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today is Party Day


Helen

Doing the Space picture

today is Party Day


Helen

The BirthdayParty

photos will have to follow, as still on camera.

SB wet last night. our fault, as she was asleep when she came home from her party, and we didn’t lift her soon enough. So in bed with us. BB joined us at 5am. Hmm, must start waking to feed at midnight if it means otherwise an early feed.

I thought I might try and repeat the breakfast in bed thing, but SB joined me v early on with a book on spacetravel [we got it from dynamic earth]. So we both ate egg with soldiers whilst i read it. When we did get up, we came downstairs and did a rather nice picture of spacetravel. [science, art]

The day was so gorgeous, we went to the local park, which SB enjoys cycling around. today she was in rather a hurry to get to the cafe for cheese on toast. gloriously sunny though, with just a bit of a nip to the air. And I have finally sorted out moorhens vs coots in my head. [PE]

Back with a bit of a rush to get ready and out for the party. At least we weren’t late, though had to stop in Asda for candles on the way there. Party went v well, everyone seemed to be having fun, SB particularyl. We had one drop out due to illness, and one non-responder attend, so all evened out. [socialisation]
It did mean another haul of presents though, including some midi hama beads – v nice. A slush maker, jigsaws, lots of books some craft things and some very girly girl things. We opened them when we got home. We has some cake left over, approx 1/5. SB said she wanted it all, but that we could cut it in half to make it easier. on asking for a piece, she was adamant it was her birthday cake, but we did get a bite!

When SB went upstairs to bed with Chris, I had a wiggle and giggle with BB. It is nice to spend some time purely trying to make her laugh. She does it quite readily now, and particularly likes the word digger.

to my great shame, chips for tea. Not very waitwotchery at all.
obviously as a summary, another happy day. tes, there were the odd aarggh get your coat on etc moments, and SB has started screaming often just before I feed her, which I’m not liking? why?? but has been fun.

3 hours, 1/2 pound of icing and glass of wine.

3 hours, 1/2 pound of icing and  glass of wine.

It’s Stringbean’s delayed birthday party tomorrow, so I’ve spent the evening icing the cake that she and Helen made the other day. The design was her request (it didn’t involve pink…..!)
I’m quite impressed with myself really :-)

now for the daily news

SB woke us up – as usual – by crawling into our bed. I think it was just before 5. BB then woke up for a feed. To be fair, BB had slept through from about 10 o clock. this made SB completely perky. As she said, her blood had carried energy to all her body, and there was no sleep left. Sigh! At about 7.00, chris realised resistance was futile and got up. Yay! I spent another 2 hours in bed with BB, then got breakfast in bed. Almost makes up for the complete lack of mothers day I got. 4 in a bed too many though, and will have to buy a superking. the owners of the next house might sell us theirs for a song as it doesn’t fit in their bungalow.

SB proudly announced she had been doing ‘Art’ [it definitely had a capital to it!]. She got an art set for her irthday, with paints, felt tips crayons and pictures to colour in. She particularly liked the white crayon on black paper effect. We played with her dolls while eating my first breakfast, and her second. She is getting more imaginative with her stories as well. I got some kiss cuddle and tickle time in. We do lots of this, I just don’t tend to blog it – it would be a bit like blogging nappy changes!

When I got up and went to ‘puter, she remnded me we needed some more of the match and sort, so we got the next 6 pages of exeter maths printed off, and then did them all. Obviously with breaks for skipping, annoying daddy, getting felt tip and pen on sofa and sulking when they were put away! Yes, my fault for having them on the sofa. We usually do it at the kitchen table though. Daddy was trying to sweep the floor, and kicking the piles was not appreciated. Anyway shes got the bigger than etc stuff sorted. we had to give up on one of the matching to the number line exercises tough, as she was seeing how long the path could be, and after 2 interminable squiggles there was no clear paper left. I was a giggly heap as well, as she was giving the pen road directions.

Beans on toast for lunch, so nice and simple, and we whipped through some of the phonics flash cards. She’s definitely getting the hang of this, though if she guesses the word, she’s apt to say something begining with the last letter or letter sound cluster.

We both had quite a play with BB, getting her to hold and stretch for a rattle. She is giggling a lot, and it makes SB proud. though she says ‘are you making fun of me’ to BB at this point.They’ve both been in a sunny mood today.

She nipped next door to visit our neighbours and then out to her friend’s party. As Chris went to, hopefully he will add something. She came back fast asleep anyway.

I actually did housework [shock]. blogged, and fed and played with BB. Mostly jiggles, tickles and silly names. She really does love her pudding club cube. I also got a letter re my medical. After panicking, i’ve decided to waitwocher [is it tm?] my meals in points, and limit them to breast feeder amounts. hopefully will lose a bit, and get me in habit. I also found some riviying trash on telly – being americas next supermodel. fantastic! They are so bitchy.

so , another good day, relaxed vibe to it.

hmm, getting passwords to work?

even I can’t get in to my password protected blog. wahts that all about then?
i popped in the password in the advanced editing of wordpress where it says Post Password, and thought that bob should be my uncle? he obviously isn’t. Help!
Seems to work now as long as Iclick on the title, and then put in the password. Odd.
oh, and password with comment on a creditable daily mail kind of girl

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Another fun day! and quite educational

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rather a productive day, with SB doing another 4 pages exeter maths 1a. I think she really has got to grips with the bigger and smaller thing. In the end I drew them [bigly - and yes, that word is in far from the madding crowd, so *must* exist!] in green and purple, so that the equals bit more noticeable. We also played around with the concept with manipulatives, people etc etc, having to swap places as I was the big end and she the small so that quite fun. this was liberally interspersed with pogoing up and down the room or skipping using a tape measure. SB is just such an energetic child. [so thats the PE box too!]

we had classic fm in the background, and SB did some dancing to it, and we discussed some of the pieces. She recognised some of the music as well – obviously not by name! digression alert!! That reminds me, at my parents to calm SB and my nephew down after hyper play, in which they accidently pulled down my parents curtains [big sigh!] they watched the fantasia video, and were much taken by the conductor being called mr stokovsky [or something phonetically similar], and whilst driving to Jax’s classic fm said a piece of music had been arranged by mr stokovsky, so SB piped up about it being the same one as fantasia. I was impressed.

We had fun sculpting crazy creatures out of playdough and the ELC bits [thanks again NIC]. And then made sushi with the dough, which BB and I had to pretend to eat. At this point I wasn’t sure whether we were playing the all time favourite of Mummies and Daddies, or its close runner up of Cafe. [art and drama!]

An eclectic lunch of samosa, bob the builder spaghetti shapes, pickled onions and apple [obviously her lunch!] and a calm time looking at new things on the cbeebies website. [IT]

We did some JP in the afternoon, and she’s showing interest in sounding out words in other books, though I have to do the squishing together until the word fairly obvious still. [hmm, didn't think i would get to write all this without NAKing]. got the dressing up things out and liberally scattered all over house. I was bob the builder, BB was Windy [sic] and she was………………………a princess fairy! Are all girls like this? I’m sure I wasn’t. The afternoon whizzed past, with SB making me giggle cos she really is a love [even though it sounds like I'm a bit whingy at the top of this post]

Friday is afternoon-snack-treat-Friday, and I was unable to find the popcorn, but found some sweets she got at the armouries museum last week, so she had those. We then cooked tea root veg curry together. I do try and cook tea with SB as often as poss. she enjoys it, we discuss what we are eating etc, and she whizzes up the veg she’s npt so keen on to go in the sauce [today mushroom, aubergine and red pepper] and cuts the easier veg [french beans]. Yummy!

Chris came home then [agency rang and asked him if he wanted to go back to loony tunes school today, so a lot of hysterical laughter and a no. so got to go to one a bit further up the madhouse evolutionary tree.] I took the opportunity to check other blogs and mails. SB watched a bit of cbeebies and chilled out with Dad.

After tea and bath [which both SB and BB love - cue mad splashing from both] SB wanted some pages from the usborne childrens encyclopaedia read – evolution of man, asia, breathing and polluting the planet. And for the bedtime book, she chose the dk i wonder why one on egyptians – history, geography and science!

I’m still trying to decided what I do with blogging, why I blog etc. I think it is partly diary, partly so that when I meet people IRL etc, there is more instant recognition as it were. [mind you at melrose I was told I wasn't much like my blogs, but my blogs are wordier since then]. Anyway, today I am going to do a feelings sumary!

I love my girls, we had a great fun day. SB is such a joyful child [when we are in the 90% gorgeousness!] and a pleasure to be with. BB also a really easy baby, making this transition from only child to a share as easy as it can be. I have background panics about jobs/money/moving/medicals etc, but feel proud they didn’t distract me from enjoying the here and now. [Doesn't that feel a bit American?] Now where is that red wine??

oh, and a waffle postscript. I highlighted the areas of learning really to show how a day we would have spent just like that is educational without me trying [well, apart from printing the exeter maths I guess]. I do want to regularly do maths and reading, writing too when she is happier to hold the pen, but the rest of it is just putting options on the table, and if she picks them, we do them, and if she doesn’t we don’t. This is not autonomous learning [having been reading Gills posts], but neither is it totally parent directed. I happy with it. She is after all, only 4, so my aim is at this stage to enable her to have tools to learn with, and to show her that there are lots of interesting things out there in the world, whilst keeping our feet rooted in our present. I’m glad no-one has asked me for an ed phil yet!

Giggle Girl

BB has got the most charming giggle. She likes jiggles and raspberries best, and leg waggling. It only tends to happen when SB not around, as then there is too much noise, chaos and possibly outright fear! I think BB has the best dimply smile ever anyway, but now she has this giggle instead of just wide open mouth, totally irresistible.

Sibling Issues: I think SB is jealous of the feeding of BB, and certainly if I pay BB attention at other times, it is not well received. Though i’m also in no doubt that SB really does love BB, and is really glad she is here. She often spontaneously hugs and kisses her, and tries to entertain her too. I’ve been trying to get SB really interested in something, and then do an extended nappy change so we can play. I leave the nappy off, so when SB comes up investigating [5 mins max before she is bouncing all over our bed] I can tell her its botty airtime. I’m not quite sure how best to do this.

I have always given SB a lot of attention, and don’t want her to feel that she’s not wanted as much now BB here. [I don't think she feels this at the mo] , but I certainly have had to do a lot of hard work on my relationship with SB since i went to work in Cambridgeshire before my mat leave, to get back to our previous loving position, and don’t want to jeopardise this. Particularly as I am returning to work in May. however, also love BB, and she is getting to that age where being cuddled and smiled at with a kick under her gym is not enough – although she is happy enough. SB will play on her own, but she prefers me to play with her, particularly if I am otherwise playing with BB. I do try and include her, but SB is so full on, that she can get too boisterous. When both of us here, its obviously easier. I’m hoping we can ease into a compromise pattern, but any clues??

Jax didn’t die………..

……from eating the cake. Big and Small sensibly declined! Me ‘n SB will eat anything if labelled cake!

Anyway, we nipped to see Jax – late as usual. How can it take so long to get out of the door?? Big and SB picked up where they had left off at Melrose and disappeared to play Mummies and Daddies. There was a brief contretemps over who was being Mummy after a while, and settled by them both being Mummies with babies. Small was a cutie, showing his new found jigsaw skills. BB mainly slept and fed [and was cuddled a lot by small]. Jax and I nattered, so a fun day out for all. Thankyou for having us.

Traffic back reasonably hideous, but worse in the other direction. SB fell asleep in car, so getting her to sleep now a bit problematical. She had a poor night sleep last night though, so really should drop off soon, as was exhausted.

Got back to find Chris excavating in the garage. It would make a good archaeological excercise for some willing home-edders. Actually could see some of the floor for the first time. Even better, he had some jacket potatoes on, so we got to have a scrummy eat.

It was quite a mountain of washing chris put away. However, I am sad that BB has grown so quickly that she just doesn’t seem a little baby. She is wearing clothes that SB wore when she was learning to walk, and it seems really odd. There’s a red cord dress which was one of my favs with SB, and I felt actually that I had lost something looking at it – maybe SB’s glorious early walking phase. hmm. Anyway, it does seem sad to be tidying away the 3-6 month clothes, as clothes over that age just don’t seem baby clothes to me. BB gorgeous though. Kicking in her play gym at the moment, with heavy herher sounds.