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yesterday catchup – Eureka!

yesterday was a manically busy out and about day. We first had SB’s gym class, which she really loves. getting more confident at walking across the beam – forwards and backwards, and is remembering all the different position names. A hasty shop round asda for car-picnic food [samosas, cheese dippers and fruit] and we were off to Eureka.

I was there with my friend Kat . She works part time, has a 2.5 year old and twins of 6 months. SB and Emilia get on v well, and rushed about together holding hands and being generally cute. They had a long shopping session and got more out of the bank than I expected. We then went to the under 5′s area, where BB and the twins could lie in the sensory area, and SB and E could run about looking for things. A short hop into the human body bit, and the girls were pooped. 2.5 hours though before they started to flag, so can’t be bad! A perk up at the cafe and home before rush hour hit too badly.

SB fell asleep in car and was most unhappy to be woken up, so were into some serious blankly looking at CBeebies when the people showed up late to look round house. Ubnfortunately they were there when I wanted to cook SB tea, so not ideal showing, and also the CBeebies background. they did seem v interested though, and were here about 40 mins! hopefully a good sign. Did look in all little cubbyholes though, so a bit concerned at what they saw!

not much to say

SB at nursery today, BB in chris’s care as I was on a fab course on negotiating through change. I have an almost pathological fear of conflict, so have been doing a 5 day management and lradership course. this was the last day. Although I still not a conflict girl, I think the knowledge of the processes and when to draw a line is helpful. I even ended up volunteering for the crappest role in the role play today, and enoying it. Hopefully this will help me in the non-medical part of my job in the future [as well as any potential officious LEA bods]

Also fripped on ebay by buying some german starter leappad books – alphabet and richard scarry. not expecting SB to really understand yet, but will go along with the Muzzy.
Child of our time was predictable on not questionning school. However did suggest that the twins waiting a year to gain more emotional intelligence was a good idea.

we have another viewer for our house tomorrow. Again fingers crossed, and beautifying tonight.

shopping games

i have realised we have a problem. i usually pay supermarket by switch. I also usually get cashback. SB in her games was swiping the credit card and giving me money. She thinks you get money from supermarkets along with other groceries, and the working/earning thing is seperate. hmm!!! Anyway, easy maths and aditions. deciding who would eat what etc.
bit of reading, time telling and mostly play. enjoyed making a helicopter from chunky wooden mechano-ish pack from ikea.

BB has a dreadful cough – poor love.

party season

As I still meet my postnatal group regularly, coupled with the 6month age groups at nursery makes this an expensive season! We went to ‘fun city’. The last time I went there I broke a foot, cuneiform and 2 ribs so no fond memories. SB loved it though and had a great time. It does have a great curly slide and a really high wavy slide. She is a slide girl. I did worry as in and out security v lax, and due to the spread of the place, the children can be out of sight a long time.
SB also getting better at I spy in the car, and that was the only overtly educational part of the day!! Unfortunately she also started to cry in the car on realisation that is was the last time she would go to rossa’s party and next year she would have no friends. We discussed how to make new ones [something I am crap at] and how others would also love her. Felt like crappest mum.
Anywaiy, BB finished feeding so better get on tidying.

ps had hoped to find my payslips, not where they should be, not in any of the standard ‘safe places’. please don’t let me have thrown away as need to get mortgage. sigh.
Also complete panic as have apparently been overpaid the last 2 months – i thought it was pay owed for overtime prev2 months – so hosp took ?1500 out of pay this month without discussing. I’m left with not enough to cover direct debits let alone food. Is this allowed?? I have savings to dip into, but hosp then owes me money with one hand, and clawing it back with other. Much gnashing of teeth, as can’t ring and shout until Mon.

some work but much play

We had a fun day today, with lots of lego, making up stories, and a nip to M and S to buy some presents. chris did lots of ‘messing about’ with SB – ie throwing her in the air, twirling about, and making it look like she will be dropped and break a neck at any given moment. I try not to watch!
I suddenly realised that it was the closing date for ICS-UK [international continence society] abstracts to be received, and since I’d done this little number with a friend, I had better spend the evening popping it in. have done so now. Now just have to register and get accomodation. As always, expensive.
BB waving at me madly and snuffling. Methinks it is time to give her some attention!

reading day

in partic letterland. SB getting better at ‘b’ and ‘d’, and ‘g’ and ‘y’, which she has been muddling for a while. Also now reliable at the sh and t sounds. though when there was a picture of a beaker, and she identified the b start, she was still happy to say b for cup!
Also a gym day, and really loves that. Did some singapore maths, lots of general book reading and lego playing took up most of the rest of the day with a brief spell at tots group. we were going to cook tea together, but she watched a letterland vid instead. At tea, she told me jesus’s love wasn’t really very wonderful [in repsonse presumably to the song] so we discussed why love was always wonderful.
BB gave us an absolutely appalling night last night, so Chris and i have been a bit of live zombies today. She has fed almost all day as well – makes me even more tired. Beingly gorgeously smily in front of me right now.
Have def decided not to overstretch iourselves over house buying, as I was going into blind panic. I think its all that ‘well if I can’t be physically present for them, I should buy them the best that I can’ thing.
Rather peeved with Chris, as he turned off volume on laptop, and the back on button is one that isn’t working, so now no sound. not too bad except………….SB can’t now use for jump ahead cd’s, webland [which is installed on hear] etc etc, so laptop now a disaster for its prime daytime use. Hmm

snow flurry

there was a snow flurry today, looked like it might settle for a while, as lasted most of morning, sometimes very heavily, but then rained.
box room is still being archeologically excavated. ALthough Chris thinks all the ‘pute things are joint, since i can’t identify half of them, there are thousands of wires, and more cd’s than legs can be shaken at that are unnamed, I think not!!
Aargh, projectile vomit from BB while NAK-ing She has been sleepier today. is this vaccs related, or my DnV related??
Nursery day for SB, and returned exhausted. watched a letterland vid, read some books, bit of counting and shapes and then bedtime collapse.
Chris has been DIY man. house smells horrible- though that may be due to the plastic spoon he part melted. Also doesn’t look at all tidy, but mostly superficial mess.

weigh-in day

we haven’t had BB weighed since 2 weeks old – shame on me! She is nnow 8 weeks. Today was vacc day, so had her 6 week check – fine, but a bit of a kerfuffle when GP couldn’t find her on computer – oops forgot to register her.
om weigh in 15lb 4 oz. OMG. over 97th centile for weight, and on 97th for length and head circumference. no wonder she had grown out of smaller nappies.
Always worry about vaccs. i do believe in their need [unsurprising given my profession] but do have a too vivid imagination added to knowledge of rare but known risks. BB seems v relaxed in my arms.
I do hope Chris adds sme photos soon, as having read other bloggers ursing about adding, I feel that is a delegating job.

family catchup

BB growing, feeding, sleeping, smiling and gurgling at us. Her first vaccs tomorrow – and first weighing since 2 weeks old, [whoops] . She has liked the baby einstein videos, her kick mat and a brightly coloured butterfly.

SB been gorgeous. watched a few too many dvd’s in travelodge [on ill-fated laptop] got a clear idea of how to talk like an estate agent [even shew daddy around the upstairs of one house in great agent speech]. found a lovely play area in Godmanchester [but no house there unfortunately]. fell in love with a dog at one of the houses, and was disappointed that it wasn’t included! Also, amusingly, as soon as we entered the travelodge, identified a crying corner, for when she wanted a sulk – weird really, but better than tantrums. Since coming home it has been a happystreet fest, and swimming this afternoon with Daddy.

Catching up on house buying – help required!

As usual, we like the things out of our budget, that we viewed in case their price dramatically dropped!!
Good day on Thurs, SB behaved impeccably, and treated to a Chinese – said ni hao to waitress after asking her what languages she spoke. unfortunately I woke up in early hours with acute gastroenteritis – hideous!! Luckilly all the rest unaffected, so Chris took out SB to househunt, and I fed BB and felt miserable. Even worse, that someone down there had invited us for dinner that evening, and had to cry off. Another little chef meal for DH and SB.
On the Sat we veiwed again the 2 favourites – about 40000 above budget – ho hum!!
sorry merry after this i was so beat we just drove home, not even a kiddicare break!

Question – do we stretch to overmax [as lenders will lend that much, just family budget is tightened to nth degree]. probs – no hols, reduce amount to spend on girls, may risk my dropping session [and therefore pay] in the future depending on interest rates etc [though could fix for 5 years]. Or get a house within budget, that we just aren’t so keen on, and hopefully time will make it a home [though this didn't happen to parents - after 30 years mum still doesn't think of it as home!]. I really don’t want to move again.
other thought, is that if i knew i could drop sessions, it would be a bit easier, as I’m sure family would prefer cheaper house and more mummy if the expensive house and more mummy were incompatable. just don’t know the future – may even get nice payrise [unlikely from this government] and then would wish had gone for broke.

question 2 – any good advice on predicting future interest rates – should we fix, cap discount or offset. I hate moving!!

will post some rightmove links to the 2 main contenders when have thought about things as bit more. the only cheaper option I like wont let us view at the moment, so don’t really know if would still be a go-er