] I was slightly out of it, but hopefully managed to get across how lovely it was. The I did crash and chris has done whole bedtime thing – i didn’t even feed BB [though I did lots in the day]

Massive storm – so migraine eased off, but still very muggy. really lovely and long phone call from a uni mate of mine, who we are also meeting up with next week. She is SB and BB’s godmother.

Summer’s still here.

Oh dear, dozed off on the sofa, now I’ve woken up I of course don’t feel ready to go to bed. So might as well do the blogging I meant to do earlier.

Beautiful sunny morning, both the girls were up with us before Helen had to head off to work, sadly for another 24 hours shift, see you in the morning love :-( Stringbean was keen to do ‘some making’ and keen to raid the craft cupboard. But agreed with my suggestion of breakfast first. So yet another bowl of Cocopops (she will need to go cold turkey when this box is finished) was consumed.

SB then launched into a pianting, cutting and sticking fest. Doing some painting in one of her colouring books, making another ‘robot’ out of an old egg box, and i’m not sure what else exactly as I was giving BB her breakkie, getting her changed etc. She was a bit disappointed to have put some purple glue on top , to be told that it would turn clear once it dried. She has got a lot better at at concieving a plan of action and carrying it out, she had described most of what she was going to do to make a robot before she started.

This seemed to take up the first part of the morning until BB went for her nap by 10am. Resisting the temptation to stay on the bed and listen to R4, I returned to SB and made coffee, she moved onto an old issue of one of the BBC kiddies magazines which she worked her way through, we read all the stories, the spot the differences, and various puzzzles, and then made the Dora game that was in part of it. Though we never got round to playing it.

BB woke up and while I got her and played with her a bit SB took herself off to the playroom and spent ages again playing with the Connect 4 making patterns witht he pieces. Then we tidied up the kitchen bit and had lunch. SB was very good at feeding BB her lunch while I got ours ready.

After lunch we headed into the garden, though it was so hot we decided it was best moslty just to flop. SB helped me concrete in the base for the whirlygig washing line (at last). By then we needed a nice cold drink, so cold iced drinks for us, while BB enjoyed playing and sucking on ice cubes. Had meant to shift the heaps of greenery left over from work at the weekend but decide to sit in the shade and read a few books , and play games with BB instead.

Ahh, BB calls, time for bed I guess, we did have good mathsy workbook session before bedtime though.