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hmm, lets do some blogging
last week i was lucky enough to swan off to a conference to lake como. we ate at good restaurants and learnt a lot in a good conference. the hotel was way out of town though, and getting back from the station, it was safest to walk along the railway tracks of the goods yard… not something you expect really to do! the only day out trip to belagio was lovely. I did, however, spend the entire conference getting more and more worried about little nanny, she had seemed to be getting better monday and tues, but by thurs things were not rosy, and on fri i knew active treatment had been withdrawn, and i just wanted to get home.
so having travelled all sat, i was welcomed home by a fantastic hug and cuddle from my girls. migrainous and travel sick on discussion with mum, i was encouraged [tho didn't need much] not to set straight out. so we snuggled, watched dr who, ate curry and made an early night.
not too quick off the mark to go out, and was rung to say i was too late after all. i feel dreadful that i didn’t re-prioritise things and see little nanny that last time to kiss her goodbye. prob silly, as she had slipped into a morphine sleep by saturday. but… so as no longer visiting, imposed on the manor borns to keep me sane.
we had a lovely, tho v lazy rspb walk, and have had to promise C i will do better next tine
the kids appeared to have fun anyway, and bb was being particularly gorgeous really. all 3 played together without any major kerfuffles throughout the evening too, and after a lovely relaxed meal we went home to pop all of us straight to bed.
and so today, we were going to norfolk, and then not as it was a getting documents day [i have 2 days compassionate leave] and instead going tomorrow. [later and later]. so we decided to do fun things, like baking. we all got up v late, had brekkie v late, and then sb made brownies from *her* recipe book, and bb and i made a yummy choc sponge. the girls then played with silly string until it ran out. BB wanted to read a french book Lucy Cat at the Beach: Lucie Chat a La Plage (Lucy Cat) falls off perch in surprise, but agreed! SB did a verbal reasoning book and then read It’s Elementary: Putting the Crackle into Chemistry (Dk Reference)
and wants to try and turn her urine into phosphorus now.
more playing, and we made pictures with light reactive paper, Sun Print Paper, which i remember enjoying as a child, and we did today. SB off to ballet, and BB and i did some pond dipping, and then retired to watch donald duck. on SB’s return, we made another cake from her recipe book Marie Claire Kitchen
and had ken hom vietnames stew for dinner [SB's favourite dinner in fact]
SB and I then looked at some tiny pond bugs that i had captured with her digital microscope. slightly tricky as they kept whisking about, but she did manage to take some photos. No idea what they were. very speedy though!
anyway, tomorrow to norfolk. thanks everyone for your good wishes and thoughts, I have REALLY appreciated it.
Posted in Blogging, Butterbean's HE, Cooking, Dance/drama, General, investigating, language, literacy, little languages, science, Stringbean's HE
Goodbye Little Nanny
I don’t know where to start with this blogpost, and some time I will write what I really would like to say, probably sobbing all over the keyboard. At the moment, I just want to say that I loved my nanny with all my heart, that she loved me back in a tangible way all my life, and that I will miss her.




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work in progress – dcsf latest home ed consult on registration
A work in progress, but popped on here. please please fill it in, even if without comment
Consultation Questions
Do you agree that these proposals strike the right balance between the rights of parents to home educate and the rights of children to
receive a suitable education?
disagree
i think that the dcsf has entirely failed to grasp that home education aims to provide children with a personally tailored,
individual education aimed to stretch them at their age, ability and aptitude. that actually the dcsf is interfering with what is
already suitably legislated for already. my childrens rights and mine are not things that need to be balanced. as a parent i work for my child’s
best interest, they need no other advocate but me.
Do you agree that a register should be kept?
disagree
i think a register will be unnecessary with the arrival of contact point.
Do you agree with the information to be provided for registration?
disagree
Do you agree that home educating parents should be required to keep the register up to date?
disagree
Do you agree that it should be a criminal offence to fail to register or to provide inadequate or false information?
disagree
i strongly disagree with the need for this to be an offence, particularly a criminal offence.
Do you agree that home educated children should stay on the roll of their former school for 20 days after parents notify that they intend
to home educate?
disagree
Do you agree that the school should provide the local authority with achievement and future attainment data?
Agree
Do you agree that DCSF should take powers to issue statutory guidance in relation to the registration and monitoring of home education?
disagree
i disagree most strongly. the badman report was biased in favour of his preliminary assumptions, and his ‘beliefs’, thus he
disregarded any published evidence of success of autonomous education, and the 2000+ submissions by home
educators and home educated children who very much disagreed with the style of monitoring success and achievement against promised
objectives he suggests.
Do you agree that children about whom there are substantial safeguarding concerns should not be home educated?
not sure
I think this decision should be made through a multiprofessional forum, where substantial safeguarding concerns are
shown to be actual, and interventions planned for the family.
Do you agree that the local authority should visit the premises where home education is taking place provided 2 weeks notice is given?
disagree
i do not believe there should be a right to enter the home. i believe current arrangements under current law are
satisfactory
Do you agree that the local authority should have the power to interview the child, alone if this is judged appropriate, or if not in the
presence of a trusted person who is not the parent/carer?
disagree
i absolutely disagree with this. i think that children, whether deemed to be vulnerable or not, should not be interviewed in
this manner unless there are already clearly significant safeguarding concerns, and this has been passed through to child
protection. i do not believe this should be through the local authority education arm at all, and feel that ‘mission creep’ will otherwise see more
chldren upset and traumatised by interogation by strangers without understanding the reason or process.
Do you agree that the local authority should visit the premises and interview the child within four weeks of home education starting, after
6 months has elapsed, at the anniversary of home education starting, and thereafter at least on an annual basis? This would not
preclude more frequent monitoring if the local authority thought that was necessary.
disagree
i do not agree that they should visit the premises, i specifically do not agree that 4 weeks gives long enough for a
deschooling period for traumatised children, and wonder why home educators should be assessed more frequently than
schools – even known ‘failing schools’. i believe that the more frequent monitoring sets a position for harrassment of home educators. a
maximum of yearly information gathering – by visit or by educational information seems reasonable to me, and especially in the primary years
frequent visits appear to be pointlessly expensive, and biennial may be more reasonable. again i strongly disagree that this needs to be
visiting the home. i note that you have not discussed in this at all whether the local authority should set up committees with home educators,
should be suitably trained in home education and the many methods that may be utilised, nor have you discussed any of the scarce few
positives from the badman review – ie provision of rooms/ resources and exams. this strikes me that you plan to implement a draconian
monitoring system to absolutely guarentee a poor working relationship between home educators and the LA, without implementing anything
that may involve expenditure with a benefit for home educators. i think this is shameful. in my opinion, current legislation is more than
sufficient, both for educational welfare and child safety.
something borrowed, something new, something off to tories blue
I sent this letter to my MP, as you can see, i did borrow somewhat heavily from the Staffordshire blog, as I am very time pressed at the mo, but still wanted to do something. i note how fabulous and active they are being, and will try and be so myself
Thankyou for all your correspondence whilst we awaited the review into
home education
I wish to seek your support in opposing the reforms to current practice
proposed by Graham Badman in his “Report to the Secretary of State on
the Review of Elective Home Education in England” for the following
reasons:
1. The Review fails to make a case for its recommendations. The
Secretary of State says it contains strong arguments, but there is, in
fact, little argument supported by evidence in the review. We would
have welcomed a well argued, evidence based review, as this would have
enabled an engagement. Instead there is assertion, but little analysis
and evidence – for instance, the review simply says ‘I believe …’ 16
times.
2. The review lacks intellectual rigour, independence or impartiality.
Where evidence is presented there is an absence of critical analysis,
together with highly selective use of quotations from respondents. Thus
it includes without comment a lengthy, and somewhat naïve, quotation
from the Education Division of the Church of England, but does include
a quote from a home educator which is less than complementary about
local authority staff. The use of quotations is not ‘neutral’, they
serve to highlight certain views merely by their inclusion. In the
review, he notes that he is not convinced by any of the positive
research into home education in this country or others, despite this by
well respected researchers. however, no other data being available, his
lack of conviction is without empirical reference.
3. Evidence on abuse by home educators – a key argument used to justify
action (see below) – is absent from the review report. Somewhat
surprisingly given the review’s terms of reference there is no analysis
of the actual number of suspected and found child abuse cases involving
home educators. Indeed, there are no robust figures or trends presented
(even at an aggregated level), instead there is a vague reference to
‘local authority evidence and case studies’. Thus it is impossible to
tell whether the concerns about possible child abuse are based in fact
or merely imagined. I requested, through the freedom of information
act, the information from [my local] LA about welfare concerns amongst
home educated families, and they knew of no cases.
[link to the response on what do they know]
The review rightly points out that the number of parents opting for
elective home education is unknown. Yet it also claims that ‘the number
of children known to children’s social care in some local authorities
is disproportionately high relative to their home educating
population’. But given that the size of the home education population
is unknown, it is impossible to calculate the proportion, unless these
councils have made up a base for the calculation; in effect the
statement is meaningless.
4. This lack of evidence and analysis is compounded by the absence of
expertise amongst the review panel. In the absence of evidence, some
degree of confidence in the review’s judgements might rest on the
expertise of those involved. They could perhaps be forgiven for simply
making assertions if they had expertise or relevant professional
knowledge of the subject matter. Unfortunately this is not the case. No
home educating parent was on the review team. This does not accord with
a Government that wishes to listen to the public and empower them.
Combined with the first point, this undermines the legitimacy of the
review – why should what appears to be no more that the prejudices of
this group of people be imposed upon the home education community?
5. Furthermore the recommendations are not logically consistent with
review’s limited evidence.
a. The review says that many LAs are not performing adequately, but
then recommends they have more powers. Without an analysis of why they
are failing it would seem inappropriate to give them more powers; this
would simply create problems and maladministration claims for the
future.
b. The review recognises the diversity of home educators, but fails to
take this in to account in its ‘one size fits all’ recommendations
6. A key statement from the review, informing its recommendations is:
“The question is simply a matter of balance and securing the right
regulatory regime within a framework of legislation that protects the
rights of all children, even if in transaction such regulation is only
necessary to protect a minority.”
This guiding ‘principle’ is presented with no provisos or limits. It is
highly risk adverse position, and assumes that all parents are capable
of abuse. This leads to recommendations that are disproportionate and
even the Secretary of State is wary of the cost implications.
Indeed, it logically follows from this that parents of all pre-school
children must be registered and inspected annually; even that visits
are required of children attending school during vacations.
7. I would like to draw your attention to one of the recommendations
being that authorised officers should have the right to speak to each
child alone, and only if the child is particularly vulnerable or
communication difficulties can they have a trusted adult. Personally, I
will refuse this right of access for strangers to interrogate my
children.
You also need to know that the review was poorly conducted – for
example:
• It was announced as a consultation on the consultation website then
when it was pointed out that it was not compliant with the Consultation
Code of Practice it suddenly became a review;
• The review outcome was partially pre-judged in advance, Graham
Badman, author of the review, publicly said as much when he asserted
the status quo could not remain long before the review was completed;
and
• The on-line questionnaire used to gather home educators and others’
views was badly designed involving leading and poorly constructed
questions.
In addition, the review process has angered and alienated many home
educators. The review report and the Secretary of State highlight the
importance of there being good relationships with home educators.
However, the review has undermined this objective; it has even been
counterproductive. Many home educators are now opting out of any
involvement with their local authorities after many years of effort to
improve relationships with them.
I realise that policy on home education is probably seen as part of the
‘backwater’ of political debate in Parliament, and that at present
other issues have higher media and public profile. However, the home
education community is a vocal and organised, if disparate, group, and
you might like to advise your colleagues to take an interest in this
issue as it has the potential to generate some very adverse publicity
for the party.
The review report can be found at:
http://www.dcsf.gov.uk/everychildmatters/homeeducation/
If you or a member of your staff require more information or details of
sources, please do not hesitate to get in touch with me. I believe that
from the outset this review has been prejudiced against home-education
and home-educators, using supposition and flights of fancy to justify
draconian monitoring, registration and interrogation permissions which
far exceed those expected by children at school, and ignoring or
belittling all of the research and evidence in favour of home-education
or maintaining the status quo.
I look forward to hearing from you, and would be happy to meet with you
to discuss this further.
Yours sincerely,
so, sorry for rampant plagiarism, but anyway, he has written back, suggesting this has been discussed in tory policy circles, and has forwarded my letter onto ed balls for further discussion.
and the winner is…
today the girls took their entries to the village fete whilst i went to work, and then pootled around, sb doing some recorder and reading, and bb just pootling really. when i returned, sb made me eggy bread all by herself [including the hobs] and it was delish.
we then mosied down to the village hall, and were greeted with congratulations, so it was clear the girls were going to be happy. and the gods of equality were also shining, as SB got first prize for her decorated cakes, and third prize for her recycling poster, and BB got first prize for the colour in the frog picture and third prize for her recycling poster. woohoo us! obviously they wondered why there other things didn’t win
but were pretty happy. i loved some of the other classes entries, and will def try and make and keep some jam/jelly and a chutney for next year! with the giving out of prizes there was another surprise, SB won best of cookery/baking classes – apparently first time a child has won. SHe got an enormous marie claire cookery book. SHe was most happy and impressed, tho the compere looked worried.
we had a home ed discussion with someone there, who was interested and not overtly anti. and she asked sb whether it was good to have 1:1 teaching. sb responded that we just give her things to do so that we can get on with other things
so really not looking forward to her first interview without us!! honestly, readers of the blog, does that really seem the way we do things?
back home, and sb decided she wanted to make yorkshire puds from the recipe book, and therefore made a roast dinner [with a bit of help] and we were all happy. we had bb biscuits and generous helpings of fresh picked strawbs for pud. fantastic!
todays more stressful events were that aunty m arrived at little nanny to find her v confused, prob hadn’t been to bed and def unwell. gp out and ? infection so aunty m told to nurse at home. a few phone calls between us, and a trip then to a and e. if i wasn’t on duty would have gone too. but now little nanny in hosp in the pretty unwell end of the spectrum. mum now there 2. aargh for needing to be in loads of places at once, because i really can’t get there for a week. i think that will be 2 late. obviously not sending john lewis flowers…
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why is it?
1. that all the book series i look forward to reading with sb she does with chris! they have read the narnia, the second george book, uncle albert and are now onto the The Dark is Rising Sequence: !!
2. that i am trying to maintain this blog, when chris does all the he, all the living of life with the girls and doesn’t. hmm, actually, don’t answer that one
so anyway, to this week. well i guess exciting things have happened, like sb did her judo grading and got her next belt [yellow/white] whilst i was at work. they all had a fun latinetc – whilst i was at work. ok, i was on a course, and a really good course, but actually would have preferred to be at home! we have done a fair bit of evening stuff together though, reading, watching Walking with Cavemen [DVD] [2003], reading some books around it, Prehistoric Peoples: Discover the Long-ago World of the First Humans (Exploring History)
, playing all sorts of games. i did get to go to tots and nots and multisports i guess as recompense, oh and sainsbury’s where bB fell in love with a mr messy t-shirt… we finished reading Black Ships Before Troy
.
today – although obviously been to work – we have done loads together, mostly in the making mess half of home ed! we have baked cakes – bb and i made cinnamon cupcakes [yum] and sb made choc chip cupcakes, and then they decorated them for village fete tomorrow. SB has done a partic fab job. they also each made a poster on recycling for said village fete, are going to enter some fimo creations too. they have been playing beautifully with each other as well at the moment. i do so love them both.
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and so today it rained
and we were therefore greatful not to have been camping! it rained torrentially in fact, and the drains couldn’t cope. and the roof leaked, but hey, it has been doing that since we moved it. it is on ‘the list’.
SO, what with the people across the way having something or other that meant drilling up the road – surely roads aren’t drilled up on sunday? it is sunday isn;t it?? i haven’t missed a day or something crazy?? anyway, that woke me up fairly early, and a poor night sleep anyway as cuddling sb through a load of nightmares.
oh yes, so actually we had a very good day today, the girls played with each other beautifully, whether it be with sylvanians, the castle stuff, wild games or dancing – and they did some of each!! they also both did some sewing with me. bb a yellow moon kit, and sb making a felt needle holder, and also a something [not quite sure what] for bb. they watched arial, and then sung it on and off all day. they both ‘putered a bit, got read to a bit – both went for these books
so we talked around that. Merry, have you got still one of my books? and is this the one you have
before they went off into their own imagination for a bit.
ermm, what else, oh yes, we played some games altogether, and got out previously pressed flowers, and put in some new pressed flowers, sb did a piano practice, getting along with triplets ok.
so there was our day. lots of snuggling, cuddling and general playing [and a LOT of noise!!]
riding along on my pushbike
well, that was then plan, well, plan B. plan A had been to go camping in derbyshire this weekend and play about on bike rides there. With the death of Uncle Robert, we didn’t really feel right to go on holiday. Mind you, having planned to go camping, i didn’t look at anything else, and now realised we have missed strawberry fair – again! oh well!!
we got up, got ready, got in the car, drove out of the drive, drove back into the drive and then attached the indicator/reg plate thingy.
but we did get going, and went to thetford. TBH, i feel nervous about cycling after all this time. this prob is silly [after all, i survived cycling in london for 7 years!], but i wanted to wibble and wobble off road, where we could stop in the shade, and find something interesting to comment on and do, and no sense that we had to get from a to b or go round something. and where if my unfitness was too dreadful, that i didn’t need to feel mortified!
so, anyway, we got there, nearly died when it seemed that parking was nearly 10 pounds!! shrugged, and got on with it. we had a picnic lunch, twiddled and fiddled with the bikes, and set off on the 6 mile family route. it says this is a really easy family route for beginners etc, but , as you will read, it isn’t exactly.
we identified a problem early on. bb is incapable of going a steady speed, watching where she is going, or even going in a vaguely straight trajctory for any length of time. both sb and i did emergency stops early on. chris didn’t, and was the first cycling accident, obtaining a war wound, which we all decided to ignore. and then we got to the path
it was very sandy, and very sandy means very easy to skid and slip. and so they did! alot! so we did about 50m at a time. no worries that i might look foolish or out of breath there was there! by the time i had got on bike, i was off, hugging a wailing child. SB had got new pedals with clippy bits, and she didn’t like them. BB at least didn’t mind falling into the sand. luckilly chris brought tools with him, as SB managed to turn her wheel right round and wedge it with one fall, and bb managed to push her wheel and handlebar out of alignment with another
finally we had bb on the trailgator – and another stop to sort out the alignment of that and we were really off. i think at this point we had done 15 mins cycle and 40 mins pause! the next stop was a mercy mission as i stopped a dad going past whose trailgator was on so badly that the child was almost sideways. chris fixed that too. lots of kids, and even some adults were skidding/falling in the sandyness. so yes, it was mostly flat, and an easy trail to follow, but not an easy trail to ride.
We had a single hilly bit and stopped at the top for chocolate and refreshment, having actually managed a cycle. sb was being grumpy, so we decided her blood sugar was too low, so fed her and made her drink! it did the job. we saw a couple of despondant families turn back, as this was only a third way round. we looked on the map, found a ‘shortcut’ down a firebreak and forest road, and had the best bit of cycling! not sandy, a bit flinty at times [another sb fall] and even bb came off the trailgator and cycled happily all the rest of the way – about another 2 miles – and we did this bit happily and quickly. so next time would try and avoid the sandy bit!
I got brave enough to adjust the height of the saddle to the correct position, rather than worrying i needed to put feet on the floor. and i also really enjoyed it, and i was right about being crap going uphill – so def more no pressure rides for me first!
we had icecreams back at base. SB was really jealous of those on go ape, and so they played in the adventure park for an hour or so until we left. a chippy pick up since it was late and we were hoping kids might be tired enough to extract from car to bed [nope, slept all the way, woke up at home and now really irritating me!] and had it a carpark which is free, and you can join the cycle trail from after the sandy bit [i guess that will be where we are parking again - though actually we did get the parking free at high lodge anyway due to being so late out and jools holland concert goers arriving.]
so that was our first cycle outing, and we all enjoyed it.
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