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my nephew and niece came to join us on boxing day, with their dad starting a short while only. Lovely to have them here . so more jollity, present unwrapping, laughing, games playing and generally having a wonderful time. Boxing day was a christmas-again . at the weekend we had a games playing and in saturday, and i had migraine and then on sunday grandad took all the kids to see night at the museum 3 for a treat, before coming home for more games playing and general laughter. I was back to work on monday, but they went out again for more iceskating! looking forwards to those pictures! they all had fun and laughter again. SB has now played lots of games .

I have really enjoyed christmas this year. last years was stressful, with SB being in france, and some wider family shenanigans. This year was as it ought to be, a haven of family love and joy Thankyou to all my family for being wonderful and sharing it with me.

I had the week off up to xmas tho had dreadful shifts over the weekend!], and mum and dad came, so we did prep, played some games, chilled and felt happy altogether. I was very happy with the gifts I had bought, and thought they were thoughtful, suitable and in proportion – always nice! It was going to be a different Christmas, as i had thought my nephew and niece were going to be joining us for that whole week, but due to other family considerations, my BIL brought them up on boxing day until the tues. it is the first christmas for a long time we havent shared, in fact the only other one was my sister’s last, when she took them to disneyland. My mum did tell me BIL plans, so it wasnt a complete surprise. Oh well.

SB made and decorated the Christmas cake this year – it was very delicious! we did other random xmas baking and I made 2 yummy dinners that take ages in prepping from scratch but are worth it – enchilladas and lasagna, with emough nmixture of each to go into freezer for another occassion. we also played games. BB loves rough and tumble games with nanny and grandad, as well as playing snort!

Christmas day we all loved all our presents. BB bought me a fab cake stand, and SB made me cry with her lovely xmas decoration. DH bought me a kindle! we dont usually do presents] My parents and DH’s mum were there to join the fun. Both girls were very happy with their presents. It did seem a lot quieter with only half the normal guest list! we had a wonderful stress-free day. Here are some photos from our merry christmas.

SO in the run up, we did a photoshoot of SB and BB [and dang it! just realised I didn't get the 4 cousins to sit together for a pic ] here are some of my favourites.

As you can see from the datestamp, I have got a bit behind. christmas camp to christmas whizzed past! sb did some fundraising bag packing for the air cadets. the last ballet class was open, as usual.

we got up both xmas trees. the one in the girls room made me giggle, as we pretended to be a shop and a designer doing it. and the main room one we put up after xmas camp. very different styles, but both lovely.

with our weds4ed friends we went ice skating at the garden centre, and that was a lot of fun, and also quite quiet. the first of 3 skates this season for the girls.

we did do some genetics experiments as well – we bred dragons, which turned out to be quite fun, and hopefully some of the educational elements were remaining! oh, and we played alchemists! Which SB was desperate to have on her xmas list.

the kids went bowling with their home ed friends. DH thinks he tooks some photos of this, but I need to find them!

SB had an arts award – she travels to and from on public transport now v happily. of course no pictures then! she also continued on with her french and classical civ lessons, and also her clarinet. we were very proud of her when she took her grade 4 clarinet and passed with a merit well done SB

our final outing was to visit some friends, were there was swimming and more board game playing

What a lovely tradition it is to spend a week of christmassing with friends! again at coalbrookedale youth hostle. we had a fab time. it was relaxed, convivial with good food and lots of laughter [and cake] . we played lots of game. less crafting this time – kids older, and some of the crafters not here and more gamers!

BB had a great time running with her pack plus a few extras. often playing spy game variants, using walkie talkies etc. some ds-ing and board games too. SB was gaming and got married! [v funny] and also did a lot of kitchen helping. I did a science thingy – basically malteser metal crystal structures which went down well. Unfortunately i didnt do any carols as I had dreadful migraine that day. i really hate migraine. i had to go to bed!

some pics…

we started with the village lights display and mince pies out by the crossroads, and the brass band playing carols. all very festive. SB struggling to keep up with the gcse workload, and me feeling like the not-mother from tangled nagging and moaning at her. at least i really do love her! i just know how time just seems endless and then disappears when you are working for exams! both girls completed their secret santas – which i didn;t take pictures of . BB got terraria for her computer, and has been fixated playing that!

wednesday we did have a wed ed, and have moved on to chromosomes and genetics for science, so this time we extracted some of our own DNA and answered a few questions about its structure and how it works. Since biology is a common igcse for home ed kids to do, i have been slowly working my way through experiments around lots of the subjects at gcse level, using a variety of sources. the kids might even remember some of them if i am lucky , tho we have been doing this over a 3 year period on and off.

k did some work on a new artist- klimt – and did some tree of life designs. they all looked very beautiful. we missed em and music, tho played games instead.

multisports , clarinet and french on thurs and dh only made it to wild place on friday whilst sb caught up on classical civ work. sb also dyed her hair with a semi permanent blue. it looked really good! she has also had a fringe cut, and this really changes the shape of her face, and i have several times not quite realised it is her! cake making for christmas camp also happened.

saturday tho we went shopping into town . I had promised the girls a christmas shop, and am attempting to do high street and local sellers predominantly for xmas and avoid the big A due to tax avoidance and workers on zero hours contracts. we had a fab day got lots of shopping done, no fussing or whining, easy food options found and generally were very happy :). SB did buy herself something already bought on the xmas list – argh! and BB did buy herself another cuddley…

a great day, thankyou girls I think we could do this every year

Oh dear, I got to a blah moment, stopped blogging, and here I am, weeks behind again. So in this time, what has happened? well, SB continues working on classical civ, french and also ran biology and geography! not doing quite as much clarinet as i would like as her exam coming up. we are sort of hanging on with doing maths, but all other things seem to not be happening. this is in part as some she only does with me, and so many evenings she is out from when i come home until her bedtime at cadets or judo [2 and 1 eves] and done lots of cadet things at the weekends, including a really interesting communication day. She is really getting a lot from cadets and has applied for their marching band thing, so that is all really positive [even if ginormous time commitment] and she is also now good at ironing and polishing shoes! I am consciously not worrying about slippage of timetable on geog and biol [am i kidding anyone?]

BB has ground to a halt home ed wise. it is difficult sometimes to maintain momentum, and i am perpetually busy at working, and DH is still finding his feet after the loss of his dad. She is doing lots of reading, drawing, lego and minecraft/terraria. she is also writing most days into a diary and when reminded, doing piano and maths. Oh dear.

However, we have done some trips and joint things!

One trip was a daytrip into London to the cartoon museum. they looked around hogarth answering some questions and then moved on to making their own charicature cartoon person, helped by someone dh thought was your ultimate archetypal cartoonist! both girls very much enjoyed it, and got a lot from the session. they then went on to the british museum before coming home, having had a fab day.

as usual, multisports and conservation group also happened. I think on the weds we did a working hard home ed day!

at the weekend though it was tree decoration and making secret santa time! for te tree dec, bb pretended to be a bauble shop, sb was the interior designer and i was the buyer. it was quite fun . for my secret santa, i upcycled a 7 up bottle and then filled it with a spicy seed mix.

sunday we went to see murmurations, and did actually get to see them too!! [tho quite dark] we went to the rspb reserve with the manor borns and did a very muddy walk first! and saw not a lot from the hide either! m and i had a good old talk as we went round,a s not seen each other for ages. C and SB also had a good natter and BB was remarkably happy dancing between the 2 of us! DH and M bringing up the rear. We nearly missed the murmurations as it was getting so dark most people had gone home. i wish the sky had been less cloudy so we could have seen them better tho. home for a meal and more chat.

in discussing BB’s birthday with a work colleague, he still admitted that he couldnt see what a girl would get out of minecraft. after all, what would they do on it? i rolled my eyes and called him out on it, but he couldn’t get past that point. Good thing i didn’t show him this picture, where I seem to have caught an only boys with BB moment!

But it wasn’t like that for much/most of the time, with the girls joining in, partic R when she arrived and also L and M. the boys are in the preponderance tho. But they play together, make stuff together, look for stuff together and get interactive. loved all the headphones tho as they are talking to each other! It was the quietest party ever!!

Older siblings and adults met and chatted in other areas. Some games playing and just chatting really. we were lucky that nanna could come with cousin L as well.

we had birthday cake, lots of yummy food, and chatted on into the night. was lovely so many could come, and it worked really well happy 10th birthday BB!

honestly! i am soooo tired! I spent most of last week at a conference in the city, returning to do weds4ed on the wednesday. then the rest was party prep for the weekend. so blogging took a back seat. as did nagging! therefore no ticksheets were completed and pretty much no bookwork home ed argh! oh well, a week off is sometimes required.

so what did happen?

SB had arts award [bronze] on the tues pm, getting herself there and back by bus as she is more independantly minded. she is doing something photography related, and i am hoping she is independently getting on with that! Her pictures were looked at, and ok, and she has homework to research an artist. probably one with a photographic interest.

weds was are weds4ed, where we finished off the degas modroc, which look fab, some fun science and also board games and minecraft

also a very long judo, and BB had her judo grading in the seond half, so a full 2 hours for her, and she was exhausted! She did get her next belt though, which is her yellow belt, so very happy

thursday and clarinet lesson was cancelled, which was unfortunate as SB’s grade 4 clarinet exam is soon. However, she is sounding good, so should be OK there was also multisports, so a great opportunity to meet friends and get muddy. there are quite a lot of teens/older kids there now, which makes SB happy. So it is a good group.

Thursday was also BB’s birthday hooray she got some lovely presents and was particularly happy to have got a 3ds from my mum and some games from us. Even more lovely, was that Josie from patch of puddles came for a sleepover to enjoy birthday cake and go to cubs as a friend. BB was really excited about that and they had a lovely time. BB had a wobble on the return about sleeping arrangements but was all settled and the girls happily watched malificent with icecream.

Friday was french lesson for SB as she is working towards her igcse then conservation group. After this josie was exhausted and went home. we then got ready to party party with sorting out the dining room for the influx of computers, and some baking for party food. I guess I might do the weekend as a separate post.