child of our time personality test

i did it, whenever it was first mooted – was it a year ago? these are my results.

You scored 4.7 out of 5 for Openness

You scored high on Openness.

This trait is sometimes known as ‘Openness to experience’. People with scores like yours tend to be imaginative and curious about a wide range of things, from appreciating different art forms to exploring new places, cultures and foods.

Generating lots of imaginative ideas probably comes very easily to you. However, it’s likely that you are prone to daydreaming too.

Innovators, investigators and creators often score highly on this trait. It has also been suggested that Openness is related to a person’s likelihood to hold unusual beliefs. Do you enjoy the odd conspiracy theory?

You scored 3.8 out of 5 for Conscientiousness

You scored medium on Conscientiousness.

Conscientiousness describes how dependable, organised and hard-working a person is likely to be. This may be the reason why, of all the personality traits, Conscientiousness is the most consistent indicator of job success. People with scores like yours are less likely to be workaholics, instead achieving a good work-life balance.

Conscientiousness often gives clues to the amount that a person plans. You probably enjoy planning aspects of your life and may indulge in occasional list-making, but you are unlikely to be averse to behaving spontaneously.

Some studies have shown the more Conscientious an individual is, the more disciplined they are likely to be about exercise and diet.

You scored 3.8 out of 5 for Extroversion

You scored high on Extroversion.

Extroversion is characterised by positive emotions and the tendency to seek out pleasure-stimulating or risk-taking activities. People with scores like yours are often perceived as gregarious, expressive and energetic. You are likely to be someone who enjoys socialising and be quick to form new friendships.

Personality studies have shown that scoring highly on Extroversion often translates to a natural capacity for leadership. High Extroversion may also indicate a tendency to earn more than those with lower scores, but the reasons for this are unclear.

People with high Extroversion are more likely to lead risky lifestyles and take greater risks in pursuit of rewards. Health studies have shown they are more likely to smoke and less likely to get enough sleep than people who score less highly on this trait.

You scored 4.6 out of 5 for Agreeableness

You scored high on Agreeableness.

Agreeableness measures how sympathetic and considerate a person is likely to be. People with scores like yours are likely to find it very easy to get along with other people. You probably find that you are sensitive to the feelings of others and that people find it easy to warm to you.

As a ‘people person’ you will probably be very comfortable in situations that require teamwork.

You scored 2.6 out of 5 for Neuroticism

You scored low on Neuroticism.

In the context of the Big Five personality traits, the term ‘Neuroticism’ relates to a person’s response to threatening or stressful situations. People with scores like yours are often seen as being calm and even-tempered. They cope well with stressful situations and may seem tranquil despite adverse circumstances.

Some scientists have suggested that Neuroticism was beneficial in evolutionary terms. Early man may have found it advantageous to live in a population where certain individuals had a high sensitivity to threats to the group’s survival.

There is evidence to suggest that Neuroticism, when combined with high scores in personality traits such as Conscientiousness, can result in a powerful work ethic and a will to succeed.

Life satisfaction

6.4/7

The questions you answered about your life satisfaction have been used to reveal the degree to which you feel contentment in key areas of your life. Data from this part of the Big Personality Test will help scientists understand the relationship between personality and life satisfaction.

You scored high. Research has uncovered relationships between personality and life satisfaction. People with high Extroversion consistently score more highly than others on scales used to measure a person’s level of wellbeing or happiness.

You scored high on Extroversion. This is consistent with research that shows that people with scores like yours tend to score high on measures of wellbeing.

Extroversion relates to how much positive emotion a person experiences. This may help explain why they often score highly on measures of wellbeing.

Relationships

4.4/5

The questions you answered about your relationships have been used to generate a score that indicates how satisfied you are in your current or most recent relationship. Data from this part of the Big Personality Test will help scientists understand the connections between personality and relationship quality.

Research shows that there is an association between relationship satisfaction and the trait of Agreeableness.

You scored high on Agreeableness. This neither supports nor contradicts research that indicates an association between relationship satisfaction and the trait of Agreeableness; successful relationships are often based on concern for the feelings of others. It is important to remember, however, that many factors can influence satisfaction in a relationship, not least the similarity of the couple’s values.

Agreeableness relates to a person’s ability to understand other people’s thoughts and feelings. It may be this greater awareness of the feelings of others is what leads them to experience generally higher relationship satisfaction.

Job satisfaction

5/5

The questions you answered about your job satisfaction have been used to generate a score that indicates how happy you are in your job. Data from this part of the Big Personality Test will help scientists understand the relationship between personality and job satisfaction. Good job satisfaction is seen as a key feature of a well-balanced life.

You scored high. Research indicates that a low Neuroticism score in a person’s Big Five results is the best predictor of high job satisfaction.

You scored low on Neuroticism. This is consistent with research that shows that people with scores like your tend to score high on measures of job satisfaction.

The reasons behind the relationship between job satisfaction and Neuroticism are not clear. However, it is known that those scoring highly on Neuroticism generally report a less positive outlook on life. Accordingly, this could be reflected in their feelings towards work.

Health

68.8/100

The questions you answered about your health have been used to generate a score that indicates your general level of health and wellbeing. Data from this part of the Big Personality Test will help scientists understand the relationship between personality traits and physical and mental wellbeing.

Research has uncovered relationships between personality and health. In particular, Conscientiousness has consistently been shown as a positive predictor of good health.

You scored medium on Conscientiousness. Research shows that people with Conscientiousness scores broadly similar to yours are more likely to score highly on measures of health. It is important to remember, however, that there are many other factors that affect also your health, from your environment to your genes.

One reason that has been suggested for the relationship between Conscientiousness and health is that highly conscientious people can be disciplined and controlled in their daily habits, such as diet and exercise. Behaviour such as completing a course of medication prescribed by a doctor is thought to be an example of how a personality trait can contribute to a measurable outcome in our lives.

Life goals
Relationships

The questions you answered about your life goals have been used to reveal common themes in how you live your life and the things that are important to you. Data from this part of the Big Personality Test will help scientists understand the relationship between personality and life goals.

Your results showed that your goals are predominantly to do with your relationships; you value harmonious family relationships. Research has uncovered relationships between personality and life goals. It suggests that people with high Openness scores tend to pursue aesthetic goals, while people with high Extroversion scores tend to pursue hedonistic goals.

Scientists would like to know more about the personalities of people with life goals similar to yours.

wednesday!

yesterday at worked turned out to be one of those little bit excessive days. anyhoo… the girls and chris had a great day. lots of HE stuff done, and ballet prac. swimming as well.

rabbits are happy and lively. today we brought them into the conservatory for a run around, and they thought that was v novel! suggested to SB that she could do her home ed in there with them in a morning, so that they all stay friendly with each other. the 2 rabs are obviously v happy companions currently, but teenage hormones have yet to set in. [we plan to neuter them]

a latinetc day today – woohoo as had missed last one due to appalling migraine. K had the group migraine this time. almost always one of us! we did light, mirrors, rainbows and discussed newton and recreated his experiments. more luck with the youngest group as light best for them. had them running about being different speed light waves, talked about amplitude and frequency. think it went ok. they did some french i think with k, and def some latin, and music theory with G and SB did some clarinet too. fair bit of playing for kids and chatting for adults. on the way there we always listen to french cds, and getting a bit bogged down with this one second cd, tho we stil enjoy chanting the numbers! however the collins french is being enjoyed!

we had a play in the park and then came home, bb and i read another book [1+ level] woohoo!! and SB did some science about habitats [she loves] and SoTW 3 about james 1 [also loves!] BB had a parcel – she had won a DK book about dinosaurs from the dinomite magazine she gets. she was grumpy that it wasn’t the lego…

this eve SB had brownies and judo, BB mostly ran around madly being a knight on a horse, and we watched shrek 3 and played with bunnies.

thats all folks…

our 2 rabbits! snowy and skittles

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weekend catchup!

this weekend has been internet free for me. parents here, busy being busy etc etc!!
somewhat relieved to see that i got to thursday on last blog!

things what have been occurring:

both rabbits settled in – will put up a pic of snowy when i get round to it! once snowy happy to be here, have gradually been introducing her to skittles. after lots of side by side runs, swapping over to get each other’s scents, we tried them together. skittles made a dash for snowy, who ran away, looked scared and thumped. so that was short and sweet! but the next eve they were far more friendly, racing around the room. still a fair bit of skittles chasing, but some nose rubbing etc. so the next day we popped them in a run together, where space much more compressed. skittles ‘very affectionate’ towards snowy, v repeatedly. need to make sure def both girls! anyway, since then far more time together, and seem happy for now. apparently things can go pair shaped both if we neuter them and if we don’t, but at least for now seems ok!

parents visited! my parents arrived thurs eve and stayed till mon am. lovely for the girls to spend time with them. lots of playing games, talking, hugging. dad did a fair bit of work in the garden, and with mum in charge of the girls whilst i was at work, chris did some of the window work!!

oh yes, home ed! well, this blog is on a home ed ring! SB did an excellent day of home ed with mum. can’t remember exactly what, but included music theory and writing a story. mum gets to see at first hand the idiosyncratic spelling, but also how well SB can work [did prime her to do her best tho!] and a 2 page story! BB did some more reading, painting and playing.

on sat we visited my sister at centreparcs. well, me, mum and the girls! dad was gardening and chris windowing. met up in the pool, and i took charge of Em and BB whilst M and SB shot around rapids and slides etc. sis didn’t feel up to coming in the pool, some mum and B-I-L took turns to keep her entertained. def far more crowded than jan! lovely seeing her on her special weekend, and the kids all had a ball!! time just as always felt too short, and too much to leave unsaid…

SB had a quick turnaround as dropped over for brownies sleepover, which she really enjoyed. the ‘owl’ she finds difficult wasn’t there – so much better. tho she was v v tired when i picked her up!

a chilled sunday,lots of rabittiness, playing, reading of books to kids [as both overtired and overexcited!] and the playing alhambra with mum and dad!

mon i returned to work, and parents went to uncle reggies funeral. it turns out that we knew even less about him than imagined. he had a full regalia masonic lodge thing. in the eve SB had both ballet and then judo grading, and she has gone up to her next belt – woohoo SB!

another rabs joins the family

this eve BB got to finally bring home her rabs. from the brief hello we have had, it is skittish, speedy, poops everywhere and v hairy! and white. she is delighted. hmm, SB’s rabs is kinda litter trained, so maybe why not so poopy, and seems to be more of a lollopper than the high speed snowy. must get a pic!

today SB and I both got up late. i am struggling at sleeping again, which doesn’t help. not insomnia tho, as head hits pillow and i am out, but i wake with the sun and then doze in and out. so with a bedtime usually after midnight, just not getting enough zzzz’s!

both girls are getting into dreadful habits of falling asleep as late as their parents, even when in bed 9-ish [we are aiming for 8.30] so are consequently grouchy like their parents, and SB getting up late. this is having a number of knock on effects, so we are going to have to ‘do something’.

however, on the good news front, SB was commended at ballet for having improved. she has not done any further ballet practice tho, so need to step up my cajoling!

wonderful friend filled weekend

well, the election is still looking pretty undecided isn’t it. i hate to be admitting i am hoping for an uneasy pairing with conservatives!

this weekend we had a tidying frenzy start – well, ok, not so much!! but we made the playroom more or less safe for skittles to run around in. cutie rabbit!! we then were invitied to Ams birthday treat, and some comedic moments trying to coordinate that with our weekend guests. Brightkite and friends to the rescue! so we and kirsty and family made it to the bowling alley to meet merry and family for what turned out to be great fun bowling. it is safe to say that most of us were on the hopeless side, and that rails saved the day!! [kirsty is a bolwing dark horse btw!] thanks to the puddles for an unexpected party that was fun all round.

we had an emergency pizza tea [i overcatered!] and then the grown ups nattered untill way late, and the kids stayed up to 1am! [in the bedrooms] and were therefore pretty tired the next day!! some wii-ing, lots of sylvanianing, pretending BB was a pet dog etc etc!

next day i got up late :blush: we had pancake brunch, kids still doing similar games, and then we went geocache walking, and finally dropped off our 2 holiday travel bugs, and picked up a different one! lovely walk tho. camp curry for tea, SB nearly fell asleep mid walk upstairs, and BB, having had a mid eve nap, is currently still awake!

thanks v much for visiting us kirsty and james! was great.

May day weekend

1st of may, little nanny’s birthday. i miss her greatly. i last saw her last year for her birthday, and she died just over a month later. i miss her dreadfully. Her brother reggie missed her too, and somewhat curiously, died on her birthday this last weekend. he had a difficult life, and lots of it will remain a family mystery, but i don’t feel sadness at his passing. I feel great sadness at the loss of that generation, my nanny and her eccentric brothers and sisters – and they were all eccentric, as were their spouses. A huge loss, focused with the loss of little nanny, whom i still miss.

but we continued the plan of a norfolk holiday on the may bank, and shared it with friends. we were so very lucky as the weather was predicted to be awful, and it really wasn’t. though hail wasn’t quite so welcome! most of the rain was at night, the wind was quite blustery – made putting up the tarp more tricky! love our khyam tent tho. so, we had some new camping equipment. the benches and tables set 9/10

the cooking stand also worked well. poss 7/10 as slightly too tall, but only negative.
sat we put up and chatted. lovely to have le ciel rouge team added to camping buddies! very much happy to have! my girls both v keen to try and meet up more regularly. also long term favourites! jax and co, michelle and family, nic, and for a one night only special deal… deependers! [in our guest wing]

sat was mostly chatting, meeting, greeting and just being friendly! [in the sun, so i went and bought suncream, and apparently doomed us all] the kids running around the very safe campsite and playing in the park and feeding goats or buying penny chews! we didn’t stay up too late, as it started to get nippy. i expounded on the importance of tent hats and socks [as modelled beautifully by myself and michelle] so noticed both nic and zoe the next night were more suitably attired :smile:

the next day, after a lazy, meandering, chatty start, we went to the RNLI museum as proposed by michelle [who didn't make it and got sunburnt in her car!] myself and BB went round, and found a lot to interest her, and chris and SB, with the other 2 manor borns went round in a bit more depth… a nice pitstop in the lovely cafe and back to the campsite where the deependers had arrived, and with them fab kebabs for tea – yummy!

the next day we went to bewilderwood. it was fab and exceeded expectation. our jolly chappie who welcomed us was a good start, followed by jolly boatman. both girls had lots of things to love and do, and- drumroll – iwent up and over the high bridge, and it wasn’t too bad at all!! SB got to play moss in the play, and very much enjoyed that. she and chris mostly stayed together, and BB and i. the hail was annoying, but we hid in the craft yurt! BB particularly loved the baby zipwire and slides. a great time!

we went wrong on the way past, and went via st faiths, where little nanny was cremated. i shed a few tears, but better by time back at campsite. another laid back evening, and lots of political discussion later.

a late and lazy leave time on tues, wed was migraine city and knocked out, today bb at nanna’s

bringing us to today [sort of] and here i am, awaiting election results

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10 things that make me happy

i had a blog award from the frog academy, and a suggestion i do these 10 things!

1. snuggling on the sofa with one or other of my girls – either reading together or watching tv. i just like that snuggly warmth!

2. a warm summers evening after a great day, that moment when you kick back your shoes and think, yep, today is good.

3. may and elderblossom. i love may, it may be my fav month [having 2 bank hols as well helps!]

4. crafting with the girls – i get enjoyment out of that hum of doing things together. i love how SB now praises and then critically assesses what i have done now. telling me not to mind if it isn’t right [like the time i absent mindedly painted the rainbow colours the wrong way round - i knew something didn't look right!]

5. playing board games, with DH, family, friends, SB. that laugh and conversation

6. playing music with a group. either classical or folk. just fun!

7. having got christmas presents and dinner done, and looking at the happy faces of the wider family, and feeling loved and loving.

8. our friend parties – like mine and kirsty’s joint 70th, or j and j’s to come. that feeling of conviviality

9. camping, en famille or with friends. i love camping, free from routine, and loads of time with my family.

10. a hug.

sort of summary

skittles settling in.

SB written a lovely pamphet about romans. i love that even when copying verbatim [tho i suggested she do it in her own words] she manages to have such unique spelling [ah! in her own words!!] and various other home ed type bits. some baking and making! colouring and reading.

BB has also been getting going with her reading, and read several more of the 1+ songbirds books, v pleased with herself. finally! reading getting off the ground. i love that she has a weird mix of how to remember letters, g is golden girl, q is queen and p princess, but she has to hum and haw over which. l is in her name isn’t it, and then she goes through her name and tadas! h is help me, whereas H is my name! and u is an Upside down n, lol lol! also colouring, games and rabbit worship.

I have had quite a bit of an upset tummy and had to take time off work, making me worried about active sickness policies and looking bad etcetc as well as just generally letting the side down.
have bought an oil painting thing that includes the basics for beginners, and some more felt, so think we are stocked craftwise.

the conservatory is grad being rebuilt, not the same charm as the original, nor the fab new design but def strong, sturdy and useable!

I had the honour of going to the cremation service of the beautiful little boy of two dear friends. much loved, much wanted and a devastatingly sad end to what should have been a joyful time. my heart and thoughts, as well as countless others, remain with them.