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Turned out sunny – long

Thank goodness things improved. was still bluergh first thing, but some coffee and cakes from the bakery helped. I read inumerable books to SB whilst BB used me as a climbing frame and refused to feed properly. BB then played on the floor quite happily – she likes contingency toys, particularly if they are tuneful!

SB and i looked at the new webland [she had done some with Chris whilst I was still bleugh as well]. more singing of 12345, and dino tales. SB has quite got into the games extra sections. It certainly so far has been worth its subscription. We then played dr’s – SB takes it to new levels of realism by being on call and answering the phone from her bed, getting up and asking whether she needs to drive v quickly or not! I had floppy hand, closed eye and shut ear syndromes [seperately]. BB had scratchy nails!

To cut my blurginess short, I decamped to the garden and the MODHEU. I often find an abrupt change of venue, with limited resources suits me better, and gets me active.For SB I took out some jolly phonics workbooks that we haven’t done in ages, some singapore maths, usbourne story of hercules, DK why greeks built temples, a photo album of when she was BB’s age, her dough beads from friday’s puddlers group and some paints. BB had assorted toys and boardbooks – though mostly she wants to stand and bounce bottom!

had to come straight back in, as SB and I disagreed over the wind strength on the beaufort scale – she thought 6, me 4, and on reading the book = 5! Chris put up arbour seat that we had bought for old house to tempt buyers, but never actually put up. took him all day really. SB periodically helping did not really speed up the process.

We were having such a pleasant time that it was 3 o’clock before we remembered to have lunch. SB took a shine to the JP workbooks, and I was sent in to get the rest, and she drew round the letters very carefully – she is definitely getting interested in writing, so glad ordered getty and dubay. She also wrote my whole name out without letter guides [I did spell it letter by letter though] the H and N were the same and a mixture of capital and small, but i was really impressed, as 2 months ago this would have been unthinkable. Real step forward.

The maths wasn’t for her today, but we read the hercules, and the DK greek book. discussed Greek gods a bit – and the one we have in the garden [Bacchus = parties] and what other ones we should have statues of – demeter, hera as for crops and women and children and a dryad. This was not done in any religious way [to stop palpitations and fainting] as we also discussed the Greeks religion of the time, and that no-one practices any more, and that the gods/goddesses were used as a way of focusing the mind on what was important to a person at that time, and also as a way of trying to explain why things happen. Quite philosophical! We decided that although our house needed a clean, we perhaps wouldn’t divert a river through it, as SB was worried our carpets would be ruined. [she can be very practical when I have a flight of fancy]

Thinking of Demeter we went to the overgrown veg patch and harvested some potatoes and onions. in fact all the onions could do with harvesting and drying, and ditto potatoes [well not drying], or they will get slug damaged. When you next visit, Merry, ask and you shall receive! I dig, and SB rummages for them – a good team effort. lots of bugs spotted – favourite is always ladybird. our elderberries also nearly ready for harvesting and jelly making. [ edit 2 – Actually, while we were there, we could hear the hymns of a wedding – very nice, and then enjoyed the pealing bells afterwards.]

oh yes, we painted some of the dough beads [yes, chris did bake them yesterday] BB attempted to eat one, but foiled. [an aside – just loading photos from today and I took 123 – can’t imagine how – so pruning required before flikr!] In fact BB, although dreadful at milk today, has been one eating machine. Top 2 teeth are nearly through, and certainl noticeable to me after a feed – but not like Isabelle yet.

losing thread now, but we returned to each thing a few times – particularly the JP, and SB was sounding out the 3 letter words [whatever they are called] quite confidently. SHe also drew some lovely pictures in the workbooks, i think my favourite was the r for raspberry, which she painstakingly drew the seperate circles for. Her concentration and detail in art really is accelerating. She ‘read’ to BB, made up songs, princess story re-enactments, lots of climbing frame gymnastics [must sort gym out] and general malarkeying about. Unfortunately photo album a casualty, though photos not.

By teatime she was noticeably worn out, so bath first and then tea. While waiting for the quiche to cook we started cutting out for a mudpud recognisable fabric pennant to put on buggy – not sure what with at moment! SB confident at scissors, and cut oval of pond, and some of the spikes, as well as the easier bits of the duck, and the reeds [well, they were going to be beans, but not really identifiable as such, so reeds they are now!] She did nearly all of the butterfly, but was so big compared to duckling, we decided I should trim it down – a shame really. More sounding out and spelling at teatime, then Mog and shirley hughes stories at bed. She and BB flaked out rather quickly.

When i have reduced photos to a number that are not going to use up ther rest of our allowance, will be on flikr!

edit 1- looking at photos, i forgot to say that we ‘decorated’ BB

briefly………..

…got a cold and knackered, so today didn’t go too well, and eventually gave up and went to bed – so much for spending time with the beans. She got a parcel from my sister, so dressed up as a pirate, and used the painting set to paint flowers and shells – rather nicely.

Did do loads of reading library books before bailed out though, and when got up we did lots of lego games and stories.

SB went to a party at nursery thrown for the school leavers! I went to bed again. When she got back we did more lego, played outside – nice photos of her in bridesmaids dress [as this is now party dress] in the garden.

on coming in we did about 6 pages of primary 1a singapore maths weekly revision, including her actually spelling out and reading the word ten!! she is making a stab at writing the numbers, but I’m not pushing it. Also a bit of phonics cards.

She showed a fair bit of interest in the family geneology today, so we will sort out photos etc to do a family tree. Maybe I will buy katy’s timeline programme as well, and do a timeline family book. Have been thinking quite a bit about home ed and how to go on. I’m v happy with our dipping in and about approach in the main, but would like to build up a routine of normals, and also music regularly and the muzzy – which we forget now the telly in another room.

Also having looked at dottyspots blog, am interested in going to here probably on the sunday as sounds fun. [festival of History in English Heritage place in Northamptonshire of M1

BB certainly now really enjoying standing. Also musical toys, and those where you can press buttons. She is also drinking milk well from a bottle at last. of course this now gives us the problem that I’m not sure I can express enough, so may have to use formula partly on working days. Not that happy about that really.

Maybe I’m just knackerd and viral, but really feel my life just isn’t where I want it to be, and fairly powerless to change it. I’m going to have a good try though.

SB started another crystal experiment with me before i went to work yesterday. At this rate need to buy in bulk.

More blogbumping.

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We went to bed to late again and struggled to get up, by Alys did sleep in her cot again for most of the night which was good :-)

Once H had staggered off to work I seem to remember we were doing something fairly constuctive, just struggling to remember what……

Sringbean didn’t want any breakfast at first so while me and Butterbean had ours she brought things out into the kitchen. We had a few books, she did a couple of jigsaws, one of which was her wooden one of Europe. Talked about different countries, where we had been, were we are going (off to Copenhagen next week for a few days when H goes to a conference. She saw th e little compass mark on the map so talked about that and about N, S, E, W etc.. The fact that it is in ‘Forrin’ ‘ and ahd and ‘O’ for East just added to the learning experince :-)

At somepoint I aksed her if she had wanted breakfast yet, she plaintivley said ‘I’m waiting for my porridge……’ which I had started making then forgot… bad Daddy moment.

After all the post breakfast babby changing , abluting, dressing etc. (sent SB off to get some clothes, came back with here fairy outfit….) decided about time to start tidying up a bit as Joanna and the girls from Trying Our Bestwere paying a visit on their way back to their house. Stringbean was quite helpful today. Putting away various toys – she is getting much better when asked to do this, unless she ahs got too tired. Wiping down coffe tables and the kitchen table, putting things in the dishwasher etc. Butterbean helped out by going to sleep :-) Joanna said how nice it was having a house just like her with stuff all over the place…..

I’d said they should be coming about 12, so once her clock got to 12 oclock, which she can recognise, she was hopping up to the window to see if they were here yet :-) They arrived bearing lunchy items from Waitrose, so that was rather nice. I is still managing to hang on to a bit of baby chub which Alys is gradually loosing now. so they did a bit of baby bonding. T and Stringbean took a little while to settle down, moslty I think becuase T didn’t necessarily want to play what she wanted ;-) but they rubbed along happily enough, dresing in fairy outfits each, playing with the Brio train track, scampering around outside. SB showed off one of the Singapore maths books whilst I got the lunch ready.

Helen managed to get back before they had to go which was good. so we finished of with tea and cakes on the lawn before they departed. SB confused Tamisn with her different take on the rules for ‘tag’, so at one point they werew bith standingthere expecting the other to be doing something :-)

SB’s lack of sleep catching up caught up with her at about 5.30 when she came over all whingey and cry-ey so she made a failry painless progression to bed tonight. It was lovley to have you all visit Joanna.

Helen seems to have found a window in her tight Flickr uploading schedule to get todays snaps in.

I esp like the ‘Fairy Controllers’:

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Isabelles quiff:

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And SB’s toes:

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Ah, autonomous ed!

SB found the miquon orange book on her shelf and has been happily sat doing it. She is bringing her yellow book bag stuffed to the gunnels with workbooks and readers!!! [i suggested a book for bedtime and if she needed a quiet time – might as well have a mudpud rucksack. She’s just caounted 11 reading books and 3 match and sort – I am suggesting a reduction as she can hardly lift the bag.

Nearly ready [about 90 mins of organising to go, so should leave around 10:30 [so it will be about 11;30!]

Ranty day

At work, as just feeling hemmed in and overworked. the tues on call still having fallout moments!

Positives – well, friend came over for whine and wine! [Always enjoy a communal rant]

Got 2 ebay purchases – usbournes first people and elixabeth1 – we read the elixabeth straight away, and some of the first people. SB spontaneously pointed out the evolution – First people were monkeys and hairy, then a bit less hairy, then just had hairy trousers [!!] However, she then wanted to know what people might evolve into, and when it might happen [thank god for sci fi!!] I do think she actually understood the concept.

We were outside, and a huge black cloud came up, with a patch of sunlight behind – so we were discussing whether it would rain and heavens opened. SB rather fond of rain, and at least it was warm.

At nursery she has made biscuits, played and eaten. It concerns me that her best friend there she says pinches and kicks her. She says she has spoken to a grown up – so maybe we will chat about it there tomorrow.

BB is experimenting with different vocalisations, and is at present playing on the mat. She is particularly excited by the cats when they wander in. Might persuade her to investigate movement, but she is rather well supported in the bottom department.

Hopefully better day tomorrow at work, and the portico party – yay!

A Puddle Day

Both in weather and visitors.

SB was excited all morning about the imminent puddle visitors, and helped tidy up nicely. [after all, she said, we didn't want Josie to eat the sparkly bits]

We then settled down with a bit of reading, and read the bit about greek gods in the ancient history book from usbourne. We also flicked through the usbourne garden wildlife book [is usbourne our main home-ed source series!!] Did some mental maths – number bonds and additions and subtractions. SB has got now into the habit of thinking in sweeties for this ‘mummy, if I had 5 sweeties and went out of the room, and you ate 2, I would have 3 left etc’. She is much more likely to be accurate when imaginary sweeties involved as well!

Finally persuaded her to get dressed [ a relief, cos pjamas are her favourites], and agreed to plait or ponytail her hair – rather unwisely said to the number of bands she could find – 7! SO then photographed my hair creation. She felt it looked a bit roman??

Merry and the girls arrived so definitely chaos. This time they had a few false starts before getting going – mostly due to SB being quite clear she wanted everyone to play her game of mummies and daddies – dressed as fairies. She couldn’t be disuaded, and to save the peace Maddy and Fran agreed – nice girls. We managed to provide lunch in a more timely fashion today, and finished with bun icing and eating – always appreciated. the sprinkles went everywhere of course.
We were also treated to the vision of Josie crawling – BB unlikely to follow suit, but demonstrated instead her disre to be standing at all times. Also treated to some nice cakes – thankyou Merry – while we put the world to rights!

Seeing Merry always makes me feel more urgent about planning and executing our home ed. I think we will simmer ideas and aim to start with the school year with the normals idea, and a few organised themes that we can [present to SB as alighted on]. Also get some things in the house that can be used for experiments, as she is keen.

Afterwards SB chose some sticker jigsaw books and amazed me by sounding out and correctly saying far more words than I thought she could – these were largely 3 letter simple words, but definitely on the road to reading!

After bath she found my book about death and dying which I was planning to slip in at some point. She off and on has a fascination with the subject, and I can’t help but feel that we may need to deal with death in the next year or so [hopefully longer]. this wasn’t really a good bedtime read, as when I left her she then started crying about death, so daddy cuddled her whilst i fed BB. The book is actually very nicely done, but not an ideal bedtime read!

Now I have to do some education – a CD rom to watch before tomorrow. However, whilst doing it, uploading last years photos onto flikr gradually.

Blogbumping indeed!!




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Originally uploaded by Scrumbledelicious.

Still think a terrible word for it.
Will blog properly when beans in bed, but have flikred Merry!

Two Wheels on My Wagon.

I did start a blog last night, then closed the window and lost the post :-( Couldn’t be bothered to do it again.

Anyway, recovered from the weekends festivities and the house is mostly back to it’s normal (dis)order. We did get the curtain put up in the front room though by Helen’s parents. They were supposed to go and play golf, but her mum didn’t want to go as it was raining, so cancelled it, and then of course it stopped raining a little while longer…..

Pleased, as fitting the bit along the pelmet thing required sewing Velcro to the back of the ‘dangly bit’, dunno how long that would have taken us to get round to doing (never is probably a good first approximation) all looks good now. They match with the covers on some chairs and cushions, which is all a bit grown up for us.

It was good to catch up with various bits of the family I don’t see so often, though as we now live a lot nearer to many of them I guess we will see them more often. shame a few members weren’t able to make it. Shame also that it rained on Sunday, but we did get to use the inside of the house and the conservatory. It certainly is good gathering/party house :-) It was even the incentive for me to clear the boxes out of the dinning room so we can actually get in and use the room now.

So, yesterday Stringbean started off the day with bit of crafts with Nanny French, making a cut and stick fish. And errrr…. after that I’m not sure. There was breakfast, Butterbean didn’t get up until turned nine, so then that stretched breakfast out a bit longer. Oh yes, making marble runs and some reading mostly I think, plus some computer advice for Grandad. And eating cakes from the rather nice bakery for elevenses ;-)

Afternoon, H was home so she did stuff with the girls, including finishing the clock kit that SB won at Melrose and started ages ago.while I mostly did boring domestic stuff.

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Today we started off with ‘Tool Girl’ as SB perused a power tool catalogue (that’s my girl) that came in the post this morning, discussed why there are lots of different ones and why an SDS drill is the dogs danglies for drilling holes in walls. Did expect her to comment on the lack of pink ones though.

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She got a treat? of a Cheesestring from the shop this morning and had it for breakfast. I do have a prejudice against this sort of thing, but TBH, not sure why. It’s seems to be just fairly mild cheese, with smattering of Annatto for colouring, just been processed a bit to be able to pull into strings. Anyway she enjoyed it.

I do love the way SB thinks/cares so much about BB, this morning she got out some clothes for BB, not just not set but a ‘summery’ outfit, one for if it’s colder, and one for tomorrow as well :-) So we pottered through the orning, bit of reading of books, hanging up of washing, SB picked a load of flower petals and then tipped them all over herself.

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We fed the fish and then spent some time watching/talking about them when SB wondered how they can swim backwards.

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After the inevitable lunch of beaked beans on toast I boxed up the car roofbox to send it back for repairs. They sent me a very big empty box to put it in, the courier man was amused by having to deliver just a big box.. SB did assist for a bit , she tried a bit of baby bondage by strapping BB into a spare car seat with the luggage net from the roof box and spent ages in the hayloft reading all her old baby books. She also found a folder of her at work going back ages so she reminisced over that while covering the playroom floor in them.

We then tried out Butterbean in the bike trailer again. She sits much better now and has much better neck control, so we took it for a spin around the village and stopped off at the playground.. BB seemed happy, and SB enjoyed having her in there with here. Will be good to be out using that again. Went on the swings and the seesaw – her first time I think – at the playground and enjoyed them both.

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H is on call and had to go back in unfortunately tonight at about 9.30 :-(, I cuddled BB and fell asleep on the sofa, which was nice, but not really conducive to doing me chores, nor is then writing a blog entry. Of course she got back about 1 am, so we of course went off to bed like sensible people, but it’s past 2 am now, so we can go to bed happly now…..

H seems to have just uploaded piccies from our Italy holiday as well.

Our crystals




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Originally uploaded by Scrumbledelicious.

see, even a 4 year old can do crystals!

Manic Monday

Well, work was anyway, as a few colleagues short – again!
Got home and immediately relaxed. SB and I finally finished her Melrose clock. Played in the garden, watered toms, lots of simon says and ballet shows [again thank goodness not overlooked!] A bit of patterning with her cuisinaire rods and reading a book about the north and south poles.

BB cuddlable and adorable.

felt vaguely unsettled as had nigthmare after nightmare last night – all wierd and vaguely reminiscent of cube and hypercube scifi crap films. In fact parent 1 from the portico died with me in one of them swimming when the water became solid WTF?? Howeer, kept seeing the post thing in cartoon, with Chris looking after the beans, so wondered whether this was my subconscious grappling with the at work thing.

Oh well, chocolate tonight and an early bed